LA is on fire and I'm maintaining my sense of normalcy through my favorite thing- having good conversation with good people. In this episode, I’m joined by my high school best friend, Melissa, as we dive deep into the transformative energies of 2025. Together, we explore the collective themes for the year and share personal energy readings, including a relationship forecast for us both, as well as my upcoming Saturn return, and Melissa's unique career and life guidance.

We start with a brief discussion on the current LA fires, their impact, and resources for those affected. For official information and assistance, check out the California government’s page (ca.gov).

P.S. I apologize for the sound of the pool in the background running the whole time, I didn't realize how loud it was until I started editing! We covered a lot in this video though, and this reading is truly packed with so much valuable insights to help you navigate the year ahead, so I decided to move forward with it anyways.

Whether you’re curious about personal growth, relationships, or alignment with your purpose, you'll get exactly what you need out of this.

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(02:07) LA fires debrief

(06:58) collective “9” year & strength

(09:30) survival mode is not a bad thing

(11:06) 4 of cups: new pathways

(14:34) 6 of cups: giving & receiving

(17:49) 3 of swords: let go

(20:41) how i stopped blaming my mom

(22:24) why high achievers get stuck

(25:22) 5 of wands:conflict & priorities

(29:00) benefits of staying in alignment in 2025

(31:57) summary of the collective reading

(34:51) Mel’s 2025 relationship reading

(40:17) curiosity blooming into passion

(44:36) the case for dating multiple people

(51:00) Mel’s career guidance

(54:26) upheaval vs setting roots

(58:51) being an emotional leader

(1:0033) Jen’s 2025 relationship reading

(1:06:22) Discerning fear from intuition

(1:08:54) my human figure-it-out-mode

(1:10:36) Mel pulls cards for Jen

(1:14:07) how to set a new baseline for happiness

(1:17:20) Mel’s thoughts on Jen’s reading

(1:19:32) Final thoughts on the year ahead

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Want to create a conscious, healthy, secure romantic relationship? You're in the right place.

In this episode of the Soul Whispers Podcast, I take you on a dive deep into the dynamics of conscious adult romantic relationships and learnings from my personal experiences. Learn how to cultivate self-regulation and self-trust, understand why trying to heal your partner may backfire, and discover the energetics of creating a safe and secure relationship. We explore essential skills such as conflict resolution, trauma-aware communication, and overcoming common pitfalls like criticism, defensiveness, contempt, and stonewalling.

(01:30) Tune into your body’s intuition for better discernment.

(09:00) Explore a new perspective on romantic relationships.

(16:39) Strengthen your connection to personal power.

(18:14) Understand polarity and how to pursue and choose your partner.

(25:34) Lay the foundations for a healthy relationship with matching virtues

(32:22) Build with complimentary values.

(36:49) Align your vision and why it matters.

(43:03) Dangers of misalignment and how to resolve conflicts.

(47:13) Identify and correct the 4 horsemen of relationships: criticism, defensiveness, contempt, and stonewalling.

(01:06:16) Men’s role in creating safety for women and building understanding for each other.

(01:17:46) Implement “State of the Union” check-ins for ongoing relationship health.

(01:22:55) Final notes

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Welcome to the 106th episode of the Soul Whispers Podcast! Join Jen as she explores how to transform your relationship with dating by taking the pressure off "getting it right" and using dating as a powerful opportunity for self-reflection and growth. This ensures you not only find an aligned partner for yourself, but that the entire dating process is worthwhile for you.

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(02:36) Understand and adopt Jen's dating ideology

(04:50) #1. Avoid taking things personally in dating

(08:40) Embrace the idea that it's okay to not be "good enough" for someone

(09:47) Recognize that everyone in your life is a mirror

(11:41) Bring your shadows to light and grow from them

(15:52) #2. Be your full, authentic self in relationships

(16:50) Use thinking as a tool, not a weapon

(19:55) Know and clarify your intentions in dating

(21:28) Straight men vs women dating behaviors

(26:55) Distinguish between companionship and partnership

(28:25) Discern genuine effort from "trying" energy

(31:24) Embrace differences without fear

(34:09) #3. Have high standards in your relationships

(35:52) Understand why being high maintenance can be beneficial

(38:14) Align with your own standards

(39:18) Not be afraid of narcissists

(40:53) Live with integrity in your relationships

(41:42) Choose higher standards over more boundaries

(44:33) Realize you don't have to be perfect or fully healed to date

(48:02) My dating spreadsheet and the value of having a "list"

(53:31) Tarot for dating clarity and for couples

Join us for this enriching episode that will help you approach dating with confidence, self-awareness, and a sense of growth. Discover how to find an incredible partner who is truly aligned with you.

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Friendships are the greatest anchors in life and it’s the glue that hold communities together. In a society that glorifies independence and pushes individual freedom, yet is breaking down from loneliness and mental health crises— obviously society got it wrong.

In this episode, I share perspectives that will reframe how you go about making friends so you can find genuine people that you align with and contribute to a community you care about.

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(00:00) Intro

(03:11) DON’T try to make friends this way

(08:24) What doesn’t work well

(13:50) Reciprocal versus Transactional Relationships

(21:17) Showing your full self in friendships

(25:27) How to shift your vibration to bring in new people

(27:40) Using Human Design for friendships

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We're tackling family relationships next in the Relationship Series of the Soul Whispers Podcast.

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In this episode, Jen shares her experiences and perspectives on navigating challenging family relationships- especially parental relationships- when there has been trauma and stored pain.

No matter what culture you're from, or whether or not you are a parent yourself, this episode will help you recenter your focus back on your personal healing and see your path to a healthier family dynamic with clarity.

(00:00) Intro

(01:44) Healing from cultural trauma + note on filial piety

(05:00) Stop waiting & take responsibility for your healing

(06:54) Don’t walk on a broken leg

(07:31) It’s a parent’s job to do this

(09:49) How I support my clients in healing

(12:10) How hypnotherapy helped me heal and transform

(16:08) Creating emotional independence

(18:53) Growth in my relationship with my mom & being myself

(24:09) The quality of your relationships come down to these 2 things

(29:20) A note on forgiveness

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Part 2 of 2 to transform your relationship with yourself covers the next crucial component to having a thriving healthy relationship with yourself- using your language intentionally.

In this episode, I cover:

(00:00) intro

(01:55) tarot message: 11. Justice

(03:14) ice cream paradigm shift

(08:43) what aligned celebration looks like

(11:40) 3 ways to reprogram "should" statements

(13:24) "should" audit

(14:51) why "should" is so toxic

(18:37) your feelings tell the truth

(22:47) turning point in business happiness

(27:21) bonus vs. winning results

(28:59) as above, so below

(29:44) it's not your fault

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This is part 1 of 2 to transform your relationship with yourself.

We dive deep into how shame is the biggest killer for self love, and the reason why you feel blocked from experiencing inner peace, true self confidence, and excitement in life.

Some stories I share?

(01:33) having a relationship with yourself

(02:44) what creates suffering

(05:16) 2 factors that determine the quality of your relationship with yourself

(06:45) inner peace vs shame

(09:52) what to do with shame

(11:40) how I work with my clients

(14:40) shame and self-esteem

(18:32) breaking down your relationship with yourself

(20:47) using excitement and virtues to create change

(29:36) when healthy change feels cringy

(31:21) the work to release guilt

(37:41) how to stop feeling like a burden

(44:56) replacing shame as a motivator

This episode is designed to help you:

I’m your host, Jen Cui, a soul whisperer, certified life coach, hypnotherapist, and spiritual guide. Join me in this powerful conversation as we explore the path to self-love and acceptance. Let's break free from the chains of shame and step into a life filled with joy, purpose, and self-empowerment.

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Welcome to the 101st episode of the Soul Whispers Podcast! I’m your host, Jen Cui, a soul whisperer, certified life coach, hypnotherapist, and spiritual guide.

We're kicking off season 2 (all about relationships!) on June 20th, the summer solstice, and to open up the season I delve deep into my core life philosophy centered around virtues, values, and vision.

What You'll Learn in This Episode:

The Philosophy I Live and Coach By: Discover the foundational principles that guide my life and coaching practice.

Deconditioning from Society's Norms: Learn how to break free from societal expectations and think independently about your life's purpose.

Personal Anecdotes: I'll share my journey to becoming vegan and how it embodies the essence of knowing your virtues, determining your values, and letting go of control to allow your life's vision to unfold naturally.

(00:00) introduction & background info

(06:10) my core life philosophy

(10:01) how we're conditioned to think about life

(19:06) getting to know your virtues

(24:35) how to think about virtues, values, and visions

(33:07) my vegan story: an application of my philosophy

(40:54) attachment to your virtues & detachment to the vision

(44:43) the importance of flexibility in life

Join me in this important conversation as we explore how embracing your virtues, values, and vision can transform your life.

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*TRIGGER WARNING* suicide, life ending thoughts, sexual assault, disordered eating habits and explicit mentions of weight and dieting, and abusive relationships

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In the 100th episode of The Soul Whispers podcast, I'm sharing my story in depth from where I am now so you can understand the ground in which my perspectives, beliefs, and ideas have been sowed in, plowed through, replanted, and grown in.

This episode is broken down into different pieces of my life and is laced with many deep insights I have on life, how we can look at mental health and suicidal ideation from a spiritual perspective to heal the root cause, and my truths that are foundational to why I do what I do. As always, I'm looking forward to hear what you resonate with, what takeaways you have, and how these perspectives impact you.

*DISCLAIMER* I am NOT a licensed psychologist, therapist, or doctor and what I share with you is not intended to be prescriptive or medical advice- do NOT go off medication, stop seeing a therapist or doctor, “because of me” with this- like any piece of content- consume responsibly and apply what you see fit from a sovereign and self-empowered place.

(00:00) intro

(04:07) intentions of sharing & disclaimers

(07:08) new life updates & announcements

(15:17) childhood, conditioning, and intuition

(29:45) depression, suicidal ideation, and turning points

(48:43) feeling called to coach

(54:19) hypnotherapy, tarot, and authenticity

(01:07:03) final oracle card messages

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I go deep into my relationship with my mom, the challenges we’ve had, breaking out of old patterns of blame, holding past trauma, and being able to ascend past the need for parental validation and acceptance. Hear how I’ve been able to invite in more vulnerability within my relationship with my Chinese immigrant parents, as well as how I’ve been healing insecure attachment styles and distorted feminine energy.

TW: some talk about suicidal ideation

(00:43) intro

(04:40) family holiday reflection

(09:10) mother wounds & ending the cycle of blame

(19:02) the journey into consciousness

(28:26) triggers are your responsibility to handle

(30:42) “my parents don’t understand me”

(39:15) not needing parental praise

(41:46) playing “parents are human” with my family

(46:53) my parents are the OG generational trauma cycle breakers

(49:58) releasing insecure attachment styles

(54:05) letting go of girlhood and inviting in divine feminine energy

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