hat hidden factor could be killing relationships? For a start, n order to have a good relationship, the positives must outweigh the negatives by a large percentage.

"If negativity is creeping into your relationship it also crowds out the positive. It is like water seeping through walls, eventually weakening the structure. People usually feel motivated around others who are positive and energising, as well as those who help them to feel good about themselves. However, pushing aside or neglecting to address real problems is not the answer either, and can be just as harmful to the partnership."

This podcast explains the single most lethal force that destroys relationships.