Love is one of the most desired experiences in life — yet one of the least understood.

Growing up, we were taught how to want love, how to dream about it, and how to chase it. But nobody taught us how love actually works, how it exposes wounds, how it demands maturity, or how it requires responsibility beyond feelings.

In this episode, What Nobody Told Us About Love, we have an honest, eye-opening conversation about the truths many people only learn after heartbreak.

This episode explores:

• Why love does not automatically heal you

• How love exposes unhealed wounds and patterns

• The difference between emotional attraction and healthy love

• Why love should bring peace, not confusion

• How to approach love differently in 2026

This is not a romantic fantasy episode.

It is a clarity episode.

A healing episode.

A wisdom episode for anyone entering a new year with questions about love.

If you want to love better, choose better, and stop repeating painful patterns, this conversation is for you.

They said the words.

They made the promises.

They made you believe in “forever.”

And then, they left.

Without warning. Without closure. Without explanation.

If you’ve ever been left questioning, “Was any of it even real?” this episode will help you process what happened without losing your peace.

Because sometimes, love doesn’t fail — people do.

In this raw, Spirit-led episode, we talk about:

💔 When love feels like a lie

💔 Why they left after saying “I love you”

💔 How to grieve what could’ve been without staying stuck

💔 What God wants to show you through this kind of heartbreak

00:00 – Welcome back to Love, Heartbreak & Healing

02:00 – “They said they loved me… then they left.” The heartbreak that confuses your faith

05:10 – When words and actions don’t match: the pain of emotional betrayal

09:00 – “Was any of it real?” Learning that love and maturity aren’t the same

13:45 – Why some people mean well but lack the depth to love well

17:20 – Healing when the person who said “I love you” disappeared

22:00 – Letting God redefine love after disappointment

26:00 – A prayer to release the one who left

29:00 – Outro + preview of Episode 5: “Healing Is Hard When You’re Still in Love.”

🎙️ You didn’t imagine the love, you just expected the person to sustain it.

Let God show you what real, lasting love looks like.

Different name.

Different face.

Same story.

You promised yourself it would be different this time — but somehow, you found yourself back in the same kind of heartbreak.

If that sounds familiar, this episode is for you.

In When You Keep Attracting the Same Kind of Hurt, we uncover why cycles repeat — emotionally, spiritually, and relationally. You’ll learn how old wounds can shape your choices, why familiar pain feels safer than healthy love, and how to finally break free from patterns that keep leading you back to the same kind of hurt.

It’s not punishment — it’s a pattern.

And once you see it, you can heal it.

00:00 – Intro | The feeling of living the same heartbreak over and over

01:10 – How unhealed wounds keep drawing you to familiar pain

02:40 – Why unhealthy love can feel like “home”

03:25 – The truth: it’s not punishment, it’s a pattern

04:10 – A prayer to break the cycle and let God rewrite your story

04:50 – Next episode preview: “They Said They Loved Me… Then Left”

🎧 Listen to this short episode when you need a quick reminder that God doesn’t repeat pain — He reveals it so you can he

They lied.

They ignored you.

They manipulated you.

They didn’t choose you.

And yet… your heart still misses them.

Why?

In this deep, Spirit-led episode, we uncover why our souls often cling to the very people who hurt us most. From trauma bonds to unmet needs to confusing pain with love, this conversation will help you make sense of the ache — and begin to break free from it.

You are not crazy. You are not weak. You’re just healing — and God is with you through it all.

00:00 – Welcome back to Love, Heartbreak & Healing

02:20 – The paradox of missing someone who mistreated you

06:00 – Trauma bonds explained in simple language

10:45 – Why “sometimes good moments” keep us hooked

13:30 – Familiar pain vs healthy love — why we choose dysfunction

17:15 – “Do I miss them… or do I miss how they made me feel?”

20:10 – Practical steps to untangle from toxic attachments

23:45 – Honest prayers to pray when you still feel tied to them

27:00 – God’s heart for your healing and freedom

29:30 – Outro + preview of Episode 3: “When You Keep Attracting the Same Kind of Hurt”

🎙️ Healing is possible. Freedom is real.

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You prayed.

You cried.

You fasted.

You even blocked them…

But your heart still misses them.

In this honest episode, we explore what it really means when you can’t stop thinking about someone God already asked you to release. If you’ve ever wondered why you’re still holding on, this is for you.

Whether it’s soul ties, grief, memory triggers, or unfinished feelings, we go deep — without judgment. You’re not crazy. You’re not weak. You’re healing.

00:00 – Welcome to the Love, Heartbreak & Healing series

01:50 – “God, why am I still thinking about them?”

04:30 – The emotional confusion of praying but still missing them

07:45 – When memories become triggers

10:20 – What to do when they keep showing up in your dreams or feed

14:15 – The difference between grieving and idolizing

17:00 – Soul ties: What they really are (not just emotional hype)

21:40 – “Is it because I haven’t fully healed?” Let’s talk.

24:10 – How to stop romanticizing someone God removed

27:05 – A raw prayer for letting go and moving on

29:30 – What’s coming next in Episode 2…

🎙️ New episodes every week. Healing is not just possible — it’s promised.

This episode isn’t for the faint-hearted — it’s for the honest-hearted.

What if the common pattern in all your failed relationships… is you?

Not in a way that brings shame, but in a way that brings healing and growth.

In this episode of Relationship Talks with Vikkie, we unpack the courage it takes to look inward, how to identify harmful behaviors, and most importantly — how to break the cycle and become emotionally healthy for real love.

🎧 Timestamps:

⏱️ 00:00 – Introduction

A heart-to-heart moment. Why this topic matters more than we admit.

⏱️ 02:40 – Facing Yourself Without Shame

• ​ God isn’t condemning you — He’s inviting you to grow
• ​ Self-awareness is a gift, not a punishment

📖 Romans 8:1 — “There is therefore now no condemnation…”

⏱️ 06:20 – Signs You Might Be the Common Denominator

• ​ Constant miscommunication?
• ​ Fear of vulnerability?
• ​ Quick to walk away or shut down emotionally?
• ​ Attracted to brokenness?

⏱️ 11:50 – The Power of Accountability

• ​ Who checks you when you’re out of line?
• ​ Do you have safe people who help you see what you can’t?

📖 Proverbs 27:6 — “Wounds from a friend can be trusted…”

⏱️ 16:40 – Healing the Root, Not Just the Fruit

• ​ Your triggers are telling a story
• ​ Addressing childhood wounds, abandonment issues, and pride

⏱️ 22:15 – Practical Steps to Grow & Heal

• ​ Get therapy, get discipled, get honest
• ​ Journal patterns from your past relationships
• ​ Invite God into your blind spots

📖 Psalm 139:23–24 — “Search me, God, and know my heart…”

⏱️ 27:00 – Final Encouragement

• ​ You are not doomed to repeat the same story
• ​ If you’re willing to confront the truth, you’re already on the road to change
• ​ Don’t let pride block your breakthrough

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What if the question you’ve been asking — “Are they the one?” — is actually limiting your clarity?

In this episode of Relationship Talks with Vikkie, we flip the script and dive into better, wiser questions that lead to real peace in godly relationships.

⏱️ 00:00 – Introduction

Why this conversation matters. Letting go of pressure, confusion, and false expectations.

⏱️ 02:30 – Why “Are They the One?” Isn’t Always Helpful

• Where the question comes from

• Why it creates pressure and anxiety

• How it leads people to ignore red flags

⏱️ 07:00 – What to Ask Instead: “Does This Relationship Reflect God’s Character?”

• Spiritual fruit vs. feelings

• The difference between peace and emotional attachment

📖 Matthew 7:16

⏱️ 12:30 – God Doesn’t Always Drop “The One”—He Teaches Us to Choose

• Free will and divine wisdom

• Ruth & Boaz: no loud prophecy, just clear alignment

📖 Proverbs 19:21

⏱️ 17:00 – Questions That Bring Clarity (Instead of Confusion)

• Are we equally yoked?

• Do they push me toward Christ or away?

• Am I more myself or more anxious around them?

⏱️ 23:30 – What If You Thought They Were “The One”… But Now You’re Not Sure?

• Discerning between emotion and instruction

• How to surrender that person to God and find peace again

⏱️ 28:00 – Final Encouragement

• God’s peace is better than your fantasy

• It’s okay to ask better questions — clarity lives there

📖 Isaiah 55:8-9

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What do you do when you truly believe God told you someone is your spouse… but now they’re engaged to someone else?

In this episode of Relationship Talks with Vikkie, we dive deep into this often unspoken struggle and explore how to discern between divine direction and emotional attachment. We talk about what to do with that belief, how to heal if you’re wrong, and how to move forward in peace and truth.

🎧 Timestamps:

⏱️ 00:00 – Introduction

A real conversation for a real situation. Why this topic matters and how many believers silently wrestle with it.

⏱️ 02:50 – Can God Actually Tell You Who to Marry?

Yes, God speaks—but not always how we expect. How to discern between desire and divine instruction.

⏱️ 07:35 – Red Flag: They’re Already Engaged

Why God won’t contradict Himself. What to do when someone is already taken.

⏱️ 12:10 – Are You Projecting Your Own Desires?

The truth about obsession, fantasy, and emotional prophecy. And how your heart can deceive you.

⏱️ 18:05 – The Danger of Holding On to Prophetic Obsession

Bitterness, delay, jealousy, and spiritual confusion — the fruit of misaligned hope.

⏱️ 23:20 – What to Do Instead: How to Let Go & Heal

Practical steps to move forward with wisdom, surrender, and grace.

⏱️ 28:15 – Final Words of Encouragement

God has not forgotten you. You don’t have to fight for someone who was never yours. Let go and trust His better plan.

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You’ve done everything right — prayed, waited, stayed faithful — but you’re still single. In this episode, we get real about the struggles of waiting on God for love.

Why is it taking so long?

What should you be doing while you wait?

Is God silent or is He preparing you?

Let’s talk about the delays, the doubts, and the deep lessons in the waiting season.

This is for every single person who feels like God is taking too long. You’re not alone, and you’re not forgotten.

In this episode, we dive deep into a tough but important question: What if the one you love isn’t the one God chose for you?

You’ll learn why feelings alone aren’t enough to confirm a relationship, how to recognize when God’s peace is missing, and why God sees what we often can’t—the true heart of the person we love. We’ll talk about how disobeying God in relationships can delay your purpose and why surrendering your love to God can bring healing and clarity.

If you’re confused about a relationship or feeling torn between love and God’s will, this episode will help you find peace and direction.

This is a heart-to-heart episode filled with wisdom, truth, and clarity for anyone struggling between love and God’s will.