What happens when someone who has actually lived inside war listens to the way we talk about it from thousands of kilometres away?
Tim Isberg spent more than four decades in the Canadian military, serving in Rwanda, the Middle East, Bosnia and Afghanistan. He worked as an unarmed United Nations military observer, investigated atrocities in the aftermath of the Rwandan genocide, dealt with child soldiers, lived and worked among Israelis, Syrians and Lebanese, and experienced firsthand both the value and the failures of international institutions.
He also lost a friend when four UN military observers were killed in an Israeli airstrike in South Lebanon.
That history makes this conversation difficult to put into an ideological box.
Tim is sharply critical of Israel when he believes Israel deserves criticism. He is no admirer of the settlement movement. He speaks candidly about civilian deaths in Gaza and about decisions he believes Israel got wrong.
And yet, as someone who has actually investigated genocide, he rejects the claim that what is happening in Gaza is genocide.
He talks about Hamas, propaganda, urban warfare, October 7, the difference between UN personnel on the ground and the UN as a political institution, and the danger of reducing complicated conflicts to a meme, a slogan or a single sentence ripped from a much larger story.
His advice may be the simplest and most important line in the episode:Read the whole paragraph.
But this conversation isn't only about war.
Tim also talks about carrying Rwanda home with him, turning those experiences into music, and discovering something remarkable after living among people separated by borders, religions and generations of conflict.
For all their differences, ordinary Israelis, Syrians and Lebanese mostly want the same thing.
A home. A family. A future.
This is not a conversation about choosing a side.
It is a conversation about what happens when experience collides with ideology, when reality refuses to fit inside a slogan, and why intellectual honesty sometimes requires us to hold two uncomfortable truths at the same time.
Tim Isberg joins Don and Jared for one hell of a Schmooze.