Jem had her first ever orgasm! 

After being sexually assaulted five years ago, Jem's body shut down. It linked feelings of pleasure to feelings of harm and in a subconscious act of self-protection,  it stopped arousal in it's tracks. 

Since then, Jem has been very vocal about sexual assault, orgasms and breaking down the stigma surrounding sex in general. She has been published in Vice, featured on Triple J and even hosted her own Quest to Cum event. 

After well over a year of healing and experimentation, Jem finally did it: she gave herself her first orgasm. 

Hear all about it in this episode of Fearless with Tom & Jem.