In this episode, Natalie-Tasha and Libby sit down with Torianna, Brandon, and Kaitlyn to explore what it’s really like to date in today’s world, from the struggles of single life to the challenges of building something that actually lasts.

The conversation dives into why dating checklists rarely work, what happens when we try to “build a bae,” and how vulnerability changes everything. They share raw perspectives on identity, healing, and the quiet ways social media can make us second-guess our relationships. And when it comes to love, they ask the bigger question: are we searching for a partner, or still figuring out who we are inside?

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Is “talking” a real stage in dating, or just a way to avoid commitment? In this episode, Natalie-Tasha and Libby sit down with John-Carter, Garrett, and Kasey to unpack the biggest icks in dating, what makes romance deeper than intimacy, and how our parents’ marriages shape the way we see commitment today.

They open up about trying to fit lives together that don’t work, losing yourself in relationships, and the pressure to have everything perfectly figured out before love. From friendship-first dating and unrealistic “perfect partner” checklists to whether marriage actually solves problems—or just exposes them—this is real talk on self-work, timing, and choosing a connection that lasts.

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Is finding love today about spark, timing, or trust? In this episode, Dan and Natalie-Tasha sit down with Erin, Brandon, and Christiana to talk about setting expectations on date one, why the first-date “spark” isn’t everything, and how attraction grows when connection does. They open up about therapy and self-work, the pressure of singleness and serial dating, chasing people who don’t want us, and what healthy boundaries with opposite-sex friends look like after marriage.

From faith and covenant to the rise of “ethical non-monogamy,” this is real talk on commitment, loneliness, slow burns, and choosing love that lasts today.

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Is love about finding “the one” or creating it together? In this episode, Dan and Natalie-Tasha sit down with Michael, Anna, and Autumn to tackle the age gap debate, what makes a soulmate, and how long you should date before getting engaged.

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Is dating supposed to feel this exhausting? In this episode, Dan and Natalie-Tasha sit down with Hayden and JD to talk about the pressure to perform, the highs and lows of being single, and why dating can feel more like a checklist than a connection.

They open up about pulling back from apps, learning to spot shared values, and what happens when you’re always trying to be the “right” version of yourself. You’ll also hear real talk about missed chances, emotional connection, and why compatibility matters more than just chemistry. If dating has ever left you tired or confused, this one will feel like a deep breath.

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How do you know if you’re ready or just avoiding loneliness? In this episode, Dan and Natalie-Tasha sit down with Katie, Angela, and Jack. The crew talks about healing after breakups, letting go of baggage, and leaving people better than you found them. They unpack what it means to date with faith first, how to spot genuine spiritual alignment, and why maturity matters more than age. You’ll also hear real talk about mixed signals, dropping the hankie, and which dating standards actually matter for building a future.

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In this episode, Daniel and Natalie-Tasha sit down with Kathryn, Emily, and Eddie to talk about dating patterns, emotional effort, and why so many relationships just fizzle out. They open up about being "too picky," using spreadsheets to process past relationships, and what finally made someone feel different. The conversation also explores the tension between independence and intentionality, and why the pursuit of love feels more passive than ever.

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In this episode of The Real Thing, Daniel and Natalie-Tasha sit down with Lexi, Braden, and Carlos for an honest conversation about dating dynamics, where friend groups complicate things, green flags get overlooked, and emotional maturity is more rare than it should be. They unpack the pressure to self-improve before committing, the tension between privacy and outside opinions, and the red flags we often excuse in the name of chemistry.

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In this episode of The Real Thing, Daniel and Natalie-Tasha sit down with Presley, Deven, and Justin to talk about the chaos of dating in Dallas/Fort Worth. From dating app fatigue, friend zone frustrations, and why ghosting feels easier than honesty, they explore what’s holding people back, and what might finally push them forward. Plus: meet-cute tips for the Katy Trail and a theory on why big friend groups might be keeping you single.

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In this episode of The Real Thing, Daniel and Natalie-Tasha sit down with Ashley, Sophia, and Nate for a candid conversation about love, parenting, and second chances. They unpack what it means to date after divorce, navigate emotional affairs, and balance leadership roles in relationships, especially when kids are involved. From sarcasm gone wrong and first dates in the potato aisle, to the pressure of dating apps, this episode captures the awkward, funny, and vulnerable moments that come with starting over. If you’ve ever questioned whether you're too picky, too wounded, or just too tired to try again, this one reminds you that healing and connection are still possible.

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