This is the article & tutorial for a Podcast recorded in early Dec 2016 on a TSL Online Call
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Preface –
Whenever writing stuff on Social Dynamics I always want to state this. There is so much bad advice out there sending the wrong message I want you to know that if you don’t have anything to offer women, you’re only good at being a liar. I don’t support that. I love social dynamics and they work. Build up your own life. Be the guy that has something to offer and use social dynamics to share them with the world.
The Question – ‘What are the differences that an attractive woman might respond to than one that isn’t as attractive?”
This opened up a huge dialog on the TSL Call. There’s a lot to this question, however what we are getting into here are some important things that you should apply to your dating life today.
What we do here is set up a conversational structure based on things unique to being attractive.
Let’s go over this really quickly so you can do it!
FIRST – You should definitely listen tot he Podcast because if will give you the delivery, and clear up some things that you might miss from just reading this.
Here’s what we are going to cover –
* Notice What’s Unique to an Attractive Woman
* Structure the Conversation
* Make the Connection
NOTICE WHAT IS UNIQUE
One thing that is certain about attractive women is they only attract a certain type of guy that they say yes to.
They attract a lot of attention from all men, but they only date a certain type of man. Unfortunately you can’t exactly say what type of man they date (that changes, but that also works in your favor – keep reading). They also get hit on a lot by men they don’t like, and you don’t want to be that guy.
What we want to focus on is the guy they SAY YES to. The guy they have dated in the past or currently.
When you think about it, this girl knows she gets more attention than most women and she can choose the men that come to her. She has more options.
However, here’s the problem, for some reason or another those guys didn’t workout. Those guys were not people that they ended up marrying or in a relationship that is currently going well. Of course there are some exceptions but that is rare. If you’re a probability man, you can bet that she has said yes to a lot of men that haven’t been great.
Now let’s throw this into the mix.
If she is under 27 then she probably doesn’t have the best dating experience. This means she has probably made the typical mistakes of dating a guy that has turned up to –
Look good at first, but turn out to be a total fraud
Cheated
Sexually insecure
Controlling
Super jealous
Show her the bad side of men
Show her that men can’t be trusted
Let’s put these together –
If a girl is attractive she get’s more attention than most women
She has chosen every single one of those men, because she had a lot of options
Because she is younger she has had bad relationships
If you look at all those things there is only 1 that makes her think she is unique. She has had more options because she gets more attention and knows it. The other 2 every single other girl that has been actively dating has experienced. The attractive girl really is no different, she just thinks she is.
