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The Session-Loneliness


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The Session-Loneliness

Psalm 68:5-6 ~ “Father of the fatherless and protector of widows is God in his holy habitation. God settles the solitary in a home; he leads out the prisoners to prosperity, but the rebellious dwell in a parched land.” 

God is always present and provides comfort; Psalm 34:18, "The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit," emphasizing God's closeness to those who are hurting; and Matthew 11:28, "Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest," offering solace and a place of refuge in Jesus. 

Key themes from these verses include: 

  • God's constant presence: Regardless of your circumstances, God is always with you and will never leave you alone. 
  • God's love and care: He deeply cares about your pain and desires to comfort you. 
  • Finding strength in God: Even when feeling lonely, you can find strength and hope in your relationship with God. 

Other verses to encourage you:

  • Hebrews 13:5: "He promised never to leave us"  
  • Psalm 121:4: "He neither slumbers nor sleeps"  

Other ways to combat loneliness:

  • Connect with other Christians 
  • Believe that God can use your loneliness to bring you closer to him. 

Overcoming The Pain Of Loneliness, from Tracy Miles 

Turn to me and have mercy, for I am alone and in deep distress.” Psalm 25:16 (NLT)

If you’re feeling lonely, plan a time to get away and recover. 

(Scott question:  By yourself?  Which seems counterproductive to being lonely… or with family or a group?)

This can be Christian camp or retreat center or a plan or program that a church puts together to help a person when they have depleted their resources. 

A new environment gives a person a chance to focus more on their walk with Jesus.  

Key mental health problems associated with loneliness: 

  • Depression:Loneliness is a major risk factor for developing or exacerbating depressive symptoms. 
  • Anxiety:Studies show a strong association between loneliness and increased anxiety levels. 
  • Suicidal ideation:Individuals experiencing significant loneliness may be more likely to consider or attempt suicide. 
  • Low self-esteem:A lack of social connection can negatively impact self-worth and confidence. 
  • Stress and poor coping mechanisms:Loneliness can lead to difficulties managing stress and unhealthy coping behaviors.  

Key physical health problems associated with loneliness: 

  • Cardiovascular disease:Research indicates a link between loneliness and higher risk of heart disease and stroke due to potential impacts on blood pressure and inflammation. 
  • Impaired immune function:Studies suggest social isolation can weaken the immune system, making individuals more susceptible to illness. 
  • Cognitive decline:Loneliness is associated with an increased risk of developing dementia and cognitive impairment, particularly in older adults. 
  • Poor sleep quality:Difficulty sleeping and disrupted sleep patterns are often reported by lonely individuals. 
  • Unhealthy lifestyle behaviors:Loneliness can contribute to poor dietary choices, lack of physical activity, and increased subs

 

To reach Tom Russell, go to https://www.heritagechristiancounselingofmansfield.com.

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The Session with Tom RussellBy Tom Russell & Scott Saunders