Sondra Ray and Marcus Ray, the mother and father of breathwork talk about our work together on how I was operating on 'I am not enough' and how that showed up even in sex. How I am not enough can show up as a projection on others as 'your not enough' and even 'there is not enough sex'.  `We talk about how once you see the pattern you can change this in your subconscious mind through breathwork and hypnosis.

We discuss sacred relationships, spirituality and sex as a place of healing rather than trauma. The big business of trauma and darkness and what it creates in your life. We talk about polygamy and monogamy and how to go deeper with yourself through a committed sacred relationship. 

How people go to India for what they can get spiritually. It is all inside of you my love and there is no where to go.

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How we are still running on a cast system but that cast system is now the amount of money we have in our bank and the amount of followers we have on instagram.

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How you are ONE, you are loved, ultimately everything changes when you step into love and honouring the now.

Self betrayal starts with you, how do you betray yourself?  How do you move through anxiety, low self esteem and not loving yourself.  What are you trading for LOVE? Love should be based on freedom and it is in my belief about giving and it is not about what you can get. You are not enough and it's all about soul deep connection.

Your subconscious mind is powerful, listen to the narratives all around you through your life.  How I become allergic to the cold and my experiences around this but the rhetorical question I WANT TO ENVOKE can we go to far with everything? I guide you to look at science and facts but also most importantly back to your own intuition and what your body is telling you.

Victor Boc is the author of the book, "How to Solve All Your Money Problems Forever."  We discuss abundance and how that is connected to everything you do including making love. We talk about fantasy and how to really step into the here and now, in this game of life.

We talk favourite songs, R&B, passion and singing from the heart. We look at how lockdown effected us, what it takes to become successful and how hard it is to be a solo entrepreneur. How he has grown, common themes in his songs around relationships and love. We discuss about true love, what it is to love and stepping into loving yourself.  We look at sound healing, emotions as vehicles for growth and understanding ourselves and how listening to love songs can heal your heart and soul.

How I got caught up in this narrative and wasted years trying to figure it all out.  Learn from my mistakes. 

In this episode we look at my theory everyone is your soulmate and no one is your soulmate.  

You are the love of your life, everyone you meet is a complete gift.  Look for gift of growth and learning they bring to your life. The journey is about what you GIVE and not what you GET.  YOU ARE THE GIFT to everyones life you touch.

Life is a dance between having a fantasy and being in the moment. ENJOY THE FANTASY BUT DON'T MISS REALITY. 

In my personal experience I have concluded the way you make love is the way you live your life. 

How do you make love? The pressure on performance and shaming men around size, time and appearance needs to stop.  Its all about energy and dropping fully into the moment and what you co-create with another human 'being'.