Ready to go deeper? Join Mike and Courtney on June 8th for a 90-minute live deep dive on the To Be Seen and Heard Framework.

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If you clicked this, some part of you doesn't feel seen. This episode starts by honouring that ache — and then it gives you a map.

In this raw and deeply personal solo episode, Mike Elliott traces the arc of his own unseenness from childhood to adulthood — and distils everything he's learned into three grounded, practical points.

It starts with a rupture. Mike had a best friend from the age of 5 to 12. A fight, a shame spiral, and no one to guide him through the repair. His parents didn't notice. No one attuned. So he disappeared — three years of isolation, a skateboarding obsession, and the quiet belief that something was fundamentally wrong with him.

Then, at 16, he became a lifeguard. People saw him. Women wanted to date him. His whole reality cracked open. Not because he'd changed — but because he'd finally found a mirror. And what that mirror showed him is one of the most powerful illustrations of what feeling seen actually does to a human being.

This episode covers:

• The two root causes of not feeling seen — and why one of them has nothing to do with your partner

• Why our culture has trained us to immediately reciprocate compliments rather than actually receive them

• The sabotage cycle: attracting love, then pushing it away — and what's underneath it

• What's actually needed: teaching someone how to see you vs. waiting for them to figure it out

• The bedroom moment — Mike asks Courtney to see him as a father, slows down to let it land, and watches something unexpected happen from the overflow

• The 30-second practice that starts rewiring your capacity to receive

"Every single human being needs to feel seen, heard, and understood to integrate their lived experience and truly belong."

If you want to go deeper, Mike and Courtney are hosting a 90-minute live deep dive on June 8th — going two inches wide and two miles deep on the To Be Seen and Heard framework. Details in the show notes.

And if this episode is calling you toward the relational work itself — Courtney's Mapping Your Imprints Masterclass, her 1:1 private container, and Mike and Courtney's 2:2 couples work are all available. Links below.

We love you. Let yourself be seen.

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What if the most well-intentioned support you're getting is quietly wiring you further from your partner?

In this disruptive, deeply honest episode, Mike and Courtney challenge one of the most common beliefs in the personal growth world: that doing more individual work will fix what's broken in your relationship.

It won't. And they've both lived it.

Courtney spent the first several years of her career as a therapist watching the same thing happen over and over: the more she affirmed each person's individual pain, the more separation grew. Mike worked with his first couple using 15 years of coaching skill — and things got more volatile. Both of them kept hitting the same wall: individual support, without relational training and advocacy for the relationship itself, doesn't heal the we. It erodes it.

Research backs this up. Studies show that therapists without relational training will pathologize the absent partner, affirm boundaries that create distance, and push individuals toward personal empowerment in ways that quietly chip away at the bond.

In this episode:

• Why individual work and relational work are completely different skill sets

• The three pieces of bad advice most commonly given by therapists not in relationship: more boundaries, take more space, they're not ready

• Why "take a month apart" in rupture is often the worst possible advice — and what the nervous system actually needs

• "Neurons that fire together, wire together" — and why hearts and nervous systems are no different

• The three phases of relational consciousness: Me, You-Me, and We

• Why interdependence is not codependence

• A real script for teaching even single friends to hold the sacred we

• The honest report card for every support person in your life: is it leading to more connection?

  
  

"You have to go through it to grow through it." This episode will challenge you, orient you, and give you a new lens for every support relationship in your life.

Ready to do the actual relational work?

Mike and Courtney offer 2:2 couples containers, Courtney's Mapping Your Imprints 1:1 private container, and her upcoming Masterclass. Links in show notes.

We love you. Turn towards each other. 💛

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What if the relationship patterns you keep repeating aren't about the person you're with — but about what's already written in your body, your DNA, and your ancestral field?

In this solo episode, somatic therapist and attachment specialist Courtney Wren introduces one of the most powerful frameworks she knows: relational imprinting. It's the hidden architecture of your love life — shaped by your ancestors, your conception, your time in the womb, your birth, and the first three years of your life. Before you had any conscious memory. Before you could even speak.

Courtney opens with her own story: a deep bond with her father that ruptured when she turned three, because of trauma he was carrying from generations before. She didn't understand it as a child — but she lived it for decades. In every long-term relationship, around year three, the same pattern would unfold. Men would pull away. The little girl would get angry, then go silent. Then the relationship would end. Until she and Mike named it, worked with it as allies, and broke the cycle.

In this episode:

• What an imprint is — and how 97% of relational patterns are rooted before conscious memory begins

• Why wanting to "do it different" will never be enough — the patterns are too alive in the body

• The difference between fate (living out the pattern) and destiny (consciously working with the material)

• Why intimate partnership mirrors your imprint like nothing else — and why personal work alone has limits

• The story of Cedar and how generational adoption trauma played out through Mike's young son

• When two imprints "ping" — and why this is where most couples get permanently stuck

• A client whose relationship with her teenage son transformed after clearing imprinting from her pregnancy

  
  

This is deep, real, and rooted in decades of somatic and constellation work. It will land in your mind, your body, and your cells.

Courtney's Mapping Your Imprints Private Container is now open — only 3 spots remaining.

• 3 sessions
• 2 months of WhatsApp support
• Courtney's full attention on your imprinting

Book a free 20-minute tuning-in call via the link in the show notes →Tune-in Call with Courtney

An upcoming Mapping Your Imprints Masterclass is also on the horizon — get on Courtney's mailing list so you don't miss it. Link in show notes

We love you. Let this land.

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You long for it. You might not even have words for it yet. But something in your body knows — motherhood was never meant to be done alone.

In this intimate solo episode, Courtney sits down with her closest mama-sister, Skaia Warren — Oracle, village weaver, and mother to Aluna — for an honest, soul-nourishing conversation about what it actually takes to reclaim the mother village in modern life. Not the curated, cleaned-up version of connection. The real thing. The messy, inconvenient, deeply healing thing.

This is the Sacred We in sisterhood and motherhood — and it's one of the most important conversations we've ever had.

In This Episode:

• Why so many mothers are isolated — and the nervous system reason it's so hard to reach out

• The difference between curated connection and true village (and why only one actually fills you up)

• What Skaia did when her daughter Aluna cried out from the womb: "Mama, where's my village?"

• How Courtney and Skaia built deep sisterhood in the trenches — not when everything was perfect

• The power of being witnessed in motherhood, even in the moments you're not proud of

• Why weaving village is inconvenient — and why that's exactly the point

• The sticky notes dynamic between children: what kids' relationship patterns reveal about ours

• What "care" (not caretaking) really means in mama sisterhood

• 5 actionable things you can do right now to start building your village

📚 Resources:

• 📬 Sign up for Courtney's mailing list — upcoming webinars and short courses on motherhood, attachment & nervous system —  ⁠https://www.courtneywren.com/rebirth⁠

• 💑 Evolutionary Relationship: The Initiation — https://www.sacredrelating.com/thesacredwe

• Connect with Skaia’s at her Instagram channel — https://www.instagram.com/skaiaschannel?igsh=c2xxZmRhMnpnMWZs

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What does it actually look like to go from stuck, disconnected, and in the deepest grief of your life — to a love that radiates so strongly, people stop you on the street?

In this deeply moving episode, Mike and Courtney are joined by Jen and Eli — a real couple they've worked with closely over several years — to share the full arc of their relational journey. From anxiety-avoidance cycles and the devastating loss of their son, to a wedding that moved their community to tears and a marriage now rooted in conscious, sacred love.

This is what the work actually looks like. This is the evidence.

In This Episode:

• How Jen and Eli went from a "power couple" surface image to hitting the painful patterns underneath

• Losing their son to an overdose — and how grief became the doorway to a deeper love

• Why Eli resisted the work at first (and the moment everything changed)

• The "sticky notes" exercise that helped them finally see each other clearly

• What the Sacred We actually feels like in daily life — Eli's simple, powerful answer
• How Jen learned to regulate her own fire instead of expecting Eli to walk into it

• The moment the soul of the relationship clicked — and changed their marriage forever
• Why community and mentorship made the difference where therapy alone couldn't
• How their transformation is now radiating into their son's life and their entire community







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Most couples don't ask for help until the relationship is already bleeding.

In this episode, Mike and Courtney Elliott get personally vulnerable about what it actually costs to wait — and what becomes possible when you don't.

Courtney shares her experience across two long-term relationships where support came too late: years of patterns piling up, distance quietly hardening, and by the time help arrived, the gap had grown too wide. Mike shares how he showed up to couples therapy in his first marriage completely emotionally unavailable — and didn't even know it. His therapist told him she'd never met anyone like him. He took it as a compliment. It wasn't.

This episode covers:

• Why the "wait until it's bad enough" pattern isn't just cultural — it's wired into us from childhood

• How couples slowly normalize disconnection until the numbness becomes the relationship

• The three phases of relational consciousness — Me, You-Me, and We — and what it takes to evolve into the third

• How the inner child unconsciously steers the relationship toward its oldest wounds

• A real couple who'd been struggling for 10 years — and reconnected in a single session

• Why strong, thriving couples invest in support before crisis, not because of it

• BONUS: The exact "We Language" framework to invite a resistant partner into support

If this is landing, the Evolutionary Relationship Program is open now. Don't wait for the crisis to decide you deserve something better.

If you’re ready to practice these tools inside a community of couples doing the work, we invite you to join us inside Evolutionary Relationship: The Initiation.

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The Attachment Truth Every Parent Needs to Know

What if the moment your child seems "totally fine" without you is actually the most important sign to pay attention to?

In this solo episode, Courtney — attachment therapist, somatic therapist, and mama — shares the developmental science that changed everything about how she parents her son Cedar. It's the information she wishes she'd had from day one. And it's something most parents have never heard.

You'll Learn:

• What "defensive attachment" is — and why a happy, unbothered child may actually be in distress
• The age children can actually hold connection while you're away (most parents are shocked)
• Why our culture gaslights mothers about their own instincts
• How to repair attachment ruptures — even ones that have already happened
• The 4 principles to anchor you as a conscious parent right now

Timestamps:

• [0:00] — Introduction from Mike

• [1:30] — Sacred We community update: almost 100 five-star ratings!

• [3:00] — The gem Courtney wishes she'd known as a new mama

• [4:30] — How to receive this without shame

• [8:00] — What attachment really is: the GPS system for connection

• [11:00] — The retreat story: Courtney leaves at 6am and what her body said

• [16:30] — The sacred developmental sequence of attachment explained

• [18:00] — The 4-hour rule: what age can kids hold connection with distance?

• [20:00] — Defensive attachment: why your child looks "totally fine"

• [26:00] — Watching defensive attachment unfold in real time

• [29:00] — The repair: what Cedar finally said ("You left me. I thought you were gone forever.")
• [35:00] — Cultural myths that get in the way of this landing
• [38:00] — The real sacrifices — and the real rewards
• [45:00] — What it looks like when a child IS ready to be away
• [47:00] — 4 key principles to anchor you
• [49:00] — Free PDF download + Gordon Neufeld Institute recommendation




Resources:

• 📥 Free PDF Guide — https://drive.google.com/file/d/1HIDD6eC6_9fdVbE8UFmBtwvzAhuOZqDy/view?usp=drive_link

• 📖 Gordon Neufeld Institute — Power to Parent online course - https://www.neufeldinstitute.org/

• 📅 Book a free call with Mike or Courtney — https://calendly.com/transform-rxg/evolutionary-relationship-discovery-call⁠⁠

• 💫 Evolutionary Relationship: The Initiation — https://www.sacredrelating.com/

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Are you feeling like the world is spinning faster than ever — and wondering how to keep up without burning out?

In this episode, Mike and Courtney dive deep into what ancient prophecies, astrology, and spiritual teachers have long called The Great Change — a cosmic shift that's accelerating everything: technology, relationships, consciousness, and the structures of society itself.

From the Hopi prophecy to Gene Keys, from Peru's ancient stone portals to Richard Rudd's teachings on the new human, Mike and Courtney weave together timeless wisdom and modern insight to help you understand why the world feels so chaotic right now — and what you can do to not just survive it, but thrive within it.

In this episode, you'll discover:

• Why time is speeding up — and what ancient cultures predicted about this exact moment in history

• The difference between the electromagnetic energy system (old) and crystalline energy (new) — and how this shift is affecting your nervous system

• The Hopi prophecy's powerful metaphor of "getting in the canoe" and letting go of the banks

• How the ego tries to keep you gripping for certainty — and why letting go actually feels better

• Why your intimate relationships are your greatest resource for navigating collective chaos

• The Gene Keys concept of your vocation key — and how your deepest wound is actually your greatest gift to the world

• What Richard Rudd revealed at his 2024 London talk about the "new human" and the significance of 2027

• Why interdependence — not hyper-independence — is where we truly thrive

Whether you're navigating uncertainty in your relationship, your career, or your inner world — this episode is an invitation to stop fighting the current and start riding it.

Hit play, get in the canoe, and let's go.

Timestamps:

• 00:00 — Introduction

• 02:00 — About Evolutionary Relationship: The Initiation

• 04:30 — Ancient prophecies & Peru

• 07:00 — Crystalline energy vs. electromagnetic energy

• 09:30 — The Hopi prophecy

• 11:00 — The ego's grip: Certainty vs. trust

• 13:00 — Splitting into two dimensions of experience

• 20:00 — Gene Keys & Richard Rudd

• 22:00 — Your vocation key

• 31:00 — Why the great change will strain relationships

• 35:00 — The initiation: Tools AND transformation

Resources & References Mentioned:

• Gene Keys by Richard Rudd — genkeys.com

• The Hopi Prophecy — search 'Hopi Blue Star Prophecy' to read the full teaching

If you’re ready to practice these tools inside a community of couples doing the work, we invite you to join us inside Evolutionary Relationship: The Initiation.

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Jealousy in relationships isn’t just about insecurity — it often reveals a deeper wound of feeling “not enough.”

In this episode of the Together Podcast, Mike and Courtney explore how jealousy, comparison, and fear of replacement arise inside intimate partnerships. Beneath the surface reactions of control, accusation, or emotional withdrawal often lives a deeper story: the not-enough wound.

Drawing from their own relationship experiences and years of working with couples, Mike and Courtney unpack how jealousy can become either destructive or transformative depending on how partners meet it.

In this conversation you’ll learn:

• What jealousy is really trying to reveal in relationships
• How the “not enough” wound shows up in both partners
• Why comparison creates distance and disconnection
• How couples can turn jealousy into deeper intimacy
• What it means to heal side by side rather than alone

Rather than seeing jealousy as something to eliminate, Mike and Courtney explore how it can become a doorway into vulnerability, truth, and deeper partnership.

Chapters: 

00:00 Jealousy Is Not The Threat

00:30 Three Part Roadmap

01:43 Postpartum Insecurity Story

08:48 Naming Needs And Safety

10:55 The Cabin Reassurance Moment

19:51 Why Being Fine Disconnects

24:59 Thirds And Paper Cuts

29:26 Polyamory And Capacity

31:24 Social Settings Coping Pattern

32:40 Coping With Jealousy

34:11 Reaching For Vulnerability

36:42 Love Is Tender

37:47 Creating Safety Together

39:22 Support And Practice

43:17 Self Responsibility And Growth

48:02 Jealousy Versus Disconnection

51:12 Mike’s Temple Trigger

57:42 Needs Under The Jealousy

01:05:05 Program Invitation And Closing

If you’re ready to practice these tools inside a community of couples doing the work, we invite you to join us inside Evolutionary Relationship: The Initiation.

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Are you in a relationship where your partner feels angry, demanding, or never satisfied — yet underneath it all, you know they just want connection?

In this episode, we unpack anxious attachment in relationships — and why it often doesn’t look like anxiety at all. Instead, it shows up as rage, ambivalence, push-pull dynamics, emotional outbursts, and demands for connection that paradoxically push intimacy away.

We explore:

• The “rage–ambivalence loop” of anxious attachment

• Why anxious partners can look avoidant at times

• The illusion of presence (“I’m the only one showing up”)

• The demand stage vs. self-initiation

• How to soothe anxious attachment without losing yourself

Whether you identify as anxious, avoidant, or secure, this conversation will help you understand what’s really happening beneath conflict — and how to move from blame into embodied partnership.

Chapters:

00:00 When Love Feels Repetitive

01:08 Program Invitation The Initiation

02:24 Rate And Share Request

02:57 Anxious Avoidant Setup

05:32 Anxious Looks Like Anger

06:54 Rage Ambivalence Loop

10:10 Anxious Versus Avoidant

12:35 Working With Inner Anger

18:22 How To Stay Present

21:38 Parenting Tantrum Parallel

24:33 Hard Work For Everyone

25:41 Only One Showing Up

26:16 Anxious Presence Illusion

28:28 Embodied Connection Skills

31:37 Hyperfocus Isn’t Attunement

33:18 True Presence Breakthroughs

35:33 Demanding vs Self Initiating

38:36 Reaching Through Old Wounds

44:33 What Anxious Partners Need

46:04 Relational Authority Framework

48:26 Invitation to Go Deeper

52:34 Closing Love and Support

If you’re ready to stop looping the same pattern and actually transform it, our signature couples program Evolutionary Relationship: The Initiation is where this work becomes lived practice.

👉 Join the program or book a call via the link below.For Couples: If you're ready to move from "unconditional acceptance" to "conditional devotion," join Mike and Courtney's flagship program, Evolutionary Relationship: The Initiation ⁠https://www.sacredrelating.com/

If you are feeling the pull to join our couples program Evolutionary Relationship- the Initiation, but also have some specific questions, or want to know more, let's hop on a no- pressure call to feel into it together so that you and your partner can get clear on what the program is and whether it's a good fit for you. 

Book Your Call → https://calendly.com/transform-rxg/evolutionary-relationship-discovery-call

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