The right thinking is key to a good life.
【Xian'er says so: Don’t be fooled by your mind.】
Wang Xiaowu said：Xian’er, I actually like the ice cream you made.

It is delicious indeed. I often say that your ice-cream is like poop,

that is because I don’t like how you show off.
Xian’er said: It’s okay, I know you don’t like the way I am.

You have got a lot in you.
Wang Xiaowu said: I thought that since I don’t like your style, then I’ll just ignore you.

I will not eat your ice-cream and tell everyone that your ice-cream sucks.
Xian’er said: Believe it or not, I understand how you feel.

I too often think that I will never speak to you again.

But Shifu taught us not to think this way.

Below are quoted from my Shifu’s new book, Say Good Things—Master Xuecheng’s insight on the path to speaking like a Buddha. 
We all deal with various people, matters and things every day and manage various  relationships.

The mind will be of clarity
if things are done after the right thinking.
Otherwise, we will be anxious, complain, not know what to do,

and ultimately fall into darkness without the right thinking.

好的人生来自正确的思维方式
贤二如是说：别被念头骗了 |
王小五说，贤二，其实我还是挺喜欢你做的冰激凌，确实挺好吃的，
我经常说你的冰激凌像便便，是因为我老是看不惯你这么拽。
贤二说，没关系，我知道你看不惯我，你自己心里其实挺苦的。
王小五说，我就想既然我看不惯你，就干脆不甩你了。也不吃你做的冰激凌，
所以逢人就说你的冰激凌不好。
贤二说，其实，我挺理解你的，经常也想永远也不甩你了。
但是我师父教我们不能这样想问题。

|以下来自我师父的《好好说话》
每个人每天都会面对各种各样的人、事、物，要不断处理各种关系。
经过正确的思维后再做事，内心就清清楚楚，非常光明。
反之，如果没有正思维，就会每天焦躁、抱怨、无所事事，最终陷入生活的黑暗。