The Real Marriage Podcast

Have you ever wondered, “Was that God speaking to me, or was that just my own thoughts?” Learning to hear from God can sometimes feel confusing, but we believe God still speaks—and He wants us to recognize His voice and follow His leading.

In this episode of The Real Marriage Podcast, we get practical about what it looks like to hear from God in our everyday lives. We break it down into three simple steps: Request, Recognize, and Respond. We talk about how to intentionally ask God to speak, how to recognize His voice when He does, and perhaps most importantly, what it looks like to respond with faith and obedience.

If you’ve ever wanted to grow closer to God and become more confident in recognizing His voice, this conversation is for you.

What’s the difference between being a peacemaker and simply being a peacekeeper? In this episode, we talk honestly about why conflict can be so difficult to approach, why we often avoid hard conversations, and how our desire to “keep the peace” can actually create more problems in the long run. True peacemaking isn’t about avoiding conflict or pretending everything is okay—it’s about having the courage, humility, and love to step into difficult situations and pursue genuine reconciliation. We explore what it looks like to stop running from conflict and instead allow God to use us to bring healing, truth, and lasting peace into our marriages and relationships.

Giving mercy and forgiveness sounds simple until we’re the ones who have been hurt. In this episode, we talk honestly and personally about how challenging it can be—even for us as a couple—to extend mercy, let go of resentment, and choose forgiveness when we don’t feel like it. But we also explore why mercy and forgiveness are so essential to following Jesus. Ultimately, learning to forgive isn’t just about improving our relationships; it’s a spiritual pursuit that draws us closer to the heart of God and teaches us to extend the same grace we have received from Him. Join us for an honest conversation about the struggle, the surrender, and the freedom that comes when we choose mercy.

Life is full of distractions, disappointments, and everyday pressures that can easily pull our focus away from what matters most. In this episode of The Real Marriage Podcast, we talk about what it practically looks like to fix our eyes on Jesus in the middle of busy schedules, unexpected hardships, and the ordinary moments of life. We share biblical encouragement, personal experiences, and practical ways to keep Christ at the center when life feels overwhelming. If you've been struggling to maintain your joy, peace, or perspective, we hope this conversation will encourage you to lift your eyes to the One who never changes.

What does it look like to drift into complacency without even realizing it? Does cheap Christianity satisfy? In this episode of The Real Marriage Podcast, we have an honest conversation about the danger of lukewarm Christianity and God's desire for our hearts to be fully devoted to Him. It's easy to become comfortable with routines, attend church, and say the right things while slowly losing our passion for Christ. Together, we explore what Scripture says about spiritual complacency, the warning Jesus gives to the lukewarm church, and the hope that God lovingly calls us to repentance and renewed devotion. If you've ever felt your faith growing stagnant or simply want to reignite your love for Jesus, we pray this episode encourages you to pursue Him wholeheartedly and live a life marked by genuine passion, obedience, and dependence on Him every day.

Have you ever found yourself wanting more of God—more of His presence, more of His peace, and more of His guidance? In this episode of The Real Marriage Podcast, we talk about what it means to cultivate a genuine desire to draw closer to God and hear His voice more clearly. We discuss how intimacy with God isn't built through quick fixes or emotional highs, but through daily surrender, time in His Word, prayer, and a heart that is willing to listen and obey. Whether you're feeling spiritually dry or simply longing for a deeper relationship with the Lord, we hope this conversation encourages you to pursue Him with confidence, knowing that God delights in revealing Himself to those who seek Him. As James 4:8 reminds us, "Come near to God and he will come near to you."

When people think about legacy, they often think about accomplishments, possessions, or the impact they leave on the world. But the most important legacy we can leave behind is a spiritual one. In this episode, we discuss what it means to pass down a faith that endures from generation to generation. We explore biblical examples of spiritual inheritance, the responsibility believers have to invest in the next generation, and practical ways to model a life devoted to Christ. Whether you're a parent, grandparent, mentor, or simply someone who wants their life to make an eternal difference, this conversation will encourage you to focus on the legacy that matters most—helping others know, love, and follow Jesus long after you're gone.

Weariness and burnout are struggles many Christians face, yet they often feel difficult to talk about openly. In this episode, we share a candid conversation about the pressures, disappointments, and demands that can leave believers feeling exhausted in their faith and daily lives. Together, we explore what Scripture teaches about rest, God's presence in seasons of weakness, and how to recognize when our souls are running on empty. Whether you're feeling overwhelmed, discouraged, or simply tired from carrying life's burdens, our hope is that this conversation will encourage you to find renewed strength, hope, and rest in Christ.

We all struggle with dry seasons. In our faith, relationships, work, etc.  

We feel off.  Things are flowing as well as we would like.

How can we thrive spiritually when it feels that way? Join us as we dig into seasons of drought and growing through them. 

We have finally made our way back to making episodes!

As we shift into more spiritual-focused conversations join us as we talk about what it means to live set apart.