Develop unfakable masculine integrity: https://shanemelaugh.com/integrity/
Everyone who gives advice about how to become a better man is parroting the same checklist:
- Get ripped
- Get rich
- Cold showers
- Wake up at 5am
But here's the problem: if you do this, you're not becoming a man, you're becoming a clone. What's worse, you'll probably FAIL at the attempt to become a cookie-cutter alpha male clone.
In this video, I break down why most masculinity advice is just projection from guys who happened to be good at something. And how blindly following them is not only ineffective, it's unmasculine.
Then, we look at exactly what you can do to avoid the "template masculine" trap and forge your own path instead.
- How to find what actually works for you
- Why real confidence comes from mastery, not mimicry
- The 3 domains every man should develop (and how to do it with 100% authenticity)
- Why all of this makes you WAY more attractive than the average man
Chapters:
00:00 Intro
01:00 Copy-Paste Masculinity Advice
01:32 What Makes it Un-Masculine
02:26 The Archetypal Masculine
04:00 What Gymfluencers Don't Tell You
06:04 Bodybuilding vs. Public Speaking?
08:39 It's About Affinity
09:02 Become the Explorer
09:49 Physical Mastery
10:39 Follow Your Curiosity
11:18 Try and See What Sticks
12:29 The Truth About Physical Attractiveness
13:50 Doing Your Own Thing is Attractive
14:28 Intellectual Mastery
15:15 What Fascinates You Makes You Fascinating
16:51 How to Stop Having NPC Vibes
17:24 Develop an Awareness/Vibes Skill
18:49 Warning - this makes you extraordinary
20:02 Stop Being Needy
Stop wasting your life, follow your curiosity: https://youtu.be/SnR38xy10fI
Do this if life feels totally meaningless: https://youtu.be/o9hM7s7xzG0