Setting goals and completing them through has always been hard. I feel like so many of us make goals, but don't complete them because we forget them and then our mother duties get in the way. These last two years have been hard and 2021 was the first official year I became a single parent. I have set 5 goals to accomplish for 2022 and I am going to do my best to complete them. We don't have to set huge goals, but let's start this year to set them and continue working on them all year long instead of letting our mother duties override them. I want you to sit down and write down 5 goals you would like to accomplish and lets do a check in July to see how far we have come. Don't forget mommas self care is important. 

Hello, I have been missing the last 5 months. I didn't know what to do or how to discuss everything that was going on. Sometimes it feels like waves come in 3's and this was definitely on of those. From going back to court (per father's choice) to lower child support and then going to put my son back into public school and going to file for full custody or at least full legal custody. It's been a roller coaster. My child's father showed up to modify the child support order and didn't like what he heard and then he didn't show up for mediation for custody. GO FIGURE! How do people think lowering child support, but not showing up for custody works? 

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In this episode we are going to talk about 10 child support facts that I found really interesting. There are so many different family scenarios and I don't think a lot of people take that into consideration. All child support cases are not the same. There are scenarios where one parent lives at home while the other parent can't go home and live at their parents. Other examples are there is more than just one kid not only between the parents, but with the next partners or some men/ women have multiple kids with different partners. There is so much to take into consideration when it comes to child support. The number one thing I do believe is that our children should be supported by both parents no matter what. What are you thoughts? Send me a dm or any stories you want me to share on my IG at thesinglemomlifepdc XOXO. 

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Do you struggle with co-parenting with the father of your child/children? Have you had sneaky links with the father of your child/children? Do you feel like when you are sleeping the the father of your child/children you co-parent and get along so much better so you just continue to sleep with them? Well I am here to tell you that you are not the only one that has done this and in the end it doesn't work out. I know from personal experience. Sleeping with my child's father was wrong not only because it made co-parenting worse, but also being that I knew he had a girlfriend. However, she didn't care when she was sleeping with my child's father when I was weeks postpartum, so I didn't care much for her either. I guess you can say it was KARMA. I acknowledged it was wrong and took me time to end it, but if I didn't end it he would probably still be coming over now. Instead he has disappeared from my child's life all together since I ended the affair he chose we can no longer communicate. SO HEADS UP LADIES.. do not sleep with your child's father in order to communicate. 

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Have you been struggling financially lately as a single mom. I have too I feel excited that things are opening up and hopefully things get better, but I also feel like the burden of having to take my son out on adventures is making me financially stressed. My son is currently with me 24/7 since the pandemic and I want to be able to give him everything so I am excited things are opening up, but stressed. I feel like as a mom we always want to give our kids everything, but we need to remember to take things day by day. What do you guys thing DM me on my instagram @thesinglemomlifepodcast if you would like me to share your stories too. 

Do you know somebody who grew up in foster care? Do you know somebody who got adopted and struggle with their identity? Do you know somebody who wants to become a foster mom? Do you know somebody who enjoys surrogacy? Do you hate when being a single mom is looked down on as a bitter baby momma? I have literally been through it all. In this episode I will share a little bit about myself to start off this series. If you have questions that you would like me to address in any of my podcasts go ahead and follow me on IG @thesinglemomlifepodcast and I will go ahead and answer any of them. Xoxo.

This is an introductory episode of starting my podcast. 

I want to open this podcast to all women with all kind of different backgrounds. As a single mom venturing on this entrepreneur life and growing up in foster care I know there are so many struggles in life that make us doubt ourselves. Let's venture on a better life together. Subscribe and share your stories with me as well. Thank you!