Host Thomas Henley is joined by psychologist Laura Gwilt to explore the complexities of the manosphere — the digital world influencing millions of young men and autistic adults.

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Laura's Links: https://linktr.ee/lauragwilt

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In this episode, we discuss:

• What the manosphere actually is, and how varied it is

• The psychological appeal of the manosphere to autistic men and young neurodivergent boys

• The role of loneliness, isolation, and emotional neglect in drawing men into these spaces

• Society’s failure to emotionally support boys and men, especially autistic ones

• The positive side of the manosphere — creators who offer structure, self-worth, and community

• The darker side — toxic masculinity, misogyny, and emotional manipulation

• Performative masculinity and internalised shame

• The psychological concept of “fix me” narratives and why autistic men are vulnerable to them

• How anger, trauma, and emotional repression are handled (or ignored) in male spaces

• The emotional and developmental impact of being unsupported as a young autistic boy

• How authentic belonging is often promised but rarely delivered by these communities

• A breakdown of what healthy support looks like — from therapists, peers, and real connection

• How autistic communication styles can be misunderstood or exploited in online dynamics

• Laura Gwilt’s expert insights into male identity formation, emotion regulation, and cultural shifts needed to prevent harm

• Hopeful paths forward — creating nuanced, inclusive communities for men that centre growth, honesty, and care

👽 Remember that Autism is a spectrum, and your experiences/opinions will likely differ from mine based on your background, traits, location, other diagnoses, personality, life experience, and much more.

❗️IMPORTANT NOTE: I am NOT a professional and you should consult a registered psychologist and doctor before taking any action

PLEASE share your experiences and thoughts in the COMMENTS!➡️