If you work with preschoolers on the autism spectrum, you’ve probably felt the pressure of an endless list of therapy targets. The reality? You don’t have unlimited time, and neither do your students. That’s why it’s essential to focus on the single most pivotal skill that drives long-term outcomes: commenting.
In this episode of the Preschool SLP Podcast, Kelly Vess unpacks why commenting — both verbal and nonverbal — is the skill that can truly change lives. But it’s not just about asking a child to point, show, or bring an object. Those outward behaviors depend on foundational skills that children with autism often struggle with, including:
- Core strength and motor control – children can’t point or show without stability.
- Attention and executive function – sustaining focus and carrying out a task is harder than it looks.
- Visual perception and integration – kids need to orient their bodies and their gaze to communicate.
Kelly challenges the “wizard talk” often found in diagnostic criteria — vague language about motivation and intention — and instead shows how to target observable, teachable skills. She explains why hands-off, task-oriented movement activities are more effective than passive, hands-on methods like holding, guiding, or over-scaffolding. When we step back and let kids navigate their own challenge points, we give them the tools they need to build independence, attention, and, ultimately, the ability to comment.
🔑 What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
- Why commenting is the most powerful skill to prioritize in autism intervention.
- The hidden motor, perceptual, and attention demands behind commenting.
- Why over-helping holds kids back — and how to step back without stepping away.
- How to design therapy sessions around motivating, active challenges that foster communication growth.
💡 As speech-language pathologists, we don’t just need theory — we need practical tools we can use this week. That’s why the SIS Membership provides educationally-rich, empirically-based, ready-for-use weekly activities designed to build the exact skills discussed in this episode.
👉 Join SIS today and transform your therapy at www.kellyvess.com/sis.