The Re-Pod

Have you ever avoided trying something new because you were afraid of being bad at it?

I think we've become so uncomfortable with being beginners that we'd rather not try at all than risk looking like we don't know what we're doing.

In this episode of The Re Pod, I reflect on my experience learning how to swim as an adult, what it's taught me about confidence, vulnerability, and the discomfort of starting from scratch.

We talk about why being bad at something isn't necessarily a bad thing, how the fear of judgment holds us back, and why being a beginner is often the price we have to pay to become good at anything.

I also share 5 practical ways to get more comfortable with being bad at something and start showing up for the things you've always wanted to try.

Because the truth is, you don't have to be good at something to enjoy it, and you definitely don't have to be good at it to start.

If this episode resonates with you, share it with someone who needs a reminder that it's okay to be a beginner.

Welcome to The Re Pod — a space for reflection, growth, and figuring life out along the way.

I ran my first half marathon—and the biggest lesson had very little to do with running.

In this episode of The Re Pod, I reflect on what completing 21KM taught me about doing hard things, building confidence, embracing delayed gratification and becoming someone who follows through.

Confidence doesn’t always come before the challenge. Sometimes, you build it by keeping the promises you make to yourself—even when the results aren’t immediate.

If you’ve been avoiding something because it feels difficult or you don’t feel ready, this episode is for you.

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You set the goal, you put in the work, you got it. And then you just moved on. No celebration, no acknowledgement, nothing.

In this episode, I explore why so many of us find it hard to sit with our own wins. The humility we were raised with slowly turned into self-erasure. The imposter syndrome that makes celebrating feel dangerous. The goalpost that shifts before we even reach it.

Because we sit with the bad emotions easily. So why do we find it so hard to embrace the good ones?

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There's a specific kind of pressure that nobody really talks about. The pressure of being seen as the one. The talented one. The one that's supposed to go far. And what happens when life doesn't pan out the way everyone predicted.

In this episode I use the story of Markelle Fultz — the number one pick in the 2017 NBA draft — to explore something that goes way beyond basketball. The gap between the potential other people see in you and what you actually achieve. And more importantly, why that gap is not yours to close.

This episode is for anyone who has ever felt the weight of someone else's expectations. Anyone who has been told they should be something before they even had the chance to figure out what they actually want. And anyone who is still carrying that expectation without realizing it.

Your potential is not a prison. And you're not responsible for living up to someone else's vision of who you should be.

There's a specific kind of loneliness that nobody really talks about. It's not the loneliness of having nothing going for you. It's the loneliness of seeming fine. Of having it together. Of being the person that everyone around you feels comfortable leaning on — while quietly carrying something yourself that never feels serious enough to mention.

In this episode I talk about what it actually feels like to have everything put together on the outside and still feel like something is missing. The pressure of having it together. The way your problems start to feel invalid when people around you are going through something more visible, more tangible, more drastic. And why that is one of the loneliest places to be.

This is not an episode to tell you what to do. It's just one to let you know that whatever you're feeling is valid. Even when everything looks fine.

Your emotions are valid. Your fears are valid. Your dreams are valid. Even when everything seems fine.

In this episode, contemporary artist Benny Bing shares the story behind his creative journey — from his upbringing to discovering art as a form of identity and expression.

We explore how life experiences shape artistic voice, the importance of representation in modern art, and what it really means to create with purpose. Benny opens up about finding confidence in his craft, building a creative path, and using art as a tool for reflection and cultural conversation.

This is a powerful discussion on creativity, identity, and the responsibility that comes with telling stories through art.

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We all do it — delay, distract, or doubt ourselves before something that matters. In this episode of The Re Pod, I explore the psychology of self-handicapping: the quiet ways we create barriers before opportunities.

From the fear of failure to the fear of success, we unpack why we sometimes stand in our own way — and how awareness, compassion, and courage can help us move forward.

This episode is a reminder that it’s okay to start again — to rewrite the story and give yourself permission to grow.

In this episode of SuboTalks pod, I dive into the concept of coachability and why it’s a critical trait for personal and professional success. Join me as I explore what it means to be coachable, how to embrace feedback, and the incredible benefits of adopting a coachable mindset.

You'll gain practical tips on how to become more coachable in your daily life and understand the impact of coachability on career advancement and personal growth. I also cover strategies to effectively seek and implement feedback for continuous improvement. Whether you’re looking to climb the corporate ladder, improve your personal relationships, or simply become a better version of yourself, understanding and embracing coachability can be your game-changer.

Don't miss out on this insightful and inspiring discussion.

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Are you tired of feeling overlooked and undervalued? Have you ever wondered why being a"nice guy" doesn't always lead to success in relationships, career, and life? In this transformative solo episode, dive deep into the groundbreaking insights from Robert Glover's bestselling book, "No More Mr. Nice Guy.

If you're ready to shatter the "nice guy" stereotype and step into your true potential, this episode is a must-listen. Tune in now and embark on self-discovery and empowerment like never before.

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Another Solo Ep! On this episode, I talk about how the NFL is treating Lamar Jackson & their obsession with Taylor Swift. 

I also talk about the Grammy Awards and how players of African descent are treated by their countries of origin. I hope you all enjoy this episode.

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