S17E11: The Reason They May Not Be Making Moves

Maybe you've experienced that great date only to be confused when it didn't result in a kiss goodnight – or anything more. Are they just not that into you....or could it be something else? We’re discussing the different ways we all experience desire as we chat with Mike about being a hetero man who leans more on the submissive spectrum. We discuss the differences between responsive and spontaneous desire, how gender roles perpetuate stereotypes, and why we need to better understand our partners instead of making assumptions. Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts. This episode is sponsored by: NOCD: We're partnering with NOCD to raise awareness of relationship OCD. To book a free 15-minute call, go to nocd.com/dateable Uncommon Goods: Get 15% off your next gift at uncommongoods.com/dateable Drizly: Download the Drizly app or go to Drizly.com and use promo code FAST5 for $5 off your first order. Modern Fertility: Get $20 off your fertility test when you go to modernfertility.com/dateable. Bearaby: Get your hand-nit weighted blankets @mybearaby or bearaby.com Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcastsOur Meeting People IRL Masterclass is OPEN all summer: https://www.findingyourperson.com/meeting-people-irl-masterclass

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