The Revelation Project

In this episode, Monica and Libby kick off a new season with a playful conversation about their journeys of unbecoming and the transformative power of pilgrimage.

They discuss the importance of pleasure, rest, and play, and by embracing these aspects, we can redefine success and create space in our lives to express new values and reach new states of illumination, peace, and wholeness. They delve into the challenges of pursuing desires despite societal expectations, family responsibilities, and internalized patriarchal voices that hinder self-approval.

Monica shares a bit about her pilgrimage to Crete, a 16-day goddess pilgrimage filled with rich cultural experiences. They explore the significance of taking “unreasonable” amounts of time off, breaking free from societal expectations, and reorienting themselves to new realities upon return.

The podcast also delves into the power of sisterhood, the power of witness, and the longings to be in supportive and courageous practices with other women. These are the most beneficial for befriending the nervous system, embracing all parts of the Self, and creating new life possibilities.

If you resonate with UNBECOMING then follow this invitation to self-discovery and transformation; visit jointherevelation.com/unbecoming to schedule a free call and embark on your untangling of patriarchal patterns that keep you stuck in the “box” of conformity.

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Special Guest: Libby Bunten.

Sponsored By:

• Unbecoming Fall 2023: UNBECOMING: Break the bullshit rules to transcend good girl programming & reveal the truth of who you are.​

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Meet my beautiful guest Carly Mountain and join us as we explore her powerful and transformative work on the Myth of Inanna and its relevance to our modern day lives which is often overlooked in patriarchal culture.

Carly shares her personal journey of descent and rising and finding the medicine she needed in this ancient story. Ultimately, she was inspired to make it even more accessible by adding the voices and stories of many women who have traveled this ancient map into the underworld and back again as a testament to the power of this mythical journey.

Inanna's story is for all women who are ready to know themselves more deeply, and face the shadowy depths of the unconscious realms of our being.

The portal into the underworld begins to open as a result of our own seeking, and for Carly, it began during her transition into motherhood and she shares more of her story as we get deeper into the episode.

Our discussion concludes with the importance of embracing both the light and dark aspects of ourselves, trusting our desires, and the power of our emotions.

Carly's raw and honest storytelling, complemented by her thought-provoking poetry, will leave you breathless and inspired. As we navigate the seven gates of the Inanna myth, from dissociation and trauma to the powerful reconnection with our bodies, we unveil the ancient map of our own healing.

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Carly Mountain is a psychotherapist, a psychosexual somatic therapist, breathworker and writer. For the last twenty years she has worked with sacred embodied practices. Her writing and work seeks to uncover what has been exiled or hidden within, that is longing to be remembered and reconnected with. Her new book Descent & Rising: Women’s Stories & the Embodiment of the Inanna Myth explores women’s real lived experiences of descent and rising, and familiarises us with a process of female psycho-spiritual growth often overlooked in patriarchal culture. Carly stumbled across the Inanna story during her own descent to the underworld and was astonished by the symmetry it held with her own experience. Since then she has devoted to working with the myth and specialises in beholding others as they traverse the depths of initiation; both in therapy, breathwork and within courses that support women’s awakening and unfolding. She lives in Sheffield, England with her husband and two daughters.

Special Guest: Carly Moutain.

Sponsored By:

• Unbecoming Fall 2023: UNBECOMING: Break the bullshit rules to transcend good girl programming & reveal the truth of who you are.​

Links:

• Website: Writer, Psychotherapist and Women's Initiatory Guide

In this episode of the Revelation Project podcast, Monica and her guest Jim Young explore the societal pressures that men face to be tough and how it can lead to burnout. Jim shares his personal journey of realizing the need to hide his sensitivity and vulnerability in order to conform to societal expectations. They discuss the lack of male role models and the struggles they faced growing up. Jim talks about his experience of being anointed the man of the house at a young age, taking on the role without any guidance. The conversation delves into the impact of shame on male intimacy and the importance of moving through burnout to create intimate connections. They also touch on the similarities between the societal conditioning of men and women and the glorification of toughness. The episode ends with a discussion on self-care, self-discovery, and the importance of authentic connection.

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As he grew from boyhood into manhood, Jim Young was handed a set of cultural beliefs that told him to go it alone, never ask for help, and to prove his manliness at every turn. Eventually, his life experience revealed how dangerous and lonely that path was. Today, Jim moves through life guided by the principles of "expansive intimacy."

Special Guest: Jim Young.

Sponsored By:

• Unbecoming Fall 2023: UNBECOMING: Break the bullshit rules to transcend good girl programming & reveal the truth of who you are.​

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• Website: Burnout | The Centered Coach | Jim Young | Leadership Development

Are you struggling with confidence issues and women's health? In this episode, Monica speaks with bestselling author and thyroid health expert Elle Russ about the link between confidence and women's health. They discuss how suppressing our true selves can lead to physical manifestations, particularly in the throat area of the thyroid gland. Elle shares her experience with hypothyroidism and feeling choked up and unable to speak her truth. They also explore the symptoms and importance of diagnosing and treating hypothyroidism and the societal oppression and expectations that affect women's confidence. They discuss the power of confidence and authenticity in relationships and the need to overcome shame and fear of judgment. Elle provides practical tips on how to build confidence and assertiveness and shares insights from her book, "Confident as Fuck.”

What sets this episode apart is Elle's stories’ raw honesty and relatability. She shares her personal experiences of overcoming physical disabilities and various obstacles. These life-changing events became the catalysts for her transformation, leading her to discover her true purpose and become a bestselling author.

Don't miss this insightful and empowering conversation that will inspire you to reclaim your confidence and live authentically.

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Elle Russ is a #1 bestselling author, world-renowned thyroid health expert, and master coach. She is the author of Confident As Fu*k and The Paleo Thyroid Solution – a book that has helped thousands of people worldwide reclaim their health. Elle has written for Entrepreneur magazine and featured in Success, HuffPost, Mind Body Green, Prevention, and more. Elle offers online courses and free masterclasses at ElleRuss.com

Special Guest: Elle Russ.

Sponsored By:

• Unbecoming Fall 2023: UNBECOMING: Break the bullshit rules to transcend good girl programming & reveal the truth of who you are.​

Links:

• Enter the Giveaway!

Meet Cheryl Buck, a cancer anthropologist who shares her personal journey and research about Cancer and its role in human consciousness.

Cheryl's focus is on indigenous cultures and the healing power of the body. Cheryl explores cancer as a teacher and as she perused her research, ended up having her own intimate experience with healing it.

Cheryl discusses how cancer entered her life through a book about a boy with a brain tumor and the transformative impact of the story shared by Dr. Max Gerson and his treatment for healing end-stage cancer patients.

Cheryl highlights her hesitation in sharing alternative methods due to opposition from conventional doctors, and those who are indoctrinated to believe that alternative methods are "crazy" or " out there" - but she has seen the results from these methods and believes that Cancer is ultimately an invitation and a wake up call to become more conscious and aware of the importance of your own body and life.

We discuss the importance of listening and deciding for oneself about alternative therapies and Cheryl shares her experience with the Gerson Method and the support she received from her family .

The episode concludes with a discussion on reconnecting with nature and the feminine wisdom within us, and the need for a new era of consciousness.

For more information, visit the Cancer Talks website and listen to their podcast.

Special Guest: Cheryl Buck.

Sponsored By:

• Unbecoming Fall 2023: UNBECOMING: Break the bullshit rules to transcend good girl programming & reveal the truth of who you are.​

Links:

• Enter the Giveaway!

In this episode of the Revelation Project podcast, Monica welcomes guest Libby to discuss the transformative journey of unbecoming and divesting from patriarchal conditioning. They explore the importance of storytelling, the limitations of societal roles for women, and the need to explore unconscious conditioning. The conversation delves into personal stories of loss, grief, and healing, as well as the impact of family lineage on self-discovery. They emphasize the power of group work and embodied experiences for unearthing hidden conditioning and connecting the dots. The episode also touches on the spell of celebrity culture, disordered eating, and the importance of consent and personal boundaries. Monica and Libby highlight the need to reclaim one's true self and break free from the trance of unworthiness imposed by patriarchy. They invite listeners to join them in this transformative journey of unbecoming and remember their innate worth and brilliance.

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Special Guest: Libby Bunten.

Sponsored By:

• Unbecoming Fall 2023: UNBECOMING: Break the bullshit rules to transcend good girl programming & reveal the truth of who you are.​

Links:

• The Revelation Project Episode 138: Libby Bunten - UNBECOMING & Healing the Sisterhood Wound

Richard Harris has a huge heart and is a force for freedom from tyranny in all its forms. That said, he’s been censored and de-platformed for speaking out about medical mandates and mind control through nefarious agendas that use tactics of fear-based control to illicit compliance and conformity.

In this episode, we unmask some of tyranny’s disguises and share our own experiences with obedience training and fear-based control tactics that are used to create divisions through media, government, gender conditioning, and more.

I loved this conversation because Richard asked me as many questions as I asked him. Neither of us had an agenda other than to explore where our questions might lead us, and I’m thrilled with the territory we covered as we touched on the passions that keep us committed to the path of freedom and the pursuit of higher consciousness.

We discuss the importance of embracing curiosity, overcoming loneliness, and building self-respect. We also explore the division between awakening individuals and those who might be stuck in fear-based control and how COVID-19 accentuated and accelerated that divide using tactics of censorship, manipulation, and fear.

Richard shares his own experience with obedience trauma when he was sent to military school at the tender age of eight, where he remained until he turned eighteen years of age. He reveals that this intense obedience training ironically amplifies his value of autonomy and freedom. It also prepared him for what he sees as the spiritual battle playing out on the planet today. Richard shares his understanding of where we are in our human evolution and how reconnecting to our spiritual selves and pursuing the path of consciousness is the most liberating work we can do, I love what he shares about the spiritual powers and gifts of women being especially needed at this time, and how men benefit from women who are fully embodied and liberated to shine their true sovereign selves.

We also talk about walking the way of the warrior, the ancient spiritual path, and the middle path that calls us to unity by dispelling the many illusions that keep us in various states of polarity and how we can embrace the paradox of our existence to more clearly see the one true thing going on here.

Buckle your seatbelt- this conversation is a ride through the seen and unseen realms for sure!

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Richard is a life coach. He has studied and practiced personal development for two decades. He uses an eclectic model in coaching, which finds strategies and tactics to cultivate the character across all domains - physical, psychological, spiritual, and environmental. Richard is passionate about freedom and is active in the freedom movement, both online and offline. He is the enemy of tyranny, both within and without, and an advocate for the best in humanity to grow.

Special Guest: Richard Harris.

Sponsored By:

• Unbecoming Fall 2023: UNBECOMING: Break the bullshit rules to transcend good girl programming & reveal the truth of who you are.​

Links:

• Life Coach - One-to-One Life Coaching in Bath, Somerset

Are you ready for a mesmerizing journey into the wonders of the natural world? Join me as I welcome the wise and wonderful Judith Berger to the Revelation Project Podcast. This episode is all about the profound connection between humans and nature, and Judith shares her intimate experiences, her deep love for the earth, and how she began to recognize a deep need for ritual and rapture as part of our human experience.

Judith transports us to a nursery, surrounded by soft ground and the intoxicating scent of soil. She beautifully describes the mutual sense of welcome and wonder found in nature, where we discover a different understanding of ourselves and the world and her revelation about opening portals into liminal space that opens our hearts, allowing us to fully embrace the magic of our environment!

But here's the thing - Judith believes that our connection with nature isn't limited to our time spent outdoors. We can carry that connection with us, even when we're not physically immersed in nature. Personal totems, like feathers or stones, help us maintain that sacred bond and keep our souls aligned with the natural world.

As the conversation unfolds, Judith shares her captivating journey - from her childhood adventures in Brooklyn and the Catskills to her deepening connection with trees and her exploration of fairytales and Greek myths. We reminisce about the freedom and imagination of our own childhoods and discuss the longing for children to experience the vibrant world of outdoor play.

Judith emphasizes the importance of caring for the earth through intimate experiences and as she discovered the power of herbal medicine and yoga, she realized the role of rapture - that boundless pleasure and safety in our senses - that impacts and influences our overall well-being not only for ourselves, but also for people around us.

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If you're eager to learn more, Judith has some exciting offerings for you! She has authored a book, "Herbal Rituals," which is a delightful introduction to the world of herbal medicine, filled with poetry and recipes for each month of the year. Plus, she offers newsletter subscriptions, poetry classes, and consultations on her website!

So, my friends, if you're ready to be enchanted by the healing power of nature and discover the abundant beauty of plant medicine, then this episode is meant for you. Don't miss out!

Judith Berger is an herbalist, poet, writer and physician assistant. Born and raised in Brooklyn, her earliest contact with nature was through the prism of fairy tales, the wilds of her father’s backyard garden and the dark corridors of the local plant nursery, where she first cherished the scent of soil. In Ithaca, where she went to University, she experienced her first encounters with the forest that would eventually lead her to study, teach and write about medicinal plants.

After obtaining her P.A. license, Judith returned to writing poetry, as a way to balance the left-hemispheric central nervous system focus of the medical field with the imaginal, mythic world so interwoven with nature. Over the years, Berger has ventured deeper and deeper into the woods, spending much of her free time backpacking in the Catskills and Adirondacks, studying animal tracking and mushroom identification as she continues to harvest plant and mushroom medicine for her clients, family and community and write about her encounters with the natural world.

Special Guest: Judith Berger.

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• Judith Berger – Herbalist & Author

“Not dying changed everything. Not only did I not die, I actually got to live. And living offered me the chance to bring the most meaningful lessons I learned from facing death into my life and into the lives of many others.” - Kristi Nelson

When Kristi Nelson was diagnosed with stage IV Cancer at age 33, she realized how easy it is to thirst for happiness when you are already standing knee deep in abundance. This is when she began to nurture a gratitude practice that transformed her life and to “being awake to what matters."

Stripped away from everything, she realized the abundance of life's simplest pleasures and began the practice of waking up grateful and staying mindful in her experience which opened her to the teachings and opportunities within each and every moment for learning, insight, love, and action even in the midst of her struggles.

This is when she had the revelation that gratitude is momentary and gratefulness is a way of being. That while gratitude needs something good to happen, greatfulness opens us to the opportunity to experience gratitude in every moment.

Our conversation dives into the five points of perspective and the power of gratefulness in activism and the importance of being deeply in touch with what makes us come alive.

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If this conversation resonates with you, make sure to check out Kristi's book, "Wake Up, Grateful," and visit the Grateful Living organization for more inspiration. The links are in the show notes.

Kristi Nelson is the recently retired executive director of A Network for Grateful Living. She has a masters degree in public administration from the Harvard Kennedy School and has spent more than 30 years in nonprofit leadership, development and consulting. She was worked for the Center For Mindfulness in Medicine, Kripalu Center for Yoga and Health, and the Soul of Money Institute. Kristi is a stage IV cancer survivor who cherishes living among friends and family in western Massachusetts.

Special Guest: Kristi Nelson.

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• Website: Welcome to Grateful Living

This episode features my dear friend and returning guest, Bergen Hyde and her personal story of divesting from patriarchal religion.

This is a topic I feel is very important because I believe many patriarchal religions are the underpinnings of the trance of unworthiness, keeping many women in positions of servitude and oppression through biblical misinterpretations, scripture and sanctioned abuse.

Bergen generously and courageously shares what it’s been like to untangle from her Mormon faith tradition including the heartache and courage as she unpacks years of repression, and even her own complicity in her own indoctrination.

We explore various aspects of Mormonism and the practices that were most troubling for her including ideologies, rituals, gender roles, body shame, and the perpetuation of patriarchal norms.

We also discuss the intersectionality of patriarchy with racism, fat phobia, homophobia, and transphobia, emphasizing the need to confront internalized oppression and dismantle oppressive systems.

We also delve into topics such as feeling spiritually homeless and named the episode "Losing My Religion” after the song by REM, as Bergen reckons with the truth as she highlights the importance of changing transforming her personal narrative to one of empowerment and sovereignty after years of feeling angry and victimized.

This is a longer episode than usual because it’s such an important topic that requires more space for reflection- I hope you love it as much as I do.

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Bergen Hyde lives in Provo, Utah with her partner and three children. Her favorite things are dancing, salty snacks, spending time in the mountains, and preferably in a body of water.

She is the Co-Founder and Creative Director of WOMB, which she founded with her two sisters Jentri and Sarah. The three sisters hold women’s circles, workshops, retreats, and one-on-one mentoring designed to support women in healing internalized patriarchy, integrating the sacred feminine, and reclaiming personal sovereignty.

Bergen has been devoted to the sacred feminine and regularly co-partners with Sarah Durham Wilson to facilitate group mentorship through the Wounded Maiden to Mature Feminine Rites of Passage Program.

Special Guest: Bergen Hyde.

Sponsored By:

• Rockstar Camp for Women: Rockstar Camp is a LIVE somatic experiential learning adventure in a container of Sisterhood.

Links:

• The Revelation Project Episode 105: Bergen Hyde - From Wounded Maiden to Cherishing Mother: An Archetypal Rite of Passage for Women