What if the most painful breakup you’ll ever experience… is the one with the version of you who stayed too long, loved too hard, and lost herself trying to be enough?

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In this raw and transformational video, we’re diving into what it really means to break up with the old version of yourself—the one fueled by desperation, shame, people-pleasing, and self-sacrifice. This isn’t just about healing from relationships with others—it’s about healing your relationship with yourself.

You'll uncover:

• The hidden emotional wounds that keep you stuck in toxic cycles
• Why people-pleasing isn’t kindness—it’s a survival response
• How shame from past relationships silently shapes your identity
• Spiritual and emotional tools to release guilt and reclaim your worth
• How to start showing up as your healed, whole, powerful self

💔 If you've ever felt like you betrayed yourself just to be loved—this video is your wake-up call.

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Can love really survive betrayal, disappointment, or emotional distance? In this powerful video, we dive into the question so many people ask: Can a broken relationship be saved? Using key lessons from my book Deciding to Love, I reveal what it takes to heal, rebuild trust, and restore emotional connection in a relationship that feels broken. 💔➡️❤️

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If you're standing at a crossroads—unsure whether to stay or walk away—this message will help you find clarity, peace, and direction.

In this video, you’ll discover:

• The real reasons relationships fall apart
• What it truly means to “decide” to love again
• How to rebuild emotional safety and restore communication
• Red flags vs. redeemable issues
• When to fight for love—and when to let go

Whether you're trying to save your relationship or heal from the pain of one that couldn’t be saved, this episode is filled with guidance, compassion, and spiritual insight.

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Are you surrounded by people yet still feel empty inside? In this raw and healing episode of The Rainie Howard Show, Rainie dives into the emotional, spiritual, and even physical weight of loneliness and what to do when you feel disconnected, forgotten, or unseen.

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Whether you’re healing from heartbreak, navigating a season of singleness, or simply feeling spiritually distant, this episode offers you clarity, comfort, and a path forward.

You’ll discover:

• The difference between being alone and being lonely
• What triggers deep emotional emptiness
• Why loneliness is often a divine invitation, not a punishment
• Powerful tools to reconnect with purpose, peace, and your relationship with God
• Real strategies to heal without running back to toxic connections

Loneliness doesn’t define you it reveals what’s ready to be restored.

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Are you chasing what’s missing and overlooking what truly matters? In this episode of The Rainie Howard Show, we break down the 80/20 rule in relationships and how it might be silently sabotaging your love life.

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Rainie exposes the emotional and spiritual truth behind this principle, revealing why so many people throw away the 80% of a good relationship for the illusion of a tempting 20%. If you’ve ever felt bored, dissatisfied, or drawn to someone outside your commitment, this episode is a must-listen.

You’ll learn:

• What the 80/20 rule really means in love
• Why emotional discontentment creates toxic patterns
• Real-life scenarios of people losing their 80 chasing a 20
• How to practice gratitude, contentment, and discernment
• A spiritual lens to help you protect what truly matters

This one will challenge your perspective and help you stop self-sabotaging the love you already have.

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🎙️ Marriage Advice from 21+ Years of Real Love | The Rainie Howard Show

After more than two decades of marriage, we’ve learned that real love isn’t a fairy tale—it’s a daily choice. In this episode, I’m sharing the most honest and heartfelt marriage advice from 21+ years of being in a committed, evolving relationship. From navigating challenges to building spiritual and emotional intimacy, this conversation is filled with lessons you can apply whether you're married, dating, or preparing for the love you desire. 💕

You’ll hear:

• How to sustain love through life’s seasons
• The power of spiritual alignment in marriage
• What to do when you feel disconnected
• Habits that protect and strengthen your relationship

This is not surface-level advice—this is soul-centered wisdom for real love that lasts.

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 When your pain picks your partner, you confuse survival with love.

In this podcast, I share why so many people end up in toxic patterns and how healing helps you make aligned, loving choices rooted in truth—not trauma.

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Stop ignoring what keeps hurting you.
In this podcast, I’m showing you how to recognize the red flags, trust your inner voice, and break free from cycles that no longer serve you. 

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 You don’t need their approval to be worthy.
You don’t need to be chosen by them to be loved.

In this podcast, I’m helping you release the need to be chosen and embrace the truth: You were already chosen by God, and that’s enough.

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 Letting go doesn’t mean you’ve failed. It means you trust what’s meant for you.

In this podcast, I’m sharing why real peace begins the moment you stop forcing and start flowing with divine timing and purpose.

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In this powerful episode, Rainie Howard challenges the traditional approach to goal-setting and vision boards. Discover why setting a strong spiritual foundation is the essential first step to manifesting your dreams and achieving lasting success. Learn how aligning your mind, body, and spirit can unlock clarity, remove energetic blocks, and transform your intentions into reality. Whether you're creating your next vision board or striving toward big goals, this episode will inspire you to elevate your process and build the life you truly desire.

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