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The better your self control, the more successful you'll be. It's people who are good at delaying gratification that end up more successful, happier, better off and wealthier, compared to people who have low self control and act impulsively.

Common sense, right?

Well, it turns out that almost everything you've ever been told about self control is actually a misunderstanding. Many studies have shown that people with "high self control" do indeed end up healthier, happier and better off... but when you look closer, "self control" is actually a mis-labeling. What from the outside might look like self control is actually a combination of completely different characteristics.

What's worse, if you want to join this group of successful individuals, trying to exert more self control is actually making things worse, not better.

So let's dig into it and see how this applies to building habits, breaking bad habits and addictions and being smart about improving your life.

Chapters:

00:00 It all started with a marshmallow

02:20 False Conclusions

03:17 Delayed Gratification = Success?

04:59 "Self Control" is the wrong label

07:29 Trait vs. State

09:40 Self Control is for Losers

11:21 Key to Success 1

14:26 Key to Success 2

17:56 Key to Success 3

21:40 Summary

22:51 Believe Your Own Experience

Sources:

- https://docs.iza.org/dp14920.pdf

- https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/39096668/

Footage from:

- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d8M7Xzjy_m8

- https://youtu.be/4L-n8Z7G0ic