The Single Standard

Maya and Autumne celebrate their first anniversary by looking back on the journey they've shared. From questionable dating choices to hilarious insights, they’ve tackled a plethora of topics that resonate with many.

As they kick off Season 3, Maya and Autumne are excited to explore new themes and continue their journey. They invite listeners to join them for another year filled with laughter, insights, and perhaps more questionable dating decisions.

Reflecting on their growth, they are eager to hear from you. What topics do you want them to cover next? What dating shows have caught your attention?

In this week's episode, we dive deep into the world of reality TV, focusing on the latest happenings from Love is Blind UK, and touching on the debut of Unwell on YouTube. Join Autumne and Maya as they break down the most entertaining moments and the dynamics of relationships that captivate us.

In this episode, Maya and Autumne discuss the latest reality TV seasons, including Love Island season eight reunion and Married at First Sight season 20. They analyze cast dynamics, key moments, and the cultural impact of these shows, offering insights into relationships, casting, and social issues.

The summer may have kept Autumne and Maya busy, but they haven't missed a beat in the world of reality TV and personal milestones. In this issue, they catch up on their lives while reflecting on the latest happenings in the dating show world.

After a brief hiatus, Autumne and Maya return with stories to tell. Autumne shares her whirlwind summer, including a memorable concert and a trip back to her roots in Belgium. Meanwhile, Maya's been deep in the trenches of journalism, participating in panels focused on critical issues like redistricting and voter suppression.

Both hosts reflect on missed birthdays during their time off, with Autumne embracing her Leo spirit with celebrations and adventures. From concerts to reconnecting with old friends, she’s been living life to the fullest. Meanwhile, Maya's work at the National Association of Black Journalists convention is a testament to her dedication and skill, earning her accolades and feedback from peers and strangers alike.

As they dive back into their signature segment, Autumne expresses her excitement over the recent Nicolandria Fest, a gathering inspired by the beloved couple Nick and Alandria. "It was amazing, y'all. I had a ticket to go," she shares, highlighting the community connection that has formed around the couple.

Maya, on the other hand, had her own triumphant moment breaking the news about Nick's new record deal with Atlantic Records, a scoop that got everyone talking.

"I made the decision spur of the moment to drive down to Auburn where he was doing a meet and greet appearance."

Maya, on her last-minute journey to share big news.

The episode wraps up with a discussion about "Let’s Marry Harry." As the reunion unfolds, the hosts share their quick thoughts on the show, offering insights into the relationships that have captivated audiences.

Both Autumne and Maya bring their unique perspectives, blending personal anecdotes with reality TV commentary, making for a heartfelt and engaging conversation.

As always, their reflections are a reminder of the connections we forge through shared experiences, whether in reality TV or in our own lives.

Join them as they continue to explore the intersections of love, life, and the lessons learned along the way.

For more in-depth commentary, check out Maya's article on her new Substack!

Join Maya and Autumne as they analyze the latest episodes of Perfect Match Season 4, sharing insights on cast dynamics, game strategies, and their favorite moments. Dive into their candid opinions on reality TV personalities, relationship dynamics, and upcoming shows.

Most of us are just trying to get through the chaos of relationships, friendship, and life but this season of Beyond the Villa pulls back the curtain on what really was happening behind the scenes. Hannah, Iris, Pepe, and the rest of the cast expose the messy, unfiltered truth from betrayals and lies to the standouts we overlooked. If you think reality TV is just entertainment, think again. This season is a masterclass in authenticity, heartbreak, and growth and you don’t want to miss a second of it.You’ll discover how Hannah’s fierce loyalty and fiery moments might just be her greatest strength or her biggest mistake, and why her loyalty came at a cost ... her reputation. We break down the real story behind Iris’s breakup, her lies, and Charlie’s surprising role that could change everything. Plus, get an inside look at why some cast members should have been cut, how generational differences shape behavior, and the untold stories of love, betrayal, and redemption. This episode isn’t for the faint of heart it’s for anyone tired of surface level drama and desperate for raw, unfiltered truth. If you crave real talk, explosive moments, and lessons in growth, get ready this is the Beyond the Villa breakdown you’ve been waiting for. Whether you’re a reality TV junkie or just need some honest insight into navigating relationships, this episode will leave you shouting, reflecting, and ready to hit play again. Don’t settle for the surface dive deep into the mess and meaning of unfiltered human drama. Note: This isn’t just a recap, it’s a bold, passionate expose on how life, love, and growth collide in the most unpredictable ways. Don’t miss it!

This episode features a lively discussion on reality dating shows, including recaps of new shows Love Overboard and Temptation Island. Hosts Maya and Autumne analyze cast dynamics, show concepts, and relationship insights, offering a deep dive into the drama and strategy behind these popular series.

In this episode of The Single Standard, we’re breaking down the Love Is Blind reunion and asking the real question: did some of these couples waste our time… or were we just rooting for the wrong people?

We get into:

• The biggest relationship shifts, breakups, and accountability moments from the reunion

• Who showed real growth… and who stayed exactly the same 

• Our honest thoughts on whether love was ever really blind

Then we dive into the first five episodes of Netflix’s Age of Attraction, where age gaps take center stage and relationships unfold in ways that are equal parts intriguing and questionable.

We unpack:

• How age differences impact connection, power, and intention

• The role of family, children, and long-term compatibility

• What feels authentic vs. performative in these relationships

• And which couples we think are actually built to last

Of course, we also bring you:

 Our Van Carthon Moment of the Week

 And a Soft Life Moment to keep you grounded while the dating world stays chaotic

If you’ve ever wondered whether someone is truly intentional… or just passing time, this episode is for you.

00:00The Impact of Reality TV on Relationships

03:42Analyzing Love is Blind Finale: Mike and Emma's Decision

07:24Amber and Jordan: Wedding Day Drama

11:18Devonte and Brittany: A Delusional Love Story

14:18Ashley and Alex: Jumping the Gun on Commitment

15:08Standing Up for Oneself: A Missed Opportunity

17:19The Importance of First Impressions

20:03Navigating Interracial Relationships20:35Emotional Moments at the Altar

22:21Superlatives and Awards for the Season

25:27Fashion Choices: Best and Worst Looks

28:30Anticipating Future Seasons and New Shows

30:30Character Evaluations: Favorites and Least Favorites

34:07Exploring Personal Connections and Relatability

36:05Age Gaps in Dating: Perspectives and Experiences

39:28Reflections on the Show's Hosts and Their Impact

39:57Soft Life Moments: Finding Joy and Peace

44:37Looking Ahead: Upcoming Shows and Future Plans

In this episode, Autumne and Maya dive into the latest happenings in reality TV, focusing on 'Love is Blind,' 'The Traitors,' and 'Love Island All Stars.' They discuss the emotional rollercoaster of relationships, engagement doubts, and the dynamics of trust and manipulation in reality shows. The conversation highlights key moments from the episodes, including the VanCarthen moments, the challenges faced by couples, and the strategies employed by contestants in 'The Traitors.' The hosts reflect on the lessons learned from these shows and the implications for real-life relationships. In this episode, the hosts delve into the complexities of bias in competitive environments, particularly focusing on how privilege can influence outcomes. They discuss the reunion show, expectations versus reality, and the confrontations that unfolded. Fashion choices are highlighted as a form of personal expression and growth. The conversation shifts to 'Love Island,' analyzing compatibility among couples and reflecting on the winners. The episode concludes with soft moments from their lives.