On episode 12 of The Sideline Hustle Podcast, we continue the conversation we had last week about building team culture, but we focus the discussion more specifically on the art of motivation.
While a program’s culture provides the blueprint for the standards and expectations that players and coaches must buy into – motivating them to put in the work day in and day out to meet those expectations is what I believe is the true “art” of coaching and is what separates good coaches from great ones and can allow players to take their game to a completely different level.
Joining us today is former Maryland head coach, Ralph Friedgen, Don Bosco Prep head coach Mike Teel, Miami Dolphins wide receiver Leonte Carroo and fomer Rutgers QB Gary Nova.
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I believe that football is the single greatest mechanism in our society to prepare young men for life. Its lessons of leadership, love, sacrifice and hard work while striving towards a common goal are ones that cannot be replaced.
As long as this game is played by human beings, toughness and emotion will determine the outcome of every contest. And an individual's capacity for suffering will determine how hard he is willing to compete in order to win.
If he has exhausted himself in his preparation, then he will be equipped with poise when the crucial moment that he has been training for occurs.
In these moments that others perceive to be "high stress," poise and cool-headedness are the most sought-after characteristics, as they allow him to execute his job with a clear mind, which precedes any physical abilities he may have.
None of this matters, however, without one thing: LOVE.
Love is what defines our purpose. Love is what determines our motivation.
Our love for our family in the locker room, our love for our family watching us play, and our love for the game itself is what creates the foundation for everything that we do.
The game of football and the game of life are built around FIGHTING FOR WHAT YOU LOVE. The love and the bond that we share is what forces us to show up to practice every damn day without excuse.
Just as the love for your family will one day force you to show up to work every damn day without excuse.
Love is what holds us accountable to each other, love is what keeps us disciplined, love is what allows us to endure the pain and the suffering that is necessary to become a champion that refuses to give in.
That is the single greatest lesson that the game of football can teach a man:
Fight for what you love and never give in.
Because ultimately, how hard you are willing to fight determines the winners and losers in this life. I'll be damned if you don’t leave this family fully prepared for that fight.
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Host: Drew Lieberman
TSH Team: Ralph Friedgen, Mike Teel, Leonte Carroo, Gary Nova
Intro Song: Cam’ron – Hey Ma
Theme Song: Cornelius Plus (@corneliusplus)
Outro Music: P. Muna (@p-muna)
Background Beats: The Custodian of Records
Recorded, Produced and Mastered by: Drew Lieberman