2025 didn't go the way I thought it would, and I'm not mad about it. In this episode, I'm getting real about what didn't happen last year (no viral moments, no 6-figure launches, no massive team), what DID happen (an emergency fund, presence with my family, and learning to trust myself), and the biggest lessons that are shaping everything I'm building in 2026.

If you're a mom entrepreneur tired of hustle culture, mom guilt, and building a business that consumes your life instead of supporting it...this episode is for you.

In this episode, you'll learn:

• Why I "failed" my mentors (and what it taught me about stepping into my authority)
• How a Starbucks latte saved my business (hint: it wasn't my business, it was my nervous system)
• The reframe that changed everything: presence freedom over time freedom
• What I'm building in 2026 (including The Mom Yes Day Challenge launching February 18th)
• How to build a business that gives you presence with your family without sacrificing growth

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You don’t need a fancy title to be a leader. You are already leading — as a mom, a wife, a friend, a community member, a CEO.

But here’s the truth most people don’t want to hear: leadership isn’t about being the loudest voice in the room. It’s about being the safest presence in the room.

In this episode, I share:

✨ Why vulnerability is the strongest leadership flex (and how it’s different from oversharing).

✨ How nervous system regulation is the foundation of every decision, conversation, and relationship you hold.

✨ Why presence—not pressure—is what makes people trust, follow, and buy-in to your vision.

✨ Real-life examples from my own launch and how I had to lead softer through setbacks.

And I give you a sneak peek into my program Lead Her Soft, where we are re-writing the rules of leadership together.

Because babe…you don’t need another strategy. You need presence. And presence changes everything.

Resources Mentioned:

• Join Lead Her Soft for just $88

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What if I told you that being chosen by everyone isn’t actually the goal?

In today’s episode, I’m pulling weeds out of the garden of “not being chosen” and showing you how to flip the script:

✨ Why you don’t want everyone to choose you (spoiler: it’s exhausting).

✨ How to reframe rejection so it doesn’t crush your spirit.

✨ A simple exercise to get to the root of old beliefs + clear them from your nervous system.

✨ Why the right people, opportunities, and clients will always come when you stop forcing.

You are chosen. You always have been. You always will be. It’s just about being chosen by the right people, at the right time, for the right things.

👉 If this episode spoke to you, share it in your stories and tag me @kaylagarza_softhustle

I’d love to hear what you’re clearing out of your own “garden.”

Resources Mentioned:

• She Bloomed & Banked - get some support pulling those weeds

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Here’s the God honest truth: you don’t rise to the level of your goals—you rise to the level of your standards.

In this episode, I’m sharing the 10 Commandments I’ve created for my business and my life—the promises I’m making to myself, my family, my faith, and my community.

These commandments aren’t just rules. They’re the foundation of how I lead, the boundaries that protect my joy, and the standards that allow me to show up with love, empathy, and integrity.

We’ll dive into:

✨ The difference between hustling to prove yourself vs. leading with presence.

✨ The things I refuse to tolerate in my life and business anymore (and why you shouldn’t either).

✨ Why your goals keep slipping through your fingers (and how standards are the missing piece).

✨ The micro-moments that make or break your leadership.

This isn’t about perfection—it’s about raising your standards so that thriving becomes your default.

Resources Mentioned:

• Connect with Jen - Becoming Iconic
• Grab your free digital copy of Soft Hustle Magazine: code VESSEL
• Want to go deeper? Join Lead Her Soft
• Science of Scaling

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Ever feel like you’re rushing through the day, pouring from an empty cup, and wondering why it feels so heavy? This episode is your reminder that rituals aren’t luxuries — they’re lifelines.

Inside this episode, I’m walking you through the rituals that keep me grounded as a mama, mentor, and CEO. From quiet mornings before my kids wake up, to mid-afternoon reset breaks, to winding down in the evenings with intention — these small acts are how I pour into myself so I can pour into everyone else.

✨ Here’s what you’ll hear in this episode:

• My morning rituals that set the tone for presence + productivity
• Why getting dressed shifts my energy into CEO mode
• The importance of prepping food + space so my family feels supported
• Afternoon grounding practices that bring me back into balance before chaos hits
• How bedtime rituals (for me + my kids) create peace, rest, and better sleep
• Why asking “What do I need right now?” throughout the day changes everything

This isn’t about rigid schedules or perfection. It’s about creating rhythms that feel soft, supportive, and sustainable.

💌 Plus, I’m sharing how these rituals connect to this month’s theme in Soft Hustle Magazine: The Vessel Issue — because your body, your business, and your spirit all need care.

Resources Mention:

• The Soft Hustle Magazine - Use code VESSEL to grab the digital copy for free
• Grab my list of my favorite daily rituals.

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After a season of moving, slowing down, and doing life messy, I’m finally settled in New Jersey and ready to share what’s next.

This episode is part catch-up, part intention-setting, and part love letter to where we’re headed together. I’m sharing:

✨ How slowing down this summer became the reset I didn’t know I needed

✨ Why “discipline” is my word of the month (and how it feels different from consistency)

✨ The behind-the-scenes of launching Soft Hustle Magazine: Issue 3 – The Vessel

✨ What it means to protect your vessel—in your body and in your business

✨ How I’m mapping September with routines, content, and devotion (without burnout)

And of course, a reminder that you don’t need to do it all. You just need to do the next right step for you.

Resources & Links:

• The Soft Hustle Magazine

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She’s not coming. She’s already here.

Reclaim your power—without abandoning your softness.

Episode Description:

You don’t need another template. You don’t need a better hook.

You need a body that feels safe holding visibility, leadership, and wealth.

That’s what this masterclass is here to give you.

This isn’t your typical business training—it’s a nervous system recalibration for the high-capacity woman who’s tired of collapsing every time her launch goes quiet… and ready to build her next level from peace, not pressure.

You’ll learn:

✨ Why your business isn’t scaling the way you want—and why it’s not a strategy problem

✨ What nervous system collapse actually looks like in business (spoiler: it’s not self-sabotage, it’s self-protection)

✨ The 3 recalibrations every feminine-led entrepreneur needs to shift from performing to positioning

✨ Simple micro-moves that anchor peace, presence, and power—starting today

You'll walk away remembering:

You don’t need to prove you’re ready.

You just need to let your body believe you already are.

🪞BONUS: Want to go deeper into the shift?

Step into She Bloomed & Banked—7 audio recalibrations + 2 nervous system activations that turn embodiment into overflow.

Only $55.

Resources & Links:

• The Soft Power Shift Cheat Sheet
• The Soft Power Shift Workbook
• Your Numerology AI
• Join She Bloomed & Banked

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This one’s for the woman who’s been chasing softness like it’s something she has to earn.

Who’s been scrolling for permission to slow down…

But just needed someone to whisper: “It’s already yours.”

In this episode, Kayla unpacks 7 tiny shifts that changed everything—from how she walked into a room to how she held a glass of water. These are nervous system recalibrations, not routines. Micro-moments that move you from frantic to feminine. And no—they don’t require a full rebrand or a silk robe (though she won’t stop you 👀).

What You’ll Feel in This Episode:

✨ What softness actually looks like in real life

✨ How to reclaim your body as a safe space

✨ The difference between performing femininity and embodying it

✨ Why luxury is a frequency, not a price point

✨ How to shift from proving to presence

💌 Journal prompt:

Which of the 7 shifts are you choosing to embody this week—and what part of you softens when you do?

👇 Ready to go deeper?

Inside She Bloomed & Banked, we take these micro-moments and turn them into a full recalibration of how you show up in your brand.

7 private audios. Nervous system-led branding. Sacred softness.

🎧 Price: $222

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You don’t need another 2-hour morning routine.

You don’t need to escape your life.

You just need five sacred minutes to re-enter it.

This episode is a nervous system love letter to the mama, the entrepreneur, the woman who’s been stretched so thin she forgot where she ends and everyone else begins.

If you’ve ever whispered, “I miss me”… this is your return.

Inside this episode, we’ll talk about:

• The moment I realized I was burning out in silence
• How five minutes outside changed how I mother, market, and move
• The truth about nervous system-led business
• The power of micro-regulation in a macro world
• How peace becomes your new profit plan

✨ You don’t need to burn to be bright. You just need a breath.

Tune in for the shift.

🖤 Ready to rebuild your business from your body, not just your brain?

She Bloomed & Banked is now open.

🎧 7 private podcast episodes

🌿 Nervous-system-safe strategy

💌 A brand recalibration that feels like silk

You don’t need to earn this softness.

You’re already her.

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You know that moment when you realize you’ve been watering yourself down for both sides of your life?

Too bold for the church crowd.

Too modest for the coaching world.

Too loud. Too soft. Too “much.” Not enough.

Yeah—this episode cracks that moment wide open.

I'm sharing the rooftop vision, the talk show download, the poolside shutdown… and the exact moment I stopped flinching when it was my turn to be seen.

This isn’t just a reintroduction to Kayla.

It’s a permission slip for you to bring all of you to the table: the faith, the fire, the femininity, the frequency.

This is for the woman who’s done hiding in plain sight.

Who’s ready to stop chasing acceptance and start embodying identity.

Because when you bloom in your full spectrum—the bank follows.

✨ Mentioned in this episode:

💌 She Bloomed & Banked — the audio-led business experience for women scaling from softness, not sprinting.

It’s where your strategy gets nervous-system-safe.

And your brand starts sounding like you again.

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