In this episode of the Ruben and RyLee Podcast, RyLee opens up about discovering she has ADHD as an adult and how it has helped her better understand herself. We share the pep talks we give our daughters before their games to help build confidence and improve their performance. We also talk about why embracing who you are can lead to greater success than trying to fit in, and we wrap things up by sharing some of our biggest pet peeves. If you enjoy honest conversations about adult ADHD, parenting, youth sports, confidence, marriage, and the funny moments of everyday life, this episode is for you.

What makes a family feel like your family? In this episode, Ruben and RyLee talk about the family traditions, mottos, rituals, and routines that help create connection, shape family culture, and build lasting memories. They also get honest about the realities women carry—from having to keep doing life while on their periods to the unfair expectation that a home’s cleanliness somehow reflects more on the woman than the man. It’s a conversation about the values we pass down, the traditions we create, and the invisible pressures that often come with keeping family life moving.

The Ruben and RyLee Podcast is back with a conversation about how customer service can make or break your experience, the dos and don’ts of entrepreneurship, and how they’re teaching their five daughters responsibility, business, and financial literacy through chores and allowance. This episode is packed with practical advice, honest conversations about parenting and marriage, and plenty of laughs.

In this episode Ruben and RyLee talk about the power of words, their move from Las Vegas to Utah, and the realities of raising mixed race kids. A real conversation about bullying, identity, and raising empathetic, kind humans.

In this episode, Ruben and RyLee dive into the real-life importance of showing up—for your family, your friends, and the people who matter most. From the ongoing debate of being late vs. on time, to the deeper meaning behind “essentialism”, they unpack how time management impacts relationships, parenting, and everyday life.

They share personal stories, honest perspectives, and practical insights on building trust, creating healthy habits, and why simply being present can make all the difference. If you’ve ever struggled with balancing schedules, running late, or wanting to be more intentional with your time, this episode is for you.

In this episode, Ruben and RyLee reflect on the impact one person can have—even though their degree of difficulty is high. They talk about learning to have empathy for others, the importance of kindness, and how small actions can leave a lasting legacy.

They also share how they’re raising confident kids, teaching their daughters about their worth, and building emotional resilience at home. A meaningful conversation about parenting, empathy, and the kind of people we hope our kids become.

Are family vacations really worth the time, money, and effort? In this episode, Ruben and RyLee dive into the real impact of family vacations on marriage, parenting, mental-health, and long-term relationships. With couples trips, friend trips, and extended family dynamics, we share our sweet and salty opinions on what makes intentional family time truly meaningful.

We talk about building stronger family bonds, protecting your marriage during busy seasons, prioritizing scheduled family time, and why shared experiences matter more than perfect itineraries. If you’re passionate about marriage, parenting, relationship growth, and creating lasting memories with your kids, and each other, episode is for you.

Adult friendships aren’t as easy as they used to be. In this episode of The Ruben & RyLee Podcast, we talk about the challenges of making friends as adults, navigate married couple friendships, and how to find new friends in this season of parenting and busy family life.

We reminisce about old friendships, share what we’ve learned about staying in touch with friends who live far away, and talk honestly about the grace and hard work required to maintain meaningful adult friendships.

If you’ve ever wondered why making friends as an adult feels complicated, this conversation is for you.

Welcome to the first episode of The Ruben and RyLee podcast! In this episode, Ruben and RyLee talk a little bit about how they met, who they are, and why they are doing a podcast. While they don't really know what they are doing, this first episode takes the advice of, "Just make it exist first. You can make it good later". The better audio, lighting, intro music, conversation flow, etc. will all come! Thank you for listening and growing with us!