First let me apologize for the audio quality. The air conditioner in the room created a really loud buzz and the amount of noise reduction I had to apply made this episode really tinny.
Today I man up to the request of a listener to answer what exactly I've done to try and change my sexless marriage other than whine about it.
In a VERY short amount of time I came up with 30 things I've done, or continue to do and at the end of the podcast a 31st pops into my head. The is by no means an exhaustive list of things I've done or continue to do, not even close. Here's a quick preview:
Books
Websites
Counseling
Doctors
The caveman approach
Chore play
Threatening divorce
Date nights
Communicating
Hours of heart to hearts
Scheduling
Love letters / little notes here and there
Texting
Shower together
Touch and grab and caress randomly
Working on other intimacies
Making a barrier list
Keeping a sex calendar
Porn
Changing myself
Random gifts like flowers
Episode 13 - look into the mirror
Podcasts
Using the bible against her
Good guy, bad guy & in between
Quiet treatment to bugging her all the time
Letting her catch me jerking off
Bought her an expensive vibrator
Getting her drunk
Calling her on her bullshit
Working like a mental person
Did any of it help at all? NO! Want to know more, listen up! Hell, maybe it will work for you.
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Intro and Outro music by:
Salt-N-Pepa
2 Live Crew
Lil' Kim
Lords of Acid
Korn
Beast 1333
Linkin Park