The Sober Gay Guy

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  • Season 3 Ep. 5 | TJ Talks Blog Post

    In this heartfelt podcast episode, Sobergayguy reflects on the profound impact of loss and addiction on relationships. He shares a personal narrative about saying goodbye to a beloved friend, Debi, and the regrets that accompany such a loss. Through the reading of a poignant blog post, he explores themes of grief, accountability, and the emotional journey of sobriety, emphasizing the importance of cherishing relationships and the clarity that comes with introspection.


    Sober Gay Guy Music by: Adam Moyer


    -Saying goodbye can evoke deep emotional pain.

    -Regret often accompanies loss, especially in relationships.

    -Addiction can irreparably damage friendships and trust.

    -Accountability is crucial in maintaining relationships.

    -Introspection can lead to clarity and healing.

    -Cherishing moments with loved ones is essential.

    -The impact of loss can linger long after the event.

    -Sobriety brings a new perspective on past actions.

    -Friendship can be a source of strength and vulnerability.

    -Hope for reconnection can provide comfort in grief.


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    12 min
  • Season 3 | Ep. 4: TJ Talks 50 is the new 40

    In this conversation, TJ discusses the journey of embracing life after 50, focusing on health, wellness, and the importance of community. He emphasizes that turning 50 can be a time of opportunity and growth, encouraging listeners to prioritize self-care, nutrition, and mental health. The discussion also highlights the significance of building connections and finding joy in everyday moments.


    SoberGayGuy music by: Adam Moyer


    -Embracing change is crucial as we age.

    -Health and wellness should be prioritized in your 50s.

    -Mental health is just as important as physical health.

    -Building connections with others enhances our lives.

    -Self-care is not selfish; it's essential for well-being.

    -Hydration and nutrition play key roles in health.

    -Finding joy in quiet moments can improve mental health.

    -Your value is not defined by your age.

    -50 is a decade of opportunity and growth.

    -It's important to share experiences and connect with others.


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    Call me or text me: 630.546.5670





    16 min
  • Season 3 | Ep. 3: TJ talks Accountability

    In this episode of the Sober Gay Guy podcast, the host discusses the importance of accountability in personal health and sobriety. He shares his experiences with chronic illness and how accountability plays a crucial role in managing his health and maintaining sobriety. The conversation covers personal and external accountability, practical steps for building accountability, and the significance of communication in relationships. The host emphasizes that accountability is not about perfection but about taking ownership and making consistent efforts towards personal goals.


    Music by: Adam Moyer

    18 min
  • Season 3 | Ep. 2: TJ talks about living with Chronic Illness and Autoimmune Stories

    In this episode of the Sober Gay Guy podcast, host TJ shares his personal journey with autoimmune diseases, specifically Hashimoto's thyroiditis and Graves' disease. He discusses the symptoms, diagnosis, and the challenges of managing these conditions while emphasizing the importance of community and support. The episode aims to provide comfort and connection for those dealing with similar health issues, encouraging listeners to share their stories and experiences.
    Sober Gay Guy Music: Adam Moyer

    25 min
  • Episode 3 with Fierce Feisty Female. Nikki Battles
    Enjoy our first full episode with Guest Nikki Battles of the Fierce Feisty Female Instagram Page.  Nikki has been a friend to me for a few years now and we share so much in common.  Every time we're together we never have enough time to talk and don't ever want to stop!  Listen in as we talk about navigating through life with out kids...... Follow me on Instagram: instagram.com/sobergayguy
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    Need to talk it out? 630.546.5670
    Sober Gay Guy Music By: Adam Moyer
    44 min
  • Episode 4 with Dr. Lisa Whitty Bradley
    My friend Lisa is a Mom, Doctor, Author, C.E.O. & Citezen.  Physician, C.E.O and Founder of Chicks with MD's, Loop Plastic Surgeon and creator of the pseudonym and Best Selling Author , Stella Jones Paranormal Romance.  Enjoy this deep dive into a converstion about medicine, health and changing your life in order to make the most of your life.  I've known Lisa for the better part of 7 years and I learn something from her every time we're together.  Enjoy. Follow me on Instagram: instagram.com/sobergayguy
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    Need to talk it out? 630.546.5670
    Sober Gay Guy Music By: Adam Moyer
    1 hr 15 min
  • Episode 6 segment 1 with Dana Fortner
    My friend Dana is a Mom, Wife, Recreational Therapist & Yoga Teacher. In this episode we talk about the origins of her addiction and the lengths she went to, to protect herself from pain, shame and of course overcoming those obstacles. Enjoy. Follow me on Instagram: instagram.com/sobergayguy
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    Sober Gay Guy Music By: Adam Moyer
    37 min
  • Episode 7, segment 2 with Dana Fortner
    In segment 2 with my friend Dana, we lighten the mood by chatting about some popular cultural news topics and common stuff all of us are going through as adults and parents..sort of. Follow me on Instagram: instagram.com/sobergayguy
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    Sober Gay Guy Music By: Adam Moyer
    1 hr 4 min
  • Episode 8 TJ Talks: Shame
    We’ve all experienced some kind of shame in our life. In this episode I spell out the 4 types of shame that exist on a clinical level and how each of them affect us. Enjoy. Follow me on Instagram: instagram.com/sobergayguy
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    Sober Gay Guy Music By: Adam Moyer
    33 min

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I have no idea what's going on, but I do know that I'm doing my best and that I'm feeling it all along the way. Join me and my friends and listen in on our sometimes serious but most of the time ridiculous take on life and how we're trying to figure it out along the way.