The Recovery Couch

The Recovery Couch

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The Recovery Couch episodes

  • 241 - Breaking the Illusion of Perfection with Jen Schneeman | Finding Peace in the Chaos

    What if the life that looks “perfect” on the outside is actually masking chaos within?

    In this powerful episode of The Recovery Couch, I sit down with Jen Schneeman—a trauma-informed nervous system specialist, researcher, and co-founder of REAL Human Performance—to unpack the illusion of perfection and the hidden cost of constantly striving to prove our worth.

    Jen shares her deeply personal journey of having her identity wrapped up in achievement, performance, and “doing.” On paper, she had success. To others, she looked confident. But internally, she was battling relentless self-criticism, chronic pain, and a dysregulated nervous system stuck in survival mode.

    She opens up about the cycle so many of us know too well:

    GO… GO… GO… collapse… and repeat.
    Not once—but four times—before finally breaking through burnout and reclaiming her inner peace.

    Without a trusted guide to connect the dots, Jen had to lean into her own lived experience and decades of scientific understanding to rewire her nervous system. What she discovered changed everything.

    In this conversation, we dive into:

    • The illusion of perfection and how it fuels anxiety and burnout
    • Nervous system regulation and why it’s key to emotional healing
    • How chronic stress impacts mental health, identity, and peace
    • Practical tools to overcome chaos, burnout, and internal overwhelm
    • Building self-trust, resilience, and a sense of “enoughness”
    • Jen also shares the heart behind the SCAR program—a science-backed framework designed to help individuals regulate their nervous system, increase self-compassion, and reduce stress long-term.

      Today, Jen lives with more peace, flow, and freedom—not because life is perfect, but because she’s no longer trying to be.

      If you’ve ever struggled with burnout, anxiety, or feeling like you’re never enough… this episode will give you practical tools and a new perspective on healing.

      You always have a seat, right here, on The Recovery Couch.

      58 min
    • 240 - Unlocking Manhood: 7 Discipline Hacks for a Stronger Life

      In this inspiring conversation, Nathaniel Schooler shares insights on faith, discipline, and manhood, emphasizing the importance of daily habits, mental clarity, and spiritual connection to live a fulfilled and resilient life.

       
       
      Key topics
      • The importance of faith and daily prayer
      • Building resilience through discipline and habits
      • The role of physical activity and diet in mental health
      • Takeaways
        • Success is never giving up; losers give up, winners adapt to win.
        • Daily prayer and meditation help manage life's challenges.
        • Stacking small habits leads to profound life changes.
        • 42 min
        • 239 - Divine Intervention: Niemah's Journey of Faith and Resilience

          Niemah shares her miraculous journey from a Palestinian orphan fleeing honor killing to being adopted by American Christians, highlighting divine intervention, resilience, and faith. This story offers hope and insight into overcoming impossible odds through God's grace.

           

          Key topics

          • Divine intervention in adoption
          • The reality of honor killings and God's protection
          • The miraculous legal and diplomatic hurdles in international adoption
          • The emotional journey of discovering one's identity and roots
          • Faith and resilience through life's darkest moments
          • 45 min
          • 238 - Learning Together – Ego

            Exploring the nature of ego, its role in spiritual growth and recovery, and how to manage it for authentic connection and healing.

             

            Key topics

            The constructed nature of ego and its origins

            Ego as a barrier to spiritual growth and authentic connection The importance of surrender and humility in overcoming ego The role of ego in separation, comparison, and shame Strategies for managing ego and embracing authenticity

             

            Takeaways

            Ego is a constructed identity shaped by experiences, fears, pride, and need for control.

            Unchecked ego hinders spiritual growth, authentic connection, and healing.

            Ego develops as a protective mechanism but can keep us stuck in fear.

            Surrendering the ego involves releasing pride, control, and fear-based identity.

            Managing ego is essential for spiritual growth and lasting recovery.

            7 min
          • 237 = Lisa Matile's story of “I Am Worthy”: Breaking Addiction and Finding Identity Through Faith

            On this episode of The Recovery Couch, Brandon Couch sits down with Lisa Matile to discuss her powerful journey through addiction, trauma, and healing.

            For years, Lisa struggled with multiple addictions—including stimulants, alcohol, tobacco, and food—while battling feelings of unworthiness rooted in childhood trauma and abusive relationships. But through faith, prayer, journaling, and the grace of God, Lisa found a path toward healing and purpose.

            Now over four years sober from alcohol, Lisa shares how surrendering to God, forgiving her past, and building a supportive community helped transform her life.

            In this conversation, you’ll hear about:

            • The hidden roots of addiction and trauma

            • Learning to forgive yourself after years of shame
            • The role faith plays in long-term recovery
            • How community and service strengthen sobriety
            • Creating alcohol-free spaces for healing and connection

            Lisa now helps lead alcohol-free events for women through the Boozeless Babes community and is committed to helping others discover that recovery is possible.

            If you’ve ever struggled with addiction, shame, or feeling unworthy—this episode is a reminder that healing begins the moment you choose honesty and surrender.

            Because when we give people a space to be real… we give them a space to heal.

            33 min
          • 236 - The Power of Forgiveness in Recovery - John's Story

            In this episode of the Recovery Couch, host Brandon Couch speaks with John Young, who shares his journey from a troubled upbringing in a drug-infested neighborhood to overcoming addiction and finding redemption. John discusses the impact of his childhood, the struggles he faced in prison, and the pivotal moments that led him to change his life. He emphasizes the importance of forgiveness, both for oneself and others, and how sharing stories can foster empathy and healing. John's experiences highlight the challenges of recovery, the necessity of personal responsibility, and the transformative power of faith and resilience. Takeaways The environment you grow up in can shape your choices. Forgiveness is essential for personal growth. Daily struggles in recovery can be overwhelming. Self-responsibility is key to breaking the cycle of addiction. Sharing stories fosters empathy and connection. Trauma can be transformed into wisdom for others. Reinventing oneself is a crucial part of recovery. The teachings of Jesus can guide personal transformation. Healing is a long and challenging process. Family bonds can be formed beyond blood relations.

            35 min
          • 235 - From Addiction to Redemption: Josh's Journey
            In this episode of The Recovery Couch, host Brandon Couch speaks with Josh Johnson, a peer recovery specialist with 12 years of sobriety. Josh shares his journey from addiction, which began after a cancer diagnosis, to his experiences in prison and eventual recovery. The conversation highlights the importance of addressing both addiction and mental health, the role of faith in recovery, and the significance of creating a supportive environment for those in recovery. Josh emphasizes the need for empathy and understanding in recovery programs and offers encouragement to those facing challenges in their own recovery journeys.
             
            Takeaways
            • The Recovery Couch provides a space for real, faith-based conversations.
            • Josh's addiction began after being prescribed pain medication for cancer.
            • Mental health issues often accompany addiction and need to be addressed.
            • Prison experiences can have a profound impact on mental health.
            • Faith-based recovery programs can be effective in healing.
            • Empathy and understanding are crucial in recovery support.
            • Creating a supportive environment helps individuals feel seen and heard.
            • Recovery is a journey that requires hard work and dedication.
            • Encouragement and motivation can come from personal experiences.
            • Everyone has the potential to overcome their challenges.
            • 49 min
            • 234 - From Trauma to Triumph: Sean Young's Journey
              In this episode of the Recovery Couch, host Brandon Couch speaks with Sean Young, who shares his profound journey through trauma, addiction, and recovery. Sean discusses the impact of childhood trauma, his experiences in the military, and how these factors contributed to his struggles with addiction. He emphasizes the importance of acceptance, accountability, and the tools he has learned to maintain his sobriety. Sean's story is one of resilience, hope, and the power of community in the recovery process.
               
              Takeaways
              • Addiction often stems from compounded trauma.
              • Childhood experiences shape our adult lives.
              • Seeking a father's approval can lead to unhealthy dynamics.
              • Military service can trigger underlying issues.
              • Numbing pain through substances is a common coping mechanism.
              • Acceptance is a crucial step in recovery.
              • Finding gratitude can shift one's perspective.
              • Recovery is a personal journey with no one-size-fits-all solution.
              • Building a support network is essential for sobriety.
              • Resilience is key to overcoming life's challenges.
              • 37 min
              • 233 - From Addiction to Recovery: Karen's Inspiring Journey

                In this episode of The Recovery Couch, host Brandon Couch speaks with Karen Pizza, who shares her powerful journey through addiction and recovery. Karen recounts her initial struggles with opioid addiction following a car accident, her subsequent journey through recovery, and the challenges she faced with relapse. She emphasizes the importance of community, faith, and personal growth in her recovery process, ultimately finding strength in her sobriety and a desire to help others facing similar struggles.

                Takeaways -

                Recovery is a journey that often includes setbacks.

                Community and support are crucial in overcoming addiction.

                Acknowledging one's addiction is a significant step towards recovery.

                Faith can play a vital role in the healing process.

                It's important to take recovery one moment at a time.

                Relapse can be part of the recovery journey, not the end.

                Sharing one's story can help others and reinforce personal recovery.

                Mental health is closely linked to addiction and recovery.

                Finding a supportive network can make a difference in recovery.

                It's okay to seek help and admit when you're not okay.

                33 min
              • 232 - Recovering from a bear market with Crypto - Dorian Rodgers

                In this episode of The Recovery Couch, Brandon sits down with Dorian Rodgers for a grounded, beginner-friendly conversation on cryptocurrency—through a recovery-minded lens.

                We break down what cryptocurrency actually is, how to recover after bear markets and market crashes, and why emotional discipline matters just as much in investing as it does in life. Dorian clearly explains the  blockchain log, and unpacks the concept of the Internet of Value vs. the Internet of Data—why that distinction matters, and how it’s shaping the future of money.

                We also discuss dollar-cost averaging as a long-term strategy, especially during volatility, and why chasing hype often leads to poor decisions. Dorian emphasizes one critical takeaway throughout the episode: do your own, continual research. Education, patience, and personal responsibility are key to avoiding costly mishaps—financially and mentally.

                Whether you’re crypto-curious, navigating losses, or simply looking to understand the space without the noise, this episode offers clarity, perspective, and practical wisdom—without the hype.

                29 min

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