What if the biggest drain on your life is being “overly accessible”? We kick off with a raw check-in that flips the script on generosity and boundaries, then move through a life lived at full volume: growing up in South Dorchester, becoming a father young, and choosing values over vibes. The stories are sharp and funny, but the lessons cut deeper—protect your time, know your worth, and give your best to people who truly earn it.

Nick T brings a wild arc: Division I athlete, young husband and dad, security pro, live streamer turned top 10 percent podcaster. He opens up about donating a kidney to his best friend’s son and the brutal aftermath—sepsis, hospital stays, and choosing loyalty anyway. Along the way we unpack a real-world safety playbook for daughters on campus and in cities today, from rideshare risks to tracking tech and social engineering in public spaces. It’s actionable, honest, and built from experience in security staffing.

Then we wade into the online dating trenches. Catfish tactics, “travels for work” euphemisms, babysitter-payment scams, and the surprisingly high cost of modern courtship collide with practical rules that work: verify on video, never send money, spot red flags fast, and keep your standards. From there, we trace Nick’s pivot from streaming burnout and clout-chasing to podcasting with purpose—creating community, amplifying other creators, and staying grounded when the numbers start popping.

If you’re juggling fatherhood, dating, and creative work while trying to stay true to yourself, this one hits home. Tap play, share it with a friend who needs tougher boundaries, and drop a review so more people can find the show. Subscribe for more candid conversations on relationships, safety, culture, and building a life that actually fits.

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Two minutes in and you can hear it: this is soul built for feeling and for the floor. We sit with Spanish artist Carlos Abril to unpack the spark behind Love So Strong, the disco‑tinted energy of Sensational and Get Down, and the quiet discipline of slowing down so songs can actually breathe. He traces a line from Don Blackman and Sheik to present‑day production choices—live‑leaning strings, drums with pocket, arrangements that give DJs space to work—and explains why he writes like a diary: honest, specific, and not edited for the algorithm.

We talk upbringing and how a small city with big support turned experimentation into a habit, not a risk. Stevie Wonder looms large—in lyric, arrangement, and sheer wonder—and that reverence becomes a north star for taste, not imitation. Carlos opens up about working mostly alone, catching himself before perfectionism breaks the vibe, and how a healthy relationship with yourself might be the most underrated tool in a songwriter’s bag. The conversation stacks into a bigger theme: time beats money. With time, you write, practice, connect, and heal. Without it, even a budget can’t buy you voice.

For selectors and heads, there’s plenty here: DJ‑friendly intros, the logic of long mixes, and why modern soul thrives when club intent meets headphone detail. Looking ahead, Carlos teases a debut album that folds in folk colors, Brazilian sway, and a touch of psychedelic haze—Motown uplift filtered through his own compass. If you’ve been craving groove with heart, hooks with heritage, and stories that feel lived‑in, this one’s for you.

Stream the episode, add the tracks to your playlist, and tell a friend who needs a lift. If you enjoy the show, tap follow, share a clip, and leave a quick review—your support helps more people find the music that moves them.

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What if the biggest relationship breakdown in your life became your greatest breakthrough? In this raw and revealing episode, certified Integrated Attachment Theory Coach Brian Power takes us on a journey through the invisible forces that shape our connections with others.

Brian shares his personal story of relationship collapse—complete with a restraining order and temporary separation from his son—that ultimately transformed into healing and reconciliation. With remarkable vulnerability, he explains how childhood abandonment wounds from his father's absence created patterns that sabotaged his adult relationships until he finally confronted them.

The conversation explores the four attachment styles (secure, anxious preoccupied, dismissive avoidant, and fearful avoidant) and how they manifest in everyday relationship behaviors. From checking a partner's phone to appearing emotionally unavailable, these patterns signal deeper wounds begging for attention. The most powerful revelation? The qualities that trigger us most in our partners often mirror our own unhealed trauma.

Through practical exercises and insights, Brian demonstrates how we can reprogram subconscious patterns within 21 days of consistent practice. He breaks down the six core elements needed for healing: addressing wounds, identifying needs, processing emotions, establishing boundaries, improving communication, and changing behaviors.

Whether you're struggling in a current relationship, healing from a past one, or preparing for future connections, this episode offers both compassion and practical tools for transformation. The path forward isn't about finding perfect partners—it's about becoming more whole ourselves so we can create the deep, secure connections we all desire.

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What happens when life's setbacks become the catalyst for extraordinary success? Mr. Devour's story answers this question with raw authenticity and entrepreneurial fire.

When a workplace injury left him unable to return to conventional employment, Devour faced a critical choice—give up or reinvent himself. With a wife and two children depending on him, he revived a dormant dream and launched Devour Collection, what he proudly calls "the only exotic streetwear brand in the world." Born and raised in Chicago's Roseland neighborhood, Devour infused his South Side roots into a fashion philosophy that's caught the attention of filmmakers and tastemakers alike.

"I gave myself a 10-year deadline," Devala reveals, "and honestly, I make five years in October and I've done a lot more stuff than I thought I would have done." That "stuff" includes clothing features in multiple films alongside notable actors, expanding his brand into couture and intimate apparel divisions, and launching a music label under his Pretty Fly Corporation umbrella. But success hasn't come without profound personal challenges, including battling depression and childhood tragedy—Devour lost two brothers in a fire when he was young.

Perhaps the most powerful takeaway from Devour's journey is his perspective on time versus money. "What can you do with money without time? Nothing," he states. "What can you do with time without money? A whole lot. I come from the bottom." This wisdom permeates his approach to business and life, creating generational wealth for his daughter (who has her own brand, Motivation) while relentlessly pursuing his vision despite naysayers.

Visit DevourCollection.com and use promo code DEVOUR for 15% off, or catch the brand's upcoming fashion show in St. Louis on October 18th. As Devour would say, "Live freely in your lifestyle while devouring your prey. Whatever trials and tribulations you go through, step into that shit as the lion, and never the mouse."

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What happens when relationships break down? What makes them thrive? DJ Monsoon welcomes Brandon Caldwell and Alicia Balark for a raw, unfiltered conversation about modern connection that goes far deeper than typical relationship talk.

The trio dives into what truly constitutes a healthy relationship, with both guests identifying respect and clear boundaries as foundational elements. Brandon eloquently explains how "mutual respect" creates the necessary framework, while Alicia adds nuanced perspective about meeting each other "where we are that day and loving each other through that." Their insights highlight how successful partnerships require both structure and flexibility.

The conversation takes fascinating turns through discussions of generational differences in relationships. Brandon observes that our grandparents didn't have the "accessibility" modern couples do—when problems arose, they couldn't simply swipe to the next option. This prompts a compelling exploration of how technology has fundamentally altered our approach to commitment, creating what Brandon calls a "7-Eleven" dating culture where people discard relationships at the first sign of challenge.

Perhaps the most thought-provoking segment examines masculinity in urban culture, with Brandon delivering an unflinching assessment: "You don't see James Evans Sr. as a man anymore." The guests dissect how limited representations of Black manhood leave younger generations without nuanced role models, creating cycles that affect everything from dating dynamics to parenting approaches. Alicia's perspective as a strong woman navigating these expectations adds valuable dimension to the conversation.

The episode closes with powerful reflections on healing, communication, and finding harmony despite our differences. As Brandon poetically notes, sometimes the simplest gesture—a genuine smile—can "light up the back ends of heaven."

Ready for relationship insights that go beyond surface-level advice? Listen now and join the conversation. Have thoughts or want to be featured on a future episode? Email [email protected] to connect.

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Get ready for an inside look at the adult film industry as we chat with Vic Lagina, a veteran producer who's been a key player for two decades. From his Philly roots to his Vegas evolution, Vic shares his wild entry into the porn business, sparked by an ad on adultstaffing.com, and his mission to bring professionalism to a chaotic industry. We promise you'll gain a new perspective on how digital platforms like OnlyFans are revolutionizing the game, empowering performers, and flipping traditional power dynamics on their head.

We also tackle the gritty side of the industry, exposing the unethical practices that plague major players like MindGeek. With candid discussions on controversial topics such as non-consensual content and the fallout from the "Takedown" book, this episode doesn't shy away from the tough conversations. Dive into the complexities of personal relationships within the industry, as we debate if working in porn can desensitize one to sex and explore the boundary-pushing world of porn addiction and its effects on a healthy relationship.

There's more to this episode than just serious industry talk. We lighten things up with a playful game matching drugs to party types and share humorous tales from the AVN Awards. Celebrate hip-hop culture with us, as DJ Shells drops beats that pay homage to legends like Eazy-E and Dre. To wrap things up, discover the importance of building a dedicated fanbase and get a sneak peek into Vic's book, "Filthy: The Rise and Pending Death of Vic Lagina." Whether you're here for the laughs, the insights, or the music, this episode is packed with something for everyone.

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Lazzey B Flow, the dynamic artist, producer, and event curator from Chicago, takes us on his musical journey filled with creativity, resilience, and authentic experiences. From the early days at Habit Studio to leading successful events with Tomorrow Dynasty, Lazzey B Flow shares how serendipitous moments and influential figures like Ozlin Antonio have shaped his career. He emphasizes the significance of collaboration and community, drawing inspiration from Chicago's vibrant music scene to bring unforgettable shows to places like Naperville and Wicker Park. Lazzey also opens up about his creative process, detailing how he integrates new music into social media to expand his reach and connect with fans.

Balancing multiple roles in the industry, Lazzey B Flow gives us a peek into the life of a producer and emcee, highlighting the joys and challenges unique to each role. As a producer, he stresses the importance of music theory and the intricacies of crafting beats, while as an emcee, he revels in the singular focus of performing. Lazzey also discusses the art of event curation, sharing his passion for creating memorable experiences that turn strangers into friends and adversaries into allies. His insights into the logistics of event planning, from managing open mic lists to maintaining performance standards, offer a glimpse into the behind-the-scenes workings of successful events.

The conversation doesn't shy away from the raw energy and authentic vibes of the nightlife, where Lazzey thrives in the hip-hop scene. From the importance of DJs in energizing events and promoting new talent to the camaraderie and unspoken bonds in the club scene, Lazzey captures the essence of what makes music culture so powerful. Lazzey showcases how music and friendship create a tapestry of support and creativity. Join us as we explore the night out with fresh kicks, a crisp white tee, and the passion that fuels the spirit of the streets.

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Episode Summary:

Join us for an inspiring and heartfelt episode as we sit down with the incredibly talented actor, Matt Drago, to discuss his upcoming film "Somewhere in Montana" and his personal experiences during the recent Los Angeles wildfires. Matt shares his challenges of pre-evacuating with his wife and dog due to the fire, highlighting the resilience and strength of the LA community. We delve into the transformative power of storytelling in both sports and the arts, exploring Matt's passion for acting and the joy and sense of community he found in supporting his beloved Rams. Throughout the episode, we take a behind-the-scenes look at the indie film world and the camaraderie and collaboration that emerged during the making of "Somewhere in Montana." Join us for a conversation that celebrates the spirit of storytelling, community, and connection.

Episode Highlights:

- Discover the impact of the Los Angeles wildfires on the community as actor Matt Drago shares his personal experience of pre-evacuating with his loved ones.
- Explore the power of storytelling in both sports and the arts, as Matt reflects on his passion for acting and the joy he found in supporting the Rams.
- Gain insights into the collaborative journey behind the making of "Somewhere in Montana," as we delve into the challenges of shooting in unpredictable weather and the lasting connections formed among the cast and crew.
- Reflect on the transformative influences of childhood imagination, favorite films and actors, and the importance of strong writing in storytelling.
- Uncover the personal stories and anecdotes that underscore the dedication and adaptability required in the indie film world.
- Celebrate the sense of community and solidarity that emerges during difficult times, highlighting the true spirit of Los Angeles as a city of dreamers and fighters.

Tune in for an episode filled with inspiration, connection, and celebration of the power of storytelling in the face of adversity.

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What role does the divine feminine play in songwriting, and how does it impact the emotional depth of today’s music? Join us in an intimate conversation with talented vocalists Jenee Jones and Tandaleria as they share their personal and artistic journeys. We promise you'll walk away with insights on authenticity, resilience, and how setting boundaries can fuel creative growth. Listen as they recount their friendship's evolution into a creative partnership and how those experiences have shaped their careers. Jenee and Tandaleria also provide a candid look at the music industry, sharing tales like Jenee's challenging yet transformative first studio session.

Our discussion takes an emotional turn as we explore the dynamics of relationships and songwriting. Jenee and Tandaleria offer their perspectives on how the lack of emotional depth in today’s music is linked to the underrepresentation of women in the studio, touching on the importance of vulnerability and its portrayal in songs, especially from a male perspective. We delve into past relationship fears and lessons, emphasizing the joy and growth that can arise from embracing vulnerability. The conversation tackles recognizing when to move on from unfulfilling connections, an essential skill in both personal and professional realms.

Prepare for laughter as we venture into hilarious speed dating stories and the creative process behind crafting a Speed Dating series. From fashion faux pas to dating app escapades, these anecdotes highlight the need for emotional intelligence and communication in relationships. We round things off with jovial moments discussing personal aspirations, musical influences, and a lively "4 for 4" game that challenges our quick thinking. Stay connected with us on our social media channels for upcoming projects and releases, and gain a fresh perspective on the value of time and personal growth.

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Ever wondered how childhood nicknames shape our identities and creativity? Join us as we sit down with Stone Flacco and RawCaesar, two dynamic artists who unravel the fascinating stories behind their monikers. Stone shares how a once-disliked nickname from his youth eventually became a badge of honor, while Flacco explains how "Delgado" pays homage to his roots. RawCaesar sheds light on transforming his middle name into a unique creative persona. These conversations underscore the transformative power of embracing one's identity and using it as a foundation for artistic expression.

Prepare to be inspired by the eclectic musical influences that have shaped Stone and Raw's journeys. From the gritty tales of Wu-Tang Clan and Nas to the introspective genius of Chicago's own Common and Lupe Fiasco, they reveal how these artists have left an indelible mark on their music. Our guests also discuss the vibrant and diverse Chicago music scene, where legends like Kanye West and Chance the Rapper continue to inspire new generations. Discover how the city's melting pot of sounds offers a platform for emerging local talent ready to push the boundaries of lyrical expression.

But it's not all about music. We navigate the complexities of personal and professional relationships in the industry, with Stone Flacco, the "vibe master," diving into his latest project, "The Last Vibe Fighter." Learn about the importance of chemistry, trust, and emotional honesty in collaborations, and how these elements enhance creative partnerships. The episode wraps up with a thought-provoking discussion on cultural norms, healthy relationships, and the ever-essential role of marketing in the music world. Tune in for an engaging exploration of identity, creativity, and the art of connection.

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