⚔️ Step Nine – Reclaiming Honour
“Made direct amends to such people wherever possible, except when to do so would injure them or others.”
There comes a moment in every warrior’s journey when the battlefield turns inward.
Step Nine is that moment.
It’s not about grovelling.
It’s not about begging for forgiveness.
It’s about standing tall in the wreckage you once created… and choosing to clean it with your own hands.
This step is about honour.
Not the kind you shout about — but the kind that sits quietly in your soul when you know you’ve done what’s right.
In this episode, I talk about what it really means to make amends — not just say “sorry,” but take full responsibility for the damage done. We talk about how to approach the people we’ve hurt, when to hold back, and how to know if making that amend could cause more harm than healing.
Step Nine is about facing the people we once ran from.
And let’s be clear: this takes guts.
It’s one thing to clean up your own life.
It’s another to walk back through the fire you lit in someone else’s.
But a true warrior doesn’t just rebuild himself —
He restores trust, truth, and integrity wherever he can.
In this episode, I also share real tools for preparing your amends, listening to your Higher Power, and carrying yourself with humility — not shame.
This isn’t about being liked.
It’s about doing what’s right.
Whether your amend is accepted or rejected — it’s the act of showing up that shifts your spirit.
So if you're ready to walk back into your past — not to dwell there, but to make it right —
Step Nine is your call to arms.
This is where you reclaim your honour.
This is where you stop running.
And this is where the real healing begins.