There are so many messy middle parts of marriage that NO ONE talks about. Well, luckily for you, I DO!

I struggled silently for many years because I didn’t

want to look bad and be judged.

Until one day, I did the bravest thing and shared with my friends that I thought my marriage was over.

In March 2023, my husband and I were planning our separation. Who would stay at the house, care for the dog, etc.?

I wish I could say it was heartbreaking, but that would be a lie. I had closed my heart so tight that I couldn’t feel anything but anger and resentment.

I blamed him for my unhappiness and dissatisfaction.

But that separation never happened…

Instead, we fell deeper in love and started having even BETTER sex!

How?!

I healed my resentment!

And now I am teaching YOU how to heal YOUR resentment so you can get your marriage and sex life back, feel turned on, and desire again…

You can have all of this WITH your husband!

Listen and let me know if you’re resonating, have questions, or want more info on working with me by

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The one with the play party is Jose and my story of attending our first Temple Party in Los Angeles.

Told in front of our best friends for dramatic flare. 

I apologize in advance for the background noise; it proved difficult for four people to sit quietly.

In this episode, Jose and I talk about our most recent experience attending a Temple Party.

We explain what a Temple Party is and the difference between that and a Sex Party or an Orgy.

We share what happens at these parties, how we navigate our desires and boundaries, and how it all works. Where do you start?

All of your questions answered.

Have fun listening to this one, and if it sparks interest, I invite you to find a local play party or club in your area!

Have questions?

DM me on Instagram @pathtopleasure and I'll get back to you shortly.

Hello from Bali!!

Where I am halfway through my solo trip to Bali, (which was inspired by Perimenopause)

In this mini-episode, I share why I am in Bali, what it took to give myself this trip, and how I am learning to love this body.

I also share about my perimenopause journey.

XO, CJ

PS. Have questions or want to share about your experience? Email me at [email protected] or DM me @pathtopleasure

Carli Jo is joined by two of her best friends, Alex & Evin Terranova, to have a real & raw conversation about their experience of having a miscarriage and how they navigated it as a couple. Being one of Evin's best friends, I was in awe of how they stayed connected in communication and reconnected sexually.

In this episode, we discuss:

- Less pressure, more play when bringing sex back 

- The power of sharing your truths with your partner

- Navigating feeling rejected

- How to communicate what is on your heart without blaming your partner

- Creating safety in partnership

If you'd like to follow Evin, you can find her here: https://www.instagram.com/evinrose/
If you'd like to follow Alex, you can find him here: https://www.instagram.com/inspirationalalex/

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 Rachel and Kelsey join Carli Jo for coaching on their feelings about raising a child together, leading vs. following, masculine and feminine polarity, and supporting each other through their obstacles.

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Have you ever thought men were idiots because they couldn't locate your clit?
Like, really, dude, how hard is it to find?!

Well, I discovered while doing a practice called Orgasmic Meditation that locating the clit is much harder than you think! It's very sneaky!

Which gave me a newfound appreciation and compassion for men.

What you'll get in this episode:

Discover what I learned stroking a vulva

Hear Jose's reaction being told for the very first time

Learn about orgasmic meditation

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Learn more about Orgasmic Meditation here 

In this impromptu episode recorded on a cell phone, Carli Jo drops some truth bombs on Jose.

It is proven that communication is the access point to connection and intimacy

So get talking!

Discuss the following:

Are you taking, giving, receiving, or allowing in your relationship?
Is it consensual?
Is this dynamic working?
If not, what needs to change?
Which role DO you want to play?

Are you treating your partner like a sex object?
Is it hot or not?

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If you’re a woman looking to go on a sexual awakening journey, if you want to learn how to have bigger and better clitoral orgasms, G-spot, cervical, energetic, and full-body orgasms, then my upcoming program, Orgasmic Woman, is perfect for you! Check it out: Orgasmic Woman

The one where Jose rain checks sex on my birthday is a real and raw conversation between Jose and me about my request for sex on my birthday, his response, and the promise of future sex.

You'll soon discover that the title of this episode is incorrect. Jose did not rain check me, but rather.. listen and learn for yourself.

P.S. There's also a funny bit about how I handle earthquakes. 

xo,
Carli Jo

Jose and I talk through a real and raw conflict for the FIRST time in front of a live audience. I highly recommend listening to this one with your partner!

Listen if you want to here our anniversary Recap: Including very sensational sex on a massage table, a rippling orgasm story, and choosing pleasure over pressure.