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The Power of Reflection in Parenting

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Episode Title: The Power of Reflection in Parenting

In this reflective and honest episode, Shane and Pete dive into the powerful aftermath of their conversation with Paul Snow—unpacking the emotional weight of watching it back and how it stirred something deeper in both of them.

This week, it’s just the two dads in the studio, exploring how personal experiences shape the way we show up as parents. They talk about breaking cycles, working as a team, and the importance of not letting past wounds define present-day parenting. From family traditions to the magic of one-on-one time, this episode is a reminder that parenting is less about being perfect and more about staying connected.

🍼 Key Moments:

00:00 – Introduction and recap of the episode with Paul

01:45 – Reflections on personal experiences and parenting
05:48 – Why communication and teamwork matter as parents
10:07 – Exploring traditions and what they really mean
17:33 – Creating connection through one-on-one time
21:45 – Challenges in maintaining family closeness
29:08 – Growth moments and parenting takeaways

🌱 Takeaways & Themes:

  • Paul’s reflections really hit home—even for Paul
  • Your past doesn’t define your parenting—but it can guide it
  • Learned experiences are a superpower when used with intention
  • Growth comes from ownership, not playing the victim
  • Repair after mistakes matters more than getting it right the first time
  • Traditions are less about what you do and more about being present
  • One-on-one time creates connection that group time can’t always reach
  • Letting kids be kids is one of the best gifts we can give them
  • Parenting well takes planning, effort, and constant course-correction

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        🎧 Production:

        Edited with gratitude by the legends at Propodcast – helping us sound good even when we're running on no sleep and caffeine.

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        This podcast isn’t a licensed mental health service. We’re not psychologists—we’re just two blokes sharing our lived experience. If you need support, please reach out to a professional.

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        From One Dad To AnotherBy Shane Kelton