Alison Armstrong discusses her work in understanding men and women and how they interact with each other. She explains how women can draw out the worst in men instead of the best, and how this dynamic can lead to blame and conflict. She also explores the instinctual drives of procreation, protection, and provision in men, and how women's actions can either uplift or antagonize these instincts. Additionally, she discusses the impact of physical attraction and how it can hinder the development of a meaningful relationship. Armstrong emphasizes the importance of understanding and appreciating the differences between men and women in order to create more harmonious connections. In this part of the conversation, Alison Armstrong discusses the differences between men and women in terms of their instincts and brain chemistry. She explains how men have a constant worth-it calculation and are driven by a return on investment, while women focus on what needs to be done and see things that aren't moving. Armstrong also emphasizes the importance of clarity and appreciation in relationships, and shares her upcoming project, the sequel to her book 'The Queen's Code' called 'The King's Code.'