Ayesha was being honest about having insecurities surrounding not receiving attention (validation) from men other than her husband….. The internet wasn’t having it and people had some ignorant ass things to say…. (This episode has spring allergies) Shea Butter Twitter was not here for Ayesha…. The internet has decided that having money exempts you from… Continue reading →

Because we should be allowed to be ourselves…. Period What is code switching? It’s a reflexive switch from your cultural mannerism to mannerisms that are socially acceptable. Such as switching to your “white voice” on the phone for “important” phone calls or at while in the work place. It’s essentially diluting your blackness for social… Continue reading →

If you don't know what Causticity is, you're about to find out and have a new favorite term to describe a specific type of attitude. … Continue reading →

(Warning- This Episode has Jet Noise. #LocalPeopleProblems) Anyway, This whole Cardi B situation is way bigger than her. It’s about cancel culture, rape culture, double standards, etc. Let’s talk about it. Okurrrtt? Related Episode – Rape Culture

Anti-Gayness against gay black men is HIGH in our community. We really need to discuss the intersection of race and sexuality, the”oppression olympics” phenomenon, gender, masculinity etc. Adam, a gay black man, was so kind to be very open about all of these. Since black gay men are black men, we need to hear them… Continue reading →

Transparency is extremely important to us. We really like to keep things open with our listeners. Here’s what’s going on with us right now: We’re going on hiatus. Don’t worry thought, we’ll be back in March. We’ve been balancing a work life, podcast life, romantic life, and time for ourselves and we’re not afraid to… Continue reading →

We wanted to take a the time to explain why quality media representation is important and also define “tokenism” as it’s probably a new term to a lot of you . We’ll provide examples, share our own experiences and help you to distinguish valuable representation from token trash. Our good ol’ disclaimers/ warnings/ sidenotes: Okay, we’re… Continue reading →

We said we’d follow up on the last released episode regarding R. Kelly called “Protecting Predators?” so here we are to provide more detailed/educational based content to help you understand what rape culture is and it’s impact. Rape culture is a HUGE concept and we cannot cover every fine detail so we’ve simplified it for… Continue reading →

In this episode, we discuss the phenomenon of fuckery known as “reaching” AKA, making something out of nothing. It happens, you may think it’s not a real issue but it can be. We’ll explain why What is reaching? Reaching is (in this episode) defined as ​actively analyzing any given media or situation to find something… Continue reading →

We have a lot of conversations about masculinity in the black community. What we don’t talk about as often is femininity. In this episode, we discuss both with emphasis on “toxicity” in gender as well as providing some examples, experiences, and more. We’ve of course invited some male perspective with this one and re-invited DJ… Continue reading →