Sometimes it feels like throwing shade is a requirement for being a gay man. Why do we do it, and what's really behind it? Tony and John chat all about it in this week's episode!

We've all had relationships where we've stayed even when we thought we shouldn't. Maybe we didn't have the courage to leave, or maybe we thought there was more work to be done. Maybe we saw leaving as giving up or failure. In this episode, Tony and John chat about how sometimes, the answer that is the most healthy, most authentic, most kind is...goodbye.

How much of who we are and what we do is our real truth vs what’s expected of us as gay men? In this week’s podcast, Tony and John chat about how we figure out so we can be the most honest, realzzz version of ourselves possible.

Can't stop scrolling through Insta or watching mindless vids on snapchat? Tony and John chat about what happens when we use social media to distract ourselves from what's really going on in our lives.

How do we handle getting ghosted while dating? Better yet...how do we handle the fear that we'll get ghosted before it even happens? Psychologist Dr Tony Ortega and Life Coach John Davisi chat all about it on this week's brunch!

There's a lot of debate on the reboots of TV show's like Will & Grace and Queer Eye, and whether or not they are representing gay men in a way that is evolved, or stuck in the past. Psychologist Tony Ortega and Life Coach John Davisi chat all about it!

What do we do as the years go by, the looks fade, and we find that we aren't the youngest, most popular thing in the club? Psychologist Tony Ortega and Life Coach John Davisi chat about how we can gayge gracefully and that age really is just a number.