Being “the strong one” often comes with hidden costs—burnout, guilt, people-pleasing, hyper-independence, and forgetting our own needs. In this episode of the Healing Chingon Podcast, I share personal stories about breaking these patterns, setting healthier boundaries, and redefining what strength really means. This honest conversation explores the toll of carrying the weight for others, the impact on mental and emotional health, and the powerful shift that happens when we choose self-love and allow ourselves to ask for help.