Diana Oehrli sits down with Octavian Graf Pilati, whose family owned the same Austrian forest since 1730, to explore what happens when privilege meets crisis. After his family lost everything to fraud when he was just 25, Octavian discovered something most wealthy families never learn: comfort creates fragility, and hardship builds strength.

In this raw conversation, listeners will discover how to prepare the next generation for real adversity through intentional discomfort. Octavian shares the framework behind antifragility for families, explaining why conflict avoidance destroys wealth faster than market crashes and how giving children early authority with guardrails builds competence instead of entitlement.

Diana and Octavian dismantle the myth of the three-generation wealth curse while exploring why CEOs and prison inmates share similar neurodivergent traits. They reveal how the stewardship trap robs heirs of agency, why trust funds often create the exact incompetence they're designed to prevent, and what families can do instead.

Listeners will learn practical strategies for building antifragility across five types of family capital, understand why productive conflict is essential for family innovation, and discover how intentional hardship retreats prepare families for inevitable crises. This episode offers a blueprint for raising competent heirs who get stronger through challenges rather than shattered by them.

Diana Oehrli sits down with 60-year music industry veteran Ned Albright to explore how unlimited resources can become a death sentence... and what it takes to survive them.

Ned's résumé reads like rock and roll history. Record deal at 15. Songs for the Monkees and Glen Campbell. Sessions with Michael Jackson. His band opened for Bob Marley. He played on Montego Bay and had a multi-artist supersession jam with Bob Dylan at 3am.

But the real story isn't about the hits.

It's about getting kicked out of four schools before turning 16. Nine months in Central America that ended in a Mexican prison. Watching friends with generational wealth die from overdoses. And nearly 44 years of hard-won sobriety that taught him something most people never learn...
That the hole in your soul can't be fixed with money.

In this raw, wandering conversation, Diana and Ned explore how to recognize when privilege is actually privilege... and when it's a trap. How to measure success by what you give instead of what you have. And why the most meaningful life might be the one you build after you lose everything.

Learn how to spot the warning signs of wealth-enabled addiction. How to find purpose beyond achievement. And why volunteering with underserved kids taught Ned more about receiving than 60 years in the music industry ever did.

If you've ever wondered why having everything still feels empty... or if you're trying to help someone whose resources are destroying them... this episode will show you what's actually on the other side of surrender.

Diana Oehrli sits down with Grant Calder, founder of Fleet and her first coach over a decade ago, for a deeply personal conversation about the limiting beliefs that keep us stuck and the tools that set us free.

Grant shares how a Tony Robbins fire walk shattered his belief that he was "too old and incapable" of pursuing an MBA... a moment that completely redirected his life toward coaching and leadership development. Diana reveals her own journey from feeling trapped in Gstaad and terrified of being alone to building a coaching practice and finding peace in solitude.

Here's what you'll learn by listening to this full conversation:

→ How to identify the limiting beliefs secretly running your life... and the exact moment Grant realized his "best thinking" was what got him stuck in the first place

→ Why marble jar trust matters more than perfection... and how to rebuild connection after misalignment without destroying the relationship entirely

→ The daily refocus practice Grant's used for 15 years that helps him manage overwhelm without losing his mind (hint: it involves a floating digital post-it note)

→ How 25 years of sobriety gave Grant a "suitcase of tools" he now uses to coach leaders through fear, uncertainty, and the messy reality of entrepreneurship

→ What "half measures availed us nothing" actually means... and why going all-in doesn't require working yourself to death

→ The mindset mantras Grant relies on when outcomes slip beyond his control (including his favorite: "improvise, adapt, overcome, persist, march forward")

Diana and Grant also explore the evolution of coaching itself... from skepticism 20 years ago to AI-assisted platforms today, and why human connection still can't be replaced by algorithms.

Whether you're navigating privilege, building something new, or simply trying to get unstuck from a life everyone thinks you should be grateful for... this conversation offers practical wisdom wrapped in genuine friendship and mutual respect.

Diana Oehrli sits down with seven-time Inc 5000 honoree and bestselling author Ryan Levesque to explore how chasing conventional success nearly cost him his life... twice. After being rushed to the ICU at 30 with organs shutting down, Ryan rebuilt his business around health instead of hustle. But even that wasn't enough.
In this raw conversation, Ryan reveals the unexpected moment that led him to trade his Texas business scene for a 100-acre Vermont farm... and why that decision might hold the answer to the loneliness, disconnection, and dissatisfaction plaguing high-achievers everywhere.

Viewers will learn how to recognize when convenience is actually killing them, why oxytocin (not dopamine) is the neurochemical that matters most, and how to reintegrate physical struggle into their lives without abandoning their careers. Diana and Ryan explore the hidden cost of contactless convenience, the biological wisdom we've lost by living through screens, and why hands in the dirt might be the ultimate status symbol.

Whether you're drowning in a sea of sameness or simply sensing something's missing despite having everything... this conversation offers a map back to what's real.

What does it actually take to keep reinventing yourself... without burning out in the process?

Leslie Hocker went from being one of the first female executives in petroleum to opening Houston's first Pilates studio to building a thriving wellness business. But here's what makes her story different... she's not running FROM something. She's running TOWARD a life where her future self will thank her.

In this episode, Diana sits down with Leslie to unpack:
→ How to build a morning routine that actually sticks (hint: it takes less than 30 minutes and changes everything)
→ Why squats might be the secret to living independently past 100 (Leslie's mom lived to 102 with zero meds)
→ The difference between "bucket lists" and "live it lists" and why the language you use matters more than you think
→ How to recognize burnout before it destroys what you've built... and what to do when you feel yourself heading there
→ Why boundaries with your kids (even adult ones) might be the most loving thing you ever do
→ The real secret to working with your spouse without wanting to murder them

Diana brings her signature curiosity about privilege, pressure, and what success actually costs... while Leslie shares decades of hard-won wisdom about competing with yourself instead of others, finding silver linings in every setback, and building businesses where everyone wins together.

If you've ever felt stuck between the life you have and the life you actually want... this conversation will show you exactly how to bridge that gap.

Diana Oehrli sits down with Hunter Ziesing, former Wall Street exec turned longevity revolutionary, for a conversation that'll make you rethink everything about healthcare.

After losing his father in his early 60s and watching five friends die from preventable diseases, Hunter did what any brilliant, slightly obsessive person would do... he left Wall Street and built Longevity Health to democratize the kind of testing and tracking that only billionaires could afford.

In this episode, you'll discover:
→ How to get "billionaire-level" health testing without spending $200k at fancy clinics
→ Why your wearables and apps aren't actually changing your health (and what will)
→ The AI voice agent that knows your health better than your doctor does
→ How gamification could finally make you stop ignoring your bone density
→ The trillion-dollar vision that could put all your health data in one place for less than your Netflix subscription

Diana brings her signature curiosity and refreshing honesty to this conversation... asking the questions you'd actually want answered. Like whether intrinsic motivation beats cash rewards. And why we have the most expensive healthcare in the world with some of the worst outcomes.

If you've ever felt overwhelmed by conflicting health advice, expensive tests that lead nowhere, or the sneaking suspicion that our healthcare system is designed to keep us sick... this episode is your wake-up call.

What happens when the very wealth that's supposed to solve all your problems... becomes the reason you can't get the help you desperately need?

Dr. Paul Hokemeyer doesn't do surface-level conversations. Harvard Medical School grad, lawyer-turned-therapist, and the guy who's spent decades actually treating billionaires in crisis (not just reading about them in textbooks).

In this episode, Diana sits down with Paul to unpack something most people don't even realize is happening...

How the isolation that comes with wealth creates an impossible paradox when you're trying to heal.

Here's what you're actually going to learn:
→ Why traditional therapy fails wealthy clients before the first session even starts (and the three cultural markers that make trust nearly impossible)
→ How to recognize if you have a "secure" or "insecure" attachment to your money... and why that changes EVERYTHING about your mental health
→ The specific ways hyper-agency keeps you stuck in patterns that look like success but feel like suffocation
→ What narcissism actually is versus what Instagram therapists say it is (spoiler: your ex might not be one)
→ How to find a therapist who won't be afraid to tell you the truth... even when you're writing the check
→ Why the "micro community" approach might be the only thing that works when you can't trust anyone outside your tax bracket

Diana brings her signature blend of lived experience and zero BS to this conversation. She's been the woman hiding in her Swiss village after a breakup. She's worked with families where nobody will tell the matriarch she has a drinking problem because they're terrified of losing her foundation donations.

And Paul? He's the rare clinician who can hold space for a suicidal billionaire at 3am... while also calling out the Ivy League professor who tried to cancel his work on wealthy populations.

This isn't therapy-speak wrapped in fancy words.

It's two people who've actually lived and worked in this world... having the conversation nobody else is brave enough to have.

Fair warning: If you've been using your resources to avoid feeling anything uncomfortable... this episode is going to make you squirm a little.

But maybe that's exactly what you need.

How do you build something meaningful when every cell in your body is screaming for instant results?

Diana sits down with her longtime friend, business thinker Dorie Clark, for an honest conversation about patience, privilege, and the lonely road of playing the long game.

This isn't your typical business podcast.

You'll learn how to recognize when busyness is just armor against loneliness... why saying no to the people you love might be the most loving thing you can do... and how two former alternative weekly journalists turned their deadline-driven mentalities into sustainable success.

Diana and Dorie trade stories about growing up different (gay in the South, third-culture kid bouncing between continents), finding belonging in unexpected places, and why the pressure to be perfect might be the very thing holding you back.

You'll discover how to use the "coffee sip moments" in your calendar to prevent burnout... when to listen to your gut instead of your prefrontal cortex... and why Dorie's high blood pressure diagnosis during her book launch became a wake-up call she couldn't ignore.

Plus, Dorie shares the surprising connection between being a "connector" and trauma responses, why she had to say no to her wife's big speaking event, and how writing musical theater is teaching her lessons about patience that even her Harvard theology degree couldn't.

My piano teacher Grigorios joins me to talk about what happens when you stop forcing things and start flowing instead. We go back to Greece where his mentor Yorgos threw music at him as a teenager. Grig learned 20 concertos by age 18. But here's the thing—the more relaxed he got, the faster he learned. Tension kills the music. Tension kills the memory. You have to find a way to let it flow. We talk about Bruce Lee's "be like water" philosophy and how it shows up at the piano. About surrender on stage. About the moment when it's not you playing anymore—something higher takes over. About how the way you live affects the way you perform. Grig teaches me about the mind, the heart, and the will. How all three have to work together. How music is one of the few things that lets you develop all three at once. And he gives us the mantra he'd put above his piano: "May be enough for today." This one's for anyone who's pushing too hard. Anyone who's wound too tight. Anyone who needs permission to relax into their power instead of forcing it.

Links

grigorioszamparas.com

Credits

Thank The Team: To all those who help me. Gwendolyn Christian for the scheduling and Oliver Kiker for the theme music.

In this conversation, Rossella Vasta shares her profound journey as an artist and educator, reflecting on her experiences with paralysis, the healing power of art, and the importance of community and spirituality. She discusses her project, the Table of Silence, which commemorates the victims of 9/11, and explores the roles of women in spirituality and the influence of St. Francis. Rossella emphasizes the interconnectedness of humanity through the concept of entanglement and the significance of creativity in overcoming adversity. She also touches on her family's impact on her artistic development and the cultural differences in approaches to life, particularly between Italian and American cultures.

"Men make plans and God laughs."
"We are all entangled."
"Art transforms chaos into order."

 Links:

The Artist: https://www.rossellavasta.com

School site: www.pieveschool.net

Buglisi Dance Theatre: https://www.buglisidance.org/table-of-silence

Table of Silence: https://www.tableofsilence.org