The Queerly Blax Show With Ashley

The Queerly Blax Show With Ashley

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  • BiSexual Vs Queer WITH Kyanna: Difference Between Bisexual and Queer Identity, Debunking Myths About Dating Men and Women, And Body Positivity

    In this week’s episode of The Queerly Blax Show, I had a conversation with Kyanna Alexandra. We talked about dating men and women, body positivity, discovering your identity, the importance of open communication in queer relationships and so much more! Check it out!

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    01:18 – Kyanna introduction

    04:19 – The pressure of identifying as something

    07:31- Kyanna talks about her first real crush in college

    09:54 – how she met her boyfriend

    11:54 – the difference between queer and bisexual

    14:08 – Debunking the truth about dating both men and women

    16:39 – Sexual attraction in people who like more than one sex in the LGBTQIA community

    21:09- The importance of open communication in queer relationships

    25:04 – Could you date a bisexual man?

    27:!4 – Body positivity inclusive platform

    31:11 – The challenges of buying plus size clothes

    32:05 – Theme song for your life

    34:01- Advice for someone trying to figure themselves out

    Social Media

    Kyanna IG: thekyannaalexandra

    Queerly Blax IG: @queerlyblax

    Queerly Blax Podcast: https://pod.link/1602328143

    Queerly Blax Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCbTFH1KU4zjauIBMlxhxHVQ/videos

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    40 min
  • He Ain’t Just My Roommate WITH Trenton: Reconciling Sexuality and Religion, Growing Up In the South, Coming Out Several Times, Creating Boundaries with Family

    In this week’s episode of The Queerly Blax Show, I had a conversation with Trenton. We talked about growing up in Alabama as a gay man, reconciling religion and sexuality, transitioning to LA, getting comfortable with his sexuality, coming out story and so much more! Check it out!

    01:28 – Trenton Introduction

    05:15 – Reconciling religion and being gay

    06:31- Growing up in Alabama as a gay man

    07:00- Coming out 3 times

    09:08- Final time coming out of the closet

    12:22- Creating boundaries with close family

    16:41- Building a relationship with god outside of family influence

    21:51- Dark moment in his journey of accepting himself

    25:44 – Dance career and being gay

    27:14 – Forming a full identity as a queer dancer

    30:12- Upcoming Projects

    30:57- Theme song for his life

    32:16- Therapy and its importance

    Social Media

    Trenton IG: tren10dw

    Queerly Blax IG: @queerlyblax

    Queerly Blax Podcast: https://pod.link/1602328143

    Queerly Blax Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCbTFH1KU4zjauIBMlxhxHVQ/videos

    36 min
  • Pretty Little Lesbians WITH Veronica & Bree: Newlywed Life, Growing Up Queer in Jamaica, Fem relationship, Past Relationships, LGBTQ Advocacy

    In this week’s episode of The Queerly Blax Show, I had a conversation with Veronica & Bree. We talked about maintaining a long distance relationship, how they met, growing up as a Jamaican queer, past relationships, and so much more! Check it out!

    01:20 – Veronica & Bree introductions

    03:21 – First encounter with sexuality

    05:15- Skyping girlfriend while with her husband

    07:02- Veronica breaking down her marriage to her ex-husband

    09:07- Bree’s journey to liking women

    13:10- Brees coming out journey

    15:39- People think they aren’t together

    18:39- How they met

    22:01- Veronica thought she ruined the first date

    29:05- Long distance marriage and how they manage it

    35:43- Talking about the honeymoon

    39:27- Advice to young queer LGBTQ people

    Social Media

    Veronica IG: @iamwildchild

    Bree IG:@youngii_bree

    Queerly Blax IG: @queerlyblax

    Queerly Blax Podcast: https://pod.link/1602328143

    Queerly Blax Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCbTFH1KU4zjauIBMlxhxHVQ/videos

    42 min
  • 3 P’s (Poly, Pansexual, Parenthood) WITH Cee & Dee: Breastfeeding as a Masculine Woman, Evolving Sexuality, Importance of Self Love, Continuous Change In Long Term Love

    In this week’s episode of The Queerly Blax Show, I had a conversation with Cee & Dee. We talked about stigmas around being a masculine woman breastfeeding, evolving in love, identifying as a pansexual, continuously growing in sexuality, LGBTQ advocacy and so much more! Check it out!

    01:15 – Cee & Dee Introduction

    01:51 – First encounter with sexuality

    09:52 – Managing evolution of sexuality in their marriage

    13:05 – Unpacking polyamourous identity while in a long term relationship

    16:48 – How they started their family with a known donor

    19:27 – Breastfeeding in public as a masculine presenting woman

    21:06 – Cee talks about preparing to carry a baby

    24:14 – The process of self love and learning to love yourself

    33:46 – Theme song for your life

    35:56 – Advice for young people on their own queer journey

    Social Media

    Queerly Blax IG: @queerlyblax

    Queerly Blax Podcast: https://pod.link/1602328143

    Queerly Blax Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCbTFH1KU4zjauIBMlxhxHVQ/videos

    Cee & Dee IG: ladyboisandbabyboy

    Cee & Dee Youtube: Lady Bois And Baby Boy

    40 min
  • Hot Moms WITH Krystle & Scarlet: Crush on a School Hot Mom, Having a Baby Through Reciprocal IVF, Being in an Interracial Relationship, Financial Balance While Growing Family

    In this week’s episode of The Queerly Blax Show, I had a conversation with Krystle & Scarlet. We talked about crushes on hot moms, going through reciprocal IVF, balancing the financial responsibility of a growing family, being in an interracial relationship, and so much more! Check it out!

    01:12 – Krystle & Scarlet Introduction

    02:28 – First time they knew they liked girls

    04:37 – Being in an interracial relationship

    06:46 – How they met

    10:57 – Telling the kids they are dating

    13:16 – Their journey of starting a family with IVF

    15:27 – Important factors picking a donor

    17:54 – Dusty talks about the possibility of carrying a child in the future

    19:37 – Breaking generational curses

    21:57 – Buidling a baby registry as a first-time mom

    24:32 – They talk about their Youtube channel

    25:26 – Theme song for their life

    27:27 – Advice for someone coming out

    Social Media

    Queerly Blax IG: @queerlyblax

    Queerly Blax Podcast: https://pod.link/1602328143

    Queerly Blax Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCbTFH1KU4zjauIBMlxhxHVQ/videos

    Krystle & Scarlet IG: @dusty.n.cali

    33 min
  • The Gay King of Tinder WITH Maurice & Gustavo: Meeting on Tinder, Process of Moving to the States in an International Relationship, Adapting to a New Country, Family Dynamics as an International Gay Couple

    In this week’s episode of The Queerly Blax Show, I had a conversation with Maurice & Gustavo. We talked about how they met and become a couple, Gustavo early days of moving to the states, the costs of becoming a US resident, queer culture in Brazil and so much more! Check it out!

    01:21 – Maurice & Gustavo Introduction

    01:50- When y’all first like boys & Coming Out Stories

    03:52 – Recalling experiences as a young person liking boys

    08:34 – The beginning of their relationship

    09:55 – how they met and started dating

    10:08 – the king of tinder

    12:17 – When they matched on Tinder

    16:26 – Conversations with family about being with someone from the states

    19:56 – Gustavo talks about the early days of living in the states

    21:48 – Process of getting to america

    25:06 – Cost to become a resident of the US

    26:17 – 90 Day fiancé comparison

    27:49 – Theme song for your life

    30:23 – Advice to an international LGBT couple

    Social Media

    Queerly Blax IG: @queerlyblax

    Queerly Blax Podcast: https://pod.link/1602328143

    Queerly Blax Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCbTFH1KU4zjauIBMlxhxHVQ/videos

    Maurice IG:tictoc07

    Gustavo IG: kockgustavo

    36 min
  • Drag King Culture WITH Majic Dyke: Being a Kenyan Queer Person, Moving to the States, Becoming A Drag King, Self Discovery within the LGBTQ Community

    In this week’s episode of The Queerly Blax Show, I had a conversation with Majic Dyke. We talked about growing up in Kenya and moving to the states as a queer person, Drag King culture, coming out in a Kenyan family, pushing the LGBTQ culture forward and so much more! Check it out!

    01:19 – Majic Dyke introduction

    02:46 – Timeline of moving from Kenya to the states then back to Kenya

    04:01 – Came out in high school

    05:54 – How her family responded to her being queer

    08:18 – Feeling safe as a queer black person in both the states and Kenya

    11:26 – The first time performing as a Drag King

    13:34 – Drag Me, King

    15:32 – Self-reflection process as a part of the LGBT community

    18:09 – Theme song for your life

    19:36 – Advice for young queer people

    Social Media

    Queerly Blax IG: @queerlyblax

    Queerly Blax Podcast: https://pod.link/1602328143

    Queerly Blax Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCbTFH1KU4zjauIBMlxhxHVQ/videos

    Majic IG: majic.dyke

    22 min
  • Married Folk Business WITH Tasha & Tristan: Having a Long Term Relationship, Reading the Signs of an LGBT Woman, Keys To Making a Relationship Work

    In this week’s episode of The Queerly Blax Show, I had a conversation with Tasha & Tristan. We talked about the keys to having a long lasting relationship, how they met as co workers, loving each other through change, Mind Your Marriage Mondays, their YouTube channel and so much more! Check it out!

    01:17 – Tasha & Tristan Introduction

    01:55 – Tasha & Tristan first time liking a girl

    04:21 – how they met as co workers

    06:49 – I.M messages at work

    12:52 – Tristan talks about dating Tasha after only being with men

    17:05 – Keys to making a long relationship work

    22:25 – Asking about deal breakers as the relationship changes

    28:00 – Mind Your Marriage Mondays

    31:33 – I pose a Mind Your Marriage scenario to Tasha & Tristan

    45:21 – Defusing an argument amongst friends

    54:10 – Theme song for your life

    55:12 – Advice for someone on their own LGBTQ journey

    Social Media

    Queerly Blax IG: @queerlyblax

    Queerly Blax Podcast: https://pod.link/1602328143

    Queerly Blax Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCbTFH1KU4zjauIBMlxhxHVQ/videos

    Tasha & Tristan IG: livinlagrandlyfe

    Tasha & Tristan Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4bWDy9CKfraO1J0y2VKsUQ

    58 min
  • Transition to Happiness WITH Chris Jay Brown: Effects of Testosterone, Having a Transgender Transition in late 40s, Having a Supportive Partner

    Transition to Happiness WITH Chris Jay Brown: Effects of Testosterone, Having a Transgender Transition in late 40s, Having a Supportive Partner

    In this week’s episode of The Queerly Blax Show, I had a conversation with Chris Jay Brown. We talked about the effects of testosterone during a transition, deciding to transition later in life, having a supportive partner throughout, people adapting to pronouns and so much more! Check it out!

    01:05 – Chris Introduction

    01:46 – Start of Chris’ transgender transition

    02:12 – Insurance challenges for LGBTQ people

    05:24 – Having support in a transition

    07:06 – Transitioning later in life

    12:19 – Testestorone pros and cons

    14:39 – People adapting to pronouns

    17:31 – Changing relationships because of the transition

    19:11 – Forgiving people as you transition and people come in and out of your life

    22:14 – Advice to someone going through a transition

    Social Media

    Queerly Blax IG: @queerlyblax

    Queerly Blax Podcast: https://pod.link/1602328143

    Queerly Blax Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCbTFH1KU4zjauIBMlxhxHVQ/videos

    Chris IG: chrisjaytransition

    Chris Youtube: The Chris & Kim Show https://m.youtube.com/channel/UC_41epLcaEz2HlcTAa2GXLw

    24 min
  • Gay Men & Mental Health WITH Jarred Denzel: Gay Men Mental Health Challenges, Hard Family Dynamics Growing Up, Mending Fences with Disapproving Parents

    Gay Men & Mental Health WITH Jarred Denzel: Gay Men Mental Health Challenges, Hard Family Dynamics Growing Up, Mending Fences with Disapproving Parents

    In this week’s episode of The Queerly Blax Show, I had a conversation with Jarred Denzel. We talked about living with disapproving parents, addressing mental health struggles, learning that a friend was battling depression and committed suicide, living with mental health challenges and so much more! Check it out!

    01:19 – Jarred Introduction

    02:21 – Crushes in grade school

    06:31 – Parents found out about sexuality through a note in his backpack

    11:42 – Trying to love parents while being proud to be a gay man

    16:22 – Mending fences with parents about sexuality

    20:11 – Getting started in Mental health

    21:17-friend killed himself

    23:02 – Talking about his personal mental health journey

    26:02- Living with depression and mental health struggles daily

    30:49 – Taking pride in the small wins

    33:13 – Being public about personal challenges online

    40:29 – Advice for someone on their own queer journey

    Social Media

    Queerly Blax IG: @queerlyblax

    Queerly Blax Podcast: https://pod.link/1602328143

    Queerly Blax Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCbTFH1KU4zjauIBMlxhxHVQ/videos

    Jarred IG: jarred.denzel

    45 min

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The Queerly Blax Show aims to normalize the everyday existence of black LGBTQIA individuals through an interview style series. Each week, a new guest shares their story and unique perspective on their…