Here we go into the world of what each other likes to do, how we like to spend our time outside the relationship even? This would be called hobbies... or a lifestyle in that it is something each of you enjoy. The key is that hopefully these hobbies can overlap at times and be enjoyed together! Listen in and Chris and Cindy discuss their hobbies and how separated time on a consistent basis can lead into a rut in your marriage. The long hunting weekends over a period of 3-4 months that leads into fishing trips, or the long golf trips for men. My ladies are on the girl weekends and spending hours in the garden. It most certainly matters the time spent apart and the individuality needs to remain. The issue of the Rut can come from the consistent chose of being active in your hobbies vs being active in your marriage! Spend the same < or run the cup over > time and energy to have fun in your relationship! Watch your marriage improve... Check us out at ftuplife.com and enjoy! May it strengthen your marriage.