In this episode of She’s Such a Lesbian Podcast, host Dyse sits down with Nicole “King” Washington for a powerful conversation about confidence, leadership, and stepping fully into your authentic self. Together, they unpack what it means to embody “She-King” energy—owning your voice, claiming your space, and leading with purpose in a world that doesn’t always make room for us. Expect real talk, laughter, and gems you’ll want to carry with you long after the episode ends.

This one’s for anyone ready to rise, reign, and unapologetically be who they are. 🌈🎙️

This week on She’s Such a Lesbian, Dyse sits down with powerhouse entrepreneur Ashley Sanders, the self-proclaimed CEO of “Queen of the Fools.” But what does that title really mean?

In this bold and unfiltered conversation, Ashley breaks down how she turned heartbreak, bad decisions, and entertaining the wrong people into a brand built on confidence, accountability, and leveling up. From dating disasters to reclaiming self-worth, she shares how embracing her past — instead of hiding from it — became the foundation for her glow-up.

Dyse and Ashley dive into lessons learned from toxic cycles, the difference between being naïve and being hopeful, and why sometimes you have to wear the crown of your own mistakes before you can truly evolve.

Funny, reflective, and a little spicy — this episode is for anyone who’s ever ignored a red flag and lived to tell the story.

This week on She’s Such a Lesbian, Dyse and Katz sit down for one of their most personal conversations yet. Joined by Katz’s brother, Clifford Leonard, the trio dives deep into the realities of addiction, incarceration, and what it truly means to hit your “last straw.”

Clifford opens up about the silent shame that fueled his substance use, the wake-up call that led to three years behind bars, and the letter from his sister that became a turning point in his recovery. Together, they unpack masculinity, accountability, family loyalty, and the complicated but powerful journey of rebuilding trust.

This episode is raw, honest, and rooted in growth — a reminder that you are not your worst mistake, and healing is possible when vulnerability meets responsibility.

Trigger warning: discussions of addiction and incarceration.

In this episode of She’s Such a Lesbian Podcast, Host Dyse is joined by Regina Huggins for a powerful and affirming conversation centered on Black identity, healing, and self-determination.

Together, they explore what Black pride really means beyond survival, how Black joy shows up as a daily practice, and why Black power is rooted in autonomy, rest, and choosing yourself. From unlearning survival mode to embracing softness, community, and truth, this episode creates space for reflection, growth, and celebration.

This conversation is for anyone navigating Blackness with intention—honoring where you’ve been while claiming where you’re going.

✨ Pride. Joy. Power.

Today’s episode is called “Stud Pride, Soft Hearts & Side-Eyes”—and it’s a love letter to masc-presenting lesbians who are constantly misunderstood.

We talk about what stud pride really means beyond the stereotypes, the softness that lives beneath masc energy, and the side-eyes that double as boundaries. From being labeled intimidating to navigating love, vulnerability, and community expectations, this episode breaks down the emotional depth, strength, and intentionality of studs who love hard and move with purpose.

If you’ve ever been told you don’t seem nice, felt pressure to be the strong one, or learned to protect your peace with silence and a look—this one’s for you.

✨ Stud pride. Emotional depth. Boundaries with style.

For a long time, survival was the goal. Getting through the day. Holding it together. Doing what had to be done.

In this episode of She’s Such a Lesbian, we talk about the shift from living in survival mode to intentionally building a life that actually feels like yours. We unpack growth that isn’t pretty, healing that doesn’t happen on a timeline, and the quiet confidence that comes from choosing yourself after years of doing what you had to do.

This episode is for anyone who grew up fast, carried too much, and is now learning how to live—not just survive.

✨ Growth. Healing. Self-made energy.

Edale Lane is a award winning Amazon Best Selling Author of sapphic books and stories, publishing under her Past and Prologue Press Label since 2019. Her goal is to entertain and inspire her audience with her page-turning mysteries and immersive historical fiction (often with a fantasy flair) featuring bold and loving characters. No matter the dangers, you can expect a happy ending. (Well, maybe not for the foiled criminals.) Having to embarked on variety of careers, including school teacher, church music minister, Home Depot Associate and a tuck driver author Edale Lane has many experiences to draw from. She also holds a master's degree in history. When not writing, this Chilliwack, B.C. resident who lives with her long time partner, now battling cancer can be found playing the French horn, gaming, enjoying nature, or spoiling her Havanese dog. 

Welcome back to She’s Such a Lesbian, the podcast where we unpack queer identity, messy timelines, and the very gay art of surviving your twenties.

Today’s episode is personal.

We’re talking about:

What mental health looks like when you’re still a kid raising a kid

How teen motherhood collides with identity and autonomy

And what it’s like to come out when your life already feels like it’s under a microscope

I’m joined by K’Anne Meinel, a powerhouse author who never asked for approval—and never needed it. From spending two weeks but did not publish it until 8 years later which was her very first novel, SHIPS, to building her own publishing house, to creating awards that celebrate lesbian literature, K’Anne’s journey is a masterclass in patience, independence, and bold storytelling.

We get into what it really means to choose appetite over approval, why some stories refuse neat endings, and how humor, sarcasm, and double meanings can open readers up before hitting them right in the feelings. K’Anne shares how short stories shaped her longer works, why she started Shadoe Publishing to remove barriers for queer writers, and what inspired the creation of the Lesfic Bard Awards.

This episode is for writers, creatives, and anyone who’s ever wondered what might happen if they stopped following the rules and started trusting themselves instead.

So grab your coffee, tea, or wine, get comfortable, and press play.

From a Stud’s point of view, Dyse takes the solo mic and breaks down one of the most controversial relationship questions: can exes really stay friends—or is that a hard no?

Speaking as a happily married stud of 2 years married to her wife and co-host Katz), Dyse delivers a raw, funny, and sarcastic take on boundaries, emotional access, and the lies we tell ourselves in the name of “maturity.”