What if the most peaceful moments in life come when we stop trying to control everything?In today’s episode of The Redeemed Mess, Kathy shares what she’s been learning in her senior years about releasing the need to always be in charge. From simple decisions like where to walk the dogs, to deeper reflections about trusting God’s leading, she invites you into a conversation about the quiet freedom found in letting go.If you’ve been feeling weary from all the decision-making and carrying the weight of responsibility, this gentle episode might be just what your soul needs.

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Resentment doesn’t always roar. Sometimes, it whispers quietly through unresolved conflict, unmet expectations, or the pain of feeling unseen. In this heartfelt episode, I share how resentment has shown up in my own life—especially when I’ve felt misunderstood or pushed aside by someone I love.

We’ll talk about where resentment begins, how it can quietly grow, and the toll it takes when left unaddressed. Drawing from both the Bible and the wisdom of the Big Book of AA, I’ll walk you through how we can recognize it, release it, and find healing through grace and truth.

If you’re carrying the weight of bitterness or feel stuck in silent anger, this episode is for you.
There’s freedom waiting—and Jesus is ready to help you lay it down.

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Do you ever catch yourself stuck in a spiral of “what ifs”? In this episode, I’m talking about how overthinking can quietly take over our peace and how we can gently shift our focus back to what’s true.With encouragement from Philippians 4:8 and a few simple steps that help me get out of my head, we’ll talk about choosing peace instead of panic.You’re not alone in this. Let’s walk through it together.
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When life turns upside down—through illness, heartbreak, or loss—something sacred happens. The fluff fades. The distractions fall away. And what’s left is the real you… the wheat God planted deep within your soul.

In today’s episode, Kathy shares how walking with her daughter through cancer has changed her perspective—and how suffering reveals what truly matters. If you’ve ever felt like everything is being stripped away, this message is for you.

Take a breath, friend. You’re not being undone. You’re being refined.

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Have you ever caught yourself pretending just to be accepted? Saying yes when your soul is tired, smiling when you're breaking, or serving others—not out of joy, but out of fear?

In this vulnerable episode of The Redeemed Mess, Kathy shares how years of people-pleasing and performing slowly became one of the biggest messes of her life. She opens up about the fear of abandonment that often hides beneath our need for approval, and how Jesus gently calls us out of performance and into freedom.

This is a conversation for the woman who’s tired of pretending—who wants to rest, be real, and finally live from a place of truth. You are already accepted. You are already loved. You don’t have to perform to belong.

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Have you ever wondered if your need for space and solitude is actually self-protection in disguise? In this episode, Kathy opens up about the tension between healthy boundaries and isolating barriers. What’s really going on when we say we're just "not a people person"? Maybe it’s time to ask God to search our hearts.

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In today’s episode of The Redeemed Mess, we’re diving into that familiar phrase—“It takes one to know one.” But what if that’s not about judgment… what if it’s about grace?When we recognize a struggle in someone else, it might be because we’ve lived it ourselves. There’s a holy kind of knowing that comes from walking through the hard stuff. And rather than using it to criticize, we can use it to connect. This episode explores how our own experiences—especially the messy ones—can help us gently point others toward healing, hope, and truth in love.If you've ever felt misunderstood when trying to help someone, or you’ve wondered if speaking up is the right thing to do, this conversation will encourage you to listen to that Spirit-led nudge… and lead with grace.

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Are you exhausted from always being the strong one? In this heartfelt episode of The Redeemed Mess, Kathy opens up about what it’s like to reach your threshold—when holding it all together just isn’t sustainable anymore. She shares how faking strength can become a quiet performance rooted in pride, and how God gently invites us to be honest, broken, and real before Him.Scripture reminds us: “He holds all things together.” – Colossians 1:17“Cast all your anxiety on Him because He cares for you.” – 1 Peter 5:7“The Lord is close to the brokenhearted.” – Psalm 34:18Let this episode be your permission to stop performing—and start resting in grace. You were never meant to carry it all. Jesus is strong enough for both of you.

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When life hands us heartbreak, betrayal, addiction, or a devastating diagnosis—where do we turn? In today’s episode, Kathy reflects on what real hope looks like in the middle of chaos. She opens up about her daughter’s cancer journey, her own nervous breakdown, and how years of trying to control everything eventually gave way to true surrender. If you’ve ever wondered how people make it through hard seasons without God, this episode is for you.

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When you’re walking through a season of deep trial—like a diagnosis, a loss, or a season of uncertainty—it can feel impossible to find joy. But James 1 reminds us that these trials are doing something far deeper than we can see.In today’s episode, I share how this passage has encouraged me during my daughter’s cancer journey. God is not only working all things for good—He is forming perseverance in us right now. We’ll reflect on what it means to ask for wisdom, to trust Him when things don’t make sense, and to hold on to the promise of the crown of life for those who endure.If your heart is weary or your faith feels shaky, I pray this brings peace to your soul.🤍 Let perseverance finish its work.

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