Welcome to The REAL in Real Estate Podcast, your go-to show for real estate success. In this insightful episode, we are joined by Paul Silverman, a seasoned manager at Martha Turner Sotheby's who transitioned from home building to real estate in 2010.

Paul dives deep into the realities of building a sustainable career, debunking the "HGTV myth" that the job is easy or quick money. He and the host explore why treating real estate as a genuine small business and prioritizing long-term service over immediate commissions is the only true path to longevity in the industry. If you are ready to move past the surface-level hype and build a business based on substance and relationships, this episode is for you.

1. ✔️ The "Service First" Philosophy: Silverman emphasizes that clients can sense when they are being "sold" rather than served. He shares a powerful anecdote of how treating a $130,000 client with elite-level respect eventually led to over $3 million in referral sales, proving the late Ebby Halliday’s advice: "Do it for the service... and the dollar will follow."
2. ✔️ The Missing Piece of "Know, Like, and Trust": While the industry loves the "Know, Like, and Trust" adage, Paul argues it is incomplete. It doesn’t matter if a client trusts you if they don't remember you. Learn why post-closing follow-up systems are non-negotiable for staying in your sphere of influence.
3. ✔️ Strategies for Organic Business Growth: Discover how to build a client base from scratch, even in a new city. Paul discusses "organic interactions"—from frequenting the same coffee shop to spark familiarity, to walking dogs in affluent neighborhoods and mastering the art of the consistent open house.
4. ✔️ The Critical Role of Deep Education: Licensing classes are just the beginning. Paul explains why pursuing advanced designations like the GRI (Graduate, Realtor Institute) and adopting systems like Ninja Selling are vital for confidence. He also stresses the need to memorize local market statistics to hold intelligent conversations at any social event.

If you have questions about Paul’s strategies or want to learn more about his work in the Houston market, you can find him through his firm:

1. Firm: Martha Turner Sotheby’s International Realty
2. Location: Houston, TX
3. Affiliations: Houston Association of Realtors (HAR)

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Welcome to The REAL in Real Estate Podcast, your go-to show for real estate success. In this solo episode, host Jean Mitchell tackles the paralyzing fear many millennials and first-time buyers face in today’s housing market.

With interest rates hovering around 6%, many buyers are sitting on the sidelines waiting for a return to 3%—a wait that Jean argues is costing them thousands in lost equity. Jean dispels the myths about needing a massive down payment or a perfect "forever home" right out of the gate. Instead, she offers a reality check on the cost of renting versus owning. If you are ready to stop building your landlord's wealth and start building your own legacy, this guide is for you.

In this episode, you will learn:

✔️ The "Perfect Rate" Fallacy: Why waiting for 3% interest rates to return is a trap, and why 6% is actually a strong entry point historically.

✔️ Rent vs. Equity: A breakdown of how paying $2,000–$3,000 a month in rent builds zero wealth for you, compared to building equity in a home you own.

✔️ Down Payment Reality Check: You don't need 20% down. Learn about grants and loan programs that allow you to buy with as little as 3.5% down.

✔️ Managing Repair Anxiety: How to protect yourself from unexpected costs using home inspections and home warranties, so you aren't afraid of future repairs.

Connect with Jean: Jean Mitchell is the creator and host of The REAL in Real Estate podcast. You can connect with her and listen to more episodes through the following channels:

1. Apple Podcasts: The REAL in Real Estate on Apple Podcasts

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Welcome to The REAL in Real Estate Podcast, your go-to show for real estate success. In this cutting-edge episode, we are joined by Sharon Yeary, a veteran Broker with over 24 years of experience and an instructor at Champions Real Estate School.

Sharon dispels the pervasive myth that AI is here to replace agents, describing it instead as the "world's smartest assistant" that allows realtors to focus on sales rather than administrative grunt work. Sharon shares her step-by-step journey of becoming a certified AI Realtor and reveals how she uses a trained AI assistant to automate her website updates, social media posts, and advertising. If you are ready to stop fearing technology and start leveraging it to grow your business, this episode is for you.

In this episode, you will learn:

✔️ How to Utilize a Trained AI Assistant: You will learn about the process of hiring a specialized AI assistant (through programs like the Krem Institute) who must pass a test to prove they can handle tasks such as rebuilding websites, editing videos, and managing content for Facebook, Instagram, and LinkedIn.

✔️ Personalizing Your AI Interaction: Sharon explains the importance of customizing ChatGPT by inputting your specific personality traits, humor, and business goals. This ensures the content it generates—from emails to listing descriptions—sounds authentic to you rather than generic.

✔️ The Necessity of Compliance and Verification: Learn why you must always audit AI outputs. Sharon shares examples of catching errors, such as AI removing a window during virtual staging or adding "tell-tale" dashes in text, and emphasizes checking all content for fair housing compliance before publishing.

✔️ Tools for Video and Engagement: Beyond standard text generation, discover specific tools like HeyGen (for creating AI avatars) and Captions.ai, which can edit videos and digitally correct eye contact so it appears you are looking directly at the camera while reading a script.

Connect with Sharon:

If you have questions about her AI strategies or real estate services, you can reach Sharon through the following channels:

• Website: sharcomrealty.com
• Email: [email protected]
• Slogan: "You'll be sold on us at Sharcom Realty"

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Episode Summary:

Welcome to The REAL in Real Estate Podcast, your go-to show for real estate success. In this powerful episode, host Jean Mitchell is joined by wealth advisors Kamela Scarbeck and Duane Wagener from the Fitzpatrick Group to bridge the gap between real estate and holistic financial planning.

In a world filled with misleading financial headlines, this episode cuts through the noise to deliver facts, strategies, and inspiration. The group dives deep into why "holistic" planning must involve both market investments and real estate, and why waiting for the "perfect" economic moment is often a silent wealth killer. If you want to move beyond simple asset accumulation and start generating true cash flow for your future, this guide is for you.

In this episode, you will learn:

✔️ The Cost of Waiting: Why waiting for interest rates to return to 3% is likely a mistake, and how delaying a home purchase often just means "pushing off a higher bill" due to inflation.

✔️ Cash Flow is King: The difference between traditional financial planning (often focused just on accumulating assets) and a modern strategy that prioritizes generating consistent cash flow for retirement.

✔️ Social Media Misconceptions: Why you should be wary of "social media" advice that claims renting is always better than buying, and how to filter out misleading financial narratives regarding home ownership.

✔️ Just Get Started: Why you do not need a minimum asset amount to begin financial planning; the most important step is to start building the habit now—even if it is just saving 3% of your income.

Connect with the Guests:

Both Kamela and Duane emphasize that they "do not charge for time," meaning you can reach out for an educational conversation without worrying about immediate fees.

• Kamela Scarbeck: You can find her on LinkedIn or on Instagram under the handle wealthandharmony.ks.
• Duane Wagner: Duane recommends that listeners reach him by contacting Kamela directly.

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Welcome to The REAL in Real Estate Podcast, your go-to show for real estate success. In this insightful episode, host Jean welcomes back mortgage expert Chad Helmcamp from BWC Lending to decode the complex financial landscape facing today's home buyers.

Navigating today's market requires more than just hoping for rate drops. With interest rates settling into a "new normal," the era of ultra-low rates may be behind us due to national economic factors. In this episode, the hosts offer a hard look at the mathematics of affordability, comparing payment increases against the risks of waiting for a "perfect" market that may never come. If you want a realistic roadmap for building wealth in the current economy, this episode is essential listening.

In this episode, you will learn:

✔️ The "New Normal" for Interest Rates: Why experts believe mortgage rates will likely fluctuate between the mid-5s and mid-6s for the next several years, and why the national debt makes a return to ultra-low rates unlikely.

✔️ The Strategic Use of ARMs: How a 7-year Adjustable Rate Mortgage (ARM) can help buyers secure a lower rate—potentially around 5.75% when fixed rates are over 6%—and why this fits the timeline of the average homeowner.

✔️ The Real Cost of Waiting: A detailed breakdown of home prices and payments from 2022 to 2025, demonstrating how waiting for lower rates often results in higher payments and lost equity due to home appreciation.

✔️ The Math Behind Refinancing: The general "1% rule" for dropping your rate and the specific break-even calculation you should run to ensure refinancing pays off within 24 months.

Connect with Chad: To get expert advice, check your credit, or apply for a loan, reach Chad Helmcamp directly at 713-826-8136 or visit bwclending.com.

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Welcome to The REAL in Real Estate Podcast, your go-to show for real estate success. In this special episode, we are hitting pause on the expert interviews to have a heart-to-heart discussion about one of our absolute favorite topics: Buying Your First Home.

First-time buyers bring an excitement that is contagious, but the process can also feel overwhelming. In this episode, the hosts provide a complete, step-by-step roadmap to navigate the journey from renter to owner. If you are ready to stop building your landlord's wealth and start building your own equity and family legacy, this guide is for you.

In this episode, you will learn:

✔️ How to Start Your Search Correctly: Learn why finding a dedicated, full-time realtor is your first line of defense and why speaking to a lender early is vital to debunk the myth that you "aren't ready yet."

✔️ The Truth About Down Payments & Loans: Discover the wide range of loan options available—including FHA, Conventional, and the incredible 0% down VA loan—and why the old rule of needing 20% down is a total myth (you can start with as little as 3%!).

✔️ The Anatomy of a Winning Offer: Understand that a strong offer is about more than just the price. We break down the critical difference between Earnest Money (your good faith deposit) and the Option Fee (your right to inspect the home).

✔️ How to Avoid "Deal-Killing" Mistakes: Get the golden rules for the closing period: do NOT buy a car, purchase furniture, or change jobs once you are under contract. Plus, learn your four options if the appraisal comes in low.

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Welcome to The REAL in Real Estate Podcast, your go-to show for real estate success. In this episode, we're tackling the biggest question in the market: with interest rates fluctuating, is it still a good time to buy? The answer might surprise you.

Host Jean is joined by expert realtor Jennifer Larson, who breaks down why today's high-inventory "buyer's market" is a golden opportunity. Jennifer explains why buyers should stop focusing on the rate—which you can refinance later—and start focusing on the power to negotiate the price of their dream home, an impossibility in the hyper-competitive low-rate market of the past.

This is a must-listen for anyone tired of putting money in their landlord's pocket and ready to start building immediate equity and wealth.

In this episode, you will learn:

✔️ Why a "Buyer's Market" Beats a Low Rate: Discover why today's market, with its high inventory, gives you the power to negotiate a better deal on the house—which you can't change—rather than focusing on the rate, which you can.

✔️ The True Cost of Renting vs. Owning: Understand how buying a home, even a "starter home," allows you to begin building equity and wealth immediately, while renting is a 100% loss.

✔️ How to Buy a Home with Little to No Money Down: Learn the facts about low down payment options that get you in the door, including 3% for conventional loans and 0% down for VA loans.

✔️ The Powerful, Overlooked Benefits for Veterans: Hear the incredible advantages available to military veterans, especially in Texas, where 100% disabled vets pay zero property taxes and can buy a home with no money down.

How to Reach Jennifer Larson:

Jennifer Larson is a dedicated, referral-based realtor who holds a special certification for helping military buyers. She is passionate about educating first-time home buyers and guiding veterans through their unique benefits.

If you are a veteran or know a veteran looking to buy, Jennifer is a wealth of knowledge who can provide the facts and dedicated service you deserve.

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Welcome to The REAL in Real Estate Podcast, your go-to show for real estate success. In this episode, we are demystifying one of the most critical and often misunderstood topics for agents and clients alike: credit. Whether you're aiming to buy a home or advising someone who is, this conversation will give you the facts to build a powerful financial foundation.

Host Jean is joined by credit expert and entrepreneur Gar Russell. As the author of two books on the subject, Gar shares simple, actionable strategies to take control of your credit profile, dispel common myths, and even turn recreational vehicles into income-producing assets.

In this episode, you will learn:

✔️ How to Take Total Control of Your Credit: Discover the importance of credit monitoring services (often free from your credit card company) and how you can freeze or unfreeze your credit with the click of a button.

✔️ The "Cut-Up Card" Trick for Responsible Credit Building: Learn a brilliant tactic to build positive credit history on autopilot by using a credit card for a single recurring bill and then physically destroying the card to prevent overspending.

✔️ What Actually Matters in Your Credit Score: Get a clear breakdown of the key factors in your score, including why payment history is king (35%) and why closing an old credit card can actually hurt you.

✔️ The 90-Day Habit to Boost Your Score: Find out why you should ask for a credit limit increase every 3-6 months and how this simple action can significantly improve the crucial limits-to-balances ratio (30% of your score).

✔️ How to Turn Your RV into a Real Estate-Style Asset: Hear about Gar's unique business model that allows RV owners to turn a liability into an asset, complete with tax depreciation and expense write-offs.

How to Reach Gar Russell:

• Website & Free Books: Visit garrussell.com to download Gar's books for free or find them for purchase on Amazon.

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Welcome to The REAL in Real Estate Podcast, your go-to show for real estate success. In this powerful episode, we tackle the invisible forces holding your business back. If you've ever felt stuck, plateaued, or like you're working harder for the same results, this conversation will be a game-changer.

Host Jean is joined by the legendary Dr. Noah St. John, known worldwide as the "Zero Friction CEO Architect" and the coach behind more than $3 billion in client success. As the author of 25 best-selling books, Dr. Noah is famous for helping people make in 12 weeks what they previously made in 12 months. Get ready to learn how to release the brakes and achieve explosive growth.

In this episode, you will learn:

✔️ The Hidden Cost of Friction: Discover why every business problem is a friction problem and why millions of professionals are unknowingly driving their businesses with "one foot on the brake."

✔️ Mastering the Inner & Outer Game: Learn the two critical forces—the Inner Game (mindset) and the Outer Game (marketing & sales)—that you must master for sustainable, breakthrough success.

✔️ How to Identify Your "Head Trash": Gain clarity on the negative inner voice that says "I can't do it because..." and learn how it creates the friction that holds you back from your true potential.

✔️ The 5-Step Formula to Break Bad Habits: Understand the science behind habits (Cue, Routine, Reward, Craving, Belief) and learn why your brain's natural desire for safety often leads to procrastination.

✔️ How to Achieve the "Freedom Lifestyle": Get the blueprint for achieving a life with the time, energy, relationships, and money you desire, so you can finally win your life back.

How to Reach Dr. Noah St. John:

Free Zero Friction Audit: Visit noahstjohn.com to get a free analysis to see exactly where your foot is on the brake in your business.

Breakthrough Coaching: Ready to move fast? Visit breakthroughwithnoah.com to request a 15-minute business evaluation and receive a three-step plan for 10x growth.

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Welcome back to The Real in Real Estate Podcast, your go-to show for real estate success. In this episode, we bridge the crucial gap between real estate and financial planning. If you've ever wondered how to make your property investments work harder for your long-term wealth, this conversation is for you.

Host Jean is joined by financial strategist Kamela Scarbeck with the Fitzpatrick Group to discuss how to build and grow wealth. Kamela explains her firm's unique philosophy of providing comprehensive financial education to everyone by removing traditional barriers like consultation fees and high investment minimums, proving that expert financial guidance is within reach for all.

In this episode, you will learn:

✔️ How Real Estate Supercharges Your Wealth Plan: Discover why owning property offers returns you're unlikely to find anywhere else in the market and how a smart financial strategy should always work with your real estate assets, not against them.

✔️ Financial Planning for Everyone (No Minimums Required): Learn how the Fitzpatrick Group makes financial planning accessible to all, welcoming clients who are just starting out with as little as a thousand dollars and offering education with no strings attached.

✔️ A Smarter Way to Diversify Beyond Stocks: Find out about a powerful diversification strategy that utilizes both the stock market (risk) and the insurance side (guarantees) to provide your portfolio with more options, flexibility, and control.

✔️ Where to Find REAL Financial Advice (and Where Not To): Get clear guidance on where to find reliable financial education and why you should be wary of social media trends, as Kamela warns, "TikTok advisors don't know what they're talking about."

How to Reach Kamela Scarbeck:

Kamela encourages listeners to reach out with any questions.

• Instagram: wealthandharmony.ks
• LinkedIn: Kamela Scarbeck
• Email: [email protected]

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