In this powerful 10-minute episode, Dr. Raymond Zakhari, DNP, triple board-certified nurse practitioner and combat veteran, explores the hidden patterns of addiction that affect Manhattan's most successful professionals. From the ritual of unwinding after demanding days to the subtle progression of dependency, this episode reveals why high-achieving individuals are increasingly turning to alcohol, cannabis, gambling, and other escapes.

Dr. Zakhari examines the alarming rise in substance use among professionals aged 35-50, particularly women, and how cultural normalization masks serious health risks. Beyond traditional substances, he addresses modern addictions including workaholism, digital dependency, and compulsive behaviors that serve as emotional anesthesia for stress, trauma, and unmet expectations.

Drawing from his extensive clinical experience treating Manhattan executives, healthcare professionals, and entrepreneurs, Dr. Zakhari explains the neuroscience behind addiction, the real costs to health and performance, and evidence-based paths to recovery. He discusses personalized treatment approaches including medical detox, psychotherapy, and concierge-level care designed for busy professionals who value privacy and convenience.

Whether you're questioning your own patterns, concerned about a colleague, or simply seeking to understand addiction in high-pressure environments, this episode offers hope, clarity, and practical next steps toward reclaiming control.

Topics Covered:

Rising addiction rates among high-achieving professionals

The role of stress, trauma, and perfectionism in dependency

Modern forms of addiction beyond alcohol and drugs

Neuroscience of addiction and recovery

Treatment options for busy Manhattan professionals

Building sustainable recovery while maintaining career success

About Dr. Raymond Zakhari: Clinical Professor at Hunter College CUNY, founder of Metro Medical Direct, and pioneer in concierge addiction treatment serving Manhattan's professional community.

Resources: AddictionDetoxManhattan.com | Confidential consultations available

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When Men Go Numb: Depression as a Survival Response

In this compelling episode, we unravel the hidden ways depression uniquely manifests in men—not as sadness, but as numbness, burnout, and emotional shutdown. Through expert insight and real-world examples, you'll discover how the male nervous system uses "functional freeze" as a deeply wired safety strategy.

We explore the roots of this survival response in childhood environments, chronic stress, and modern pressures to perform, revealing why traditional approaches often miss the mark. The episode offers a fresh biopsychosocial perspective, highlighting male-specific symptoms like irritability, anger, perfectionism, and withdrawal.

Listeners will learn:

Why numbness is often a protective adaptation, not a personal failing

How perfectionism and emotional suppression develop as early defenses

The biological mechanisms behind "shutting down," including Polyvagal Theory and nervous system regulation

Practical, body-based interventions—like breathwork, movement, and micro-acts of agency—that cut through shame and restore resilience

The importance of trauma-informed, gender-sensitive care for men

If you or someone you know feels disconnected, exhausted, or stuck in a rut, this episode will help reframe depression as information—not weakness—and point the way toward healing and reconnection.

🧠 Episode Summary:

In this episode of The Psychology of It All, Dr. Raymond Zakhari explores why psychiatric treatments work for some but not others. It’s not just about the medication—it’s about the person receiving it. Using clear analogies and real-world clinical examples, Dr. Zakhari demystifies the concepts of moderators, mediators, confounders, and biomarkers—revealing how these variables shape treatment outcomes in depression and beyond.

You’ll learn:

Why some patients respond well to antidepressants while others don’t

How early symptom changes can signal treatment effectiveness

What to consider before adding or switching medications

The difference between mediators, moderators, and confounders

How inflammation, trauma, and even patient preference can shift treatment success

Whether you're a clinician, student, or curious patient—this episode will change how you think about what "works" in mental health care.

📌 Referenced in This Episode

PsychiatryHouseCalls.com: Dr. Zakhari’s flagship concierge psychiatric practice, offering discreet, in-home or virtual mental health care for New Yorkers seeking tailored, relationship-based psychiatric care. Services include diagnosis, medication management, second opinions, and lifestyle psychiatry—all with full privacy.

MetroMedicalDirect.com: A comprehensive concierge medical practice for men’s health, executive physicals, mental wellness, and primary care—brought to your doorstep. Ideal for ultra-busy professionals who want whole-person care without waiting rooms.

AddictionDetoxManhattan.com: A focused detox and recovery support service for clients dealing with alcohol or substance use in the privacy of their own homes. Designed for high-functioning individuals needing discreet and structured intervention without inpatient rehab.

🔖 Disclaimer:

This episode is intended for educational purposes only and is not a substitute for personalized medical advice. Please consult your own healthcare provider before acting on any content you hear.

Episode Title: From Trials to Trust — Seeing Through the Fog of Psychiatric Research

Podcast: The Psychology of It All

Host: Dr. Raymond Zakhari, NP

Why do some medications seem to work in studies but fall short in real life? In this episode, Dr. Raymond Zakhari walks you through the hidden layers of psychiatric research—from p-values and placebo effects to Type I, II, and III errors. Learn how small design choices can distort big findings, how to tell the difference between statistical significance and clinical relevance, and why discontinuation doesn’t always mean relapse.

You’ll also discover how to use AI tools like large language models (LLMs) to critically analyze research articles—without falling into the trap of solving the wrong problem well. Whether you’re a clinician, a student, or an informed patient, this episode will sharpen your eye for what the science really says—and what it doesn’t.

Topics covered:

How Type I, II, and III errors mislead treatment decisions

The placebo/nocebo effect and therapeutic alliance

Why some study designs exaggerate drug effectiveness

What p-values actually mean—and how they’re manipulated

A practical guide to using AI to review research with discernment

In this episode of “Beyond the Pill: Demystifying Evidence, Numbers & Causation in Psychopharmacology,” we pull back the curtain on how psychiatric medications earn their stripes—and what their numbers really mean. You’ll learn:

• Why all studies aren’t created equal, from meta-analyses and randomized controlled trials down to cohort studies and case reports, and the ethical or practical reasons behind each design.

• How to interpret NNT (Number Needed to Treat) and NNH (Number Needed to Harm) so you can weigh benefits against risks in plain English.

• The danger of assuming causation from correlation, illustrated by the classic post hoc ergo propter hoc fallacy—think ice cream sales and shark attacks—and how the Bradford Hill criteria help us tease out true cause-and-effect relationships.

Whether you’re a patient curious about why your psychiatrist chose a particular drug or a clinician sharpening your critical-thinking toolkit, this episode will give you the evidence-based perspective you need to make informed decisions—beyond the pill.

The holidays can be a joyful time, but for professionals and recovery. It also brings the unique stressors and challenges that increase the risk of relapse in this episode. Dr. Raymond Zakhari will explore 10 common risk factors that professionals face during the holiday and provide some practical strategies for maintaining sobriety for managing holiday stress and peer pressure to navigating emotional triggers and environmental cues Tune in to learn how to stay resilient focus focused, and connected to what matters most during this festive season.