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How do you build self respect? The only good answer to that question is: become a man you respect. Change your behavior so that it is in line with your values.

But how exactly do you do that?

Unfortunately, most guys do this wrong. Especially young, ambitious men tend to fall into the "trap of perfection". That's why I've come up with a simple tool you can use to build your habits and build self respect much more effectively. Use this approach to outperform all the average guys around you (who are constantly aiming for perfection and always falling short).

00:00 Simple But Powerful Question

01:20 How You're Doing it Wrong

02:26 The 3 Questions

02:59 Example 1: Gym

05:21 Example 2: Dating

08:14 Example 3: Relationship

10:25 How You Will Outperform

12:10 The Exception: When to Aim for Mastery

13:30 How Generalists Win

14:52 Try this Challenge