The Satisfaction Project

When it comes to sex work sessions, dinner dates and overnights are the five-star option. But preparation is everything - or it could be a very awkward eight hours or more in the company of someone new! Escort Alice Grey is a dinner date and overnight expert. In this episode, she joins me to break down the essential ingredients of a successful longer booking.

For a lot of folks, taking that first step to request a session with a sex worker is a REALLY big deal. And although sex work is just another type of work, there’s definitely some stuff you need to know, if you don’t want to be turned away.  So this episode, I’m teaming up with sex worker and writer Jessie Sage to cover all the basic etiquette you need when you send that first email or text message.

Thanks to shame, stereotypes and sex-negativity, sex and disability can be a tricky topic. This means that clients are sometimes afraid to ask, and workers sometimes worry they’re going to screw things up. Luckily, adult star Melinah Viking and sex educator on occupational therapist Tess Devèze are really good at talking about this stuff, and they’re joining us for a chat about disability and where it fits, when it comes to sex work.

 We often think of getting laid as trivial and recreational…but for many, it’s a very profound experience. This episode, I’m speaking with Artemisia de Vine, an erotic psyche specialist who teaches people the art of purposeful playdates. We’re going to  unpack some of the ways the services of sex workers can help you learn, grow, and live a fulfilling life.

Think you might be a little bit kinky? Perhaps more than a little? Spending time with an experienced pro can be a great way to explore your fantasies. This episode I’m speaking with pro domme Mistress Tokyo and fetish escort Sai Jaiden Lilith to demystify the process of arranging a paid session with a BDSM expert.

About our guests

Mistress Tokyo is a Dominatrix based in Sydney Australia who is recognised internationally as a kink educator and performer. She has more than two decade's experience in professional BDSM, with 14 years as an independent pro domme. Follow her on Twitter: @MistressTokyo.

Sai Jaiden Lillith is a Melbourne-based master, mistress, pro domme, fetish escort, and shibari artist. Alongside Mistress Penelope Dreadful, they run the well-known Domina Parties event across Australia. They also produce online fetish content. Follow them on Twitter: @JaidenLillith.

Enjoyed this episode? Please support our guests! You can donate via BeemIt - Mistress Tokyo's handle is @Gomulatex and Sai Jaiden Lillith's is @SJLEnt.

Other resources: 

• Lillith's Web - BDSM-themed art and kink education via Sai's Patreon account
• ZCluster - Sai's goth-industrial music project
• Mistress Tokyo's videos - buy BDSM clips here
• OZ Kink Fest - An annual Melbourne kink education event
• Working Out the Kinks with Mistress Tokyo - a 2.5-minute segment talking about BDSM, fantasy and fetish

When it comes to escorts, a lot of clients worry about authenticity. Compliments, orgasms, mutual pleasure - what if it’s all an act? If you’re the kind of person who gets off on your date having a good time, these concerns might be getting in the way of your enjoyment too. Luckily, the wonderful Tash Murphy is joining me to talk about what’s authentic, what isn’t, and how to keep it real.

About our guest: Tash Murphy is an adult industry professional based in Melbourne. She has a background in adult retail, community health and advocacy, and currently works as an independent escort.

Enjoyed this episode? Please support Tash by donating via BeemIt - her handle is @tashmurphy_au.

All around the world, sex workers are out there doing things their own way. How we do business depends on the law, our culture, and our personal preferences. This episode I’m chatting with Tank Smith, producer of the US-based Full service podcast, to compare notes on escorting in the USA and here in Australia.

About our guest: Tank Smith is a USA-based stand-up comedian and regular escort client. He’s the producer of the Full Service podcast, where he talks sex work and interviews industry professionals.

When it comes to sex work, there are lots of misconceptions. One thing I’ve learned from the industry is that the more you know what it’s really like, the more outrageous these stereotypes are. To make sure you know what’s what, I’m calling on Jenna Love - Aussie escort, activist, and educator - to help me sort the fact from the fiction.

About our guest: Jenna Love is a full-service sex worker, content creator, activist and educator based in New South Wales, Australia. In her latest project, the Somebody You Love podcast, she teams up with Holly Harte for frank discussions about sex work and sex worker rights.

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