In this bonus episode of The Push Podcast, we respond to the viral TikTok out of Santa Barbara where staff at Sansum Clinic under Sutter Health mocked patients by posting photos of bodily fluids left behind after exams. We want to start by saying we are deeply sorry if this video made you feel embarrassed, ashamed, or hesitant to seek care. Patient trust and dignity should never be compromised, and our hope with this episode is to help repair some of the damage by reminding you that your body is normal — and nothing you bring to the OBGYN’s office should ever make you feel ashamed.
We walk through what happened at the clinic, what was posted, and the fallout that followed, while also opening up an honest conversation about the very real feelings of embarrassment many patients carry into appointments — whether it’s being on your period, having had intercourse beforehand, body hair, discharge, or even something as small as hiding your underwear under your clothes. These experiences are common, human, and absolutely nothing to be embarrassed about. We also share how medical professionals actually view these situations — and the truth is, they’ve seen it all, and it’s completely normal.
The original photos and video have since been deleted, and several staff were placed on leave or terminated after the clinic launched an internal investigation. The incident has sparked an important conversation online about medical professionalism and patient dignity, and we hope this episode offers reassurance, compassion, and perspective at a time when it’s needed most.