Living through your children is a popular analogy and has been thrown around for years. Why does it seem no one sees this in the relationship, hence the RUT that starts to form.... and make no mistake the longer the RUT holds onto your relationship the deeper it can be to climb out. Listen in and Chris & Cindy take this discussion into what some would consider offensive territory. As a man should we not pursue the woman, as a husband it is our responsibility to pursue our wives regardless of whether your son is the star quarterback, or your daughter is the star basketball player. Being a good parent does not translate in giving your everything for your child. Yes, be a great Dad, and yes, be a loving Mother, but the end game is the union between him and her, the husband and the wife. Comments, or feedback are always welcome! And pay attention at the end for new questions you can answer with your spouse, like an ice breaker "would you prefer window or isle seat?"