Everyone says they want honesty, but what does that really mean in a relationship?

In this episode, Chris and Tam unpack the difference between being truthful, open, and brutally honest. From relationships and friendships to business and public life, they explore how honesty builds trust, and how discernment protects peace.

This is a real, grounded conversation about communication, maturity, and knowing when to speak and when to pause.

You’ll hear real talk about:

• The difference between honesty and transparancy
• When full transparency is necessary
• How honesty shows up differently in love, friendships, and business

In this week's He Said / She Said, Chris and Tam discuss: "How much of your relationship should be shared online?" Does privacy protect or hide a relationship?

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As the year comes to a close, Chris and Tam slow things down and reflect on what this season has taught them — individually, as a couple, and as partners in life and business.

In this episode, they talk honestly about growth, lessons learned, what they’re proud of, and what they’re intentionally leaving behind. From love and communication to building CLEAR and planning for 2026, this conversation is about closing the year with clarity and stepping into what’s next with intention.

You’ll hear real talk about:

• What this year revealed about love and partnership
• Lessons learned while building life and business together
• How reflection creates clarity for what’s next
• Why intention matters more than resolutions

In this week's He Said / She Said, Chris and Tam explore the big question: "Is growth in a relationship about change or acceptance?" Can you grow with someone without trying to change them?

This episode is thoughtful, grounding, and full of perspective, the perfect conversation to help you close the year with intention and move forward aligned.

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Dreams look different when you’re building a life and a business with your soulmate. In this episode, Chris and Tam unpack what it really means to dream together, set goals together, support each other’s growth, and stay aligned while navigating love, work, and purpose.

You’ll hear real talk about:

• How to blend two visions without losing identity
• The power of shared goals
• How you keep each other motivated and accountable
• How to support each other’s individual AND shared dreams

In this week's He Said / She Said, Chris and Tam tackle the big question:

“Should couples share all assets or only what they built together?” At what point should finances become "ours" instead of "Mine" and "Yours"?

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Your past doesn’t disappear when you enter a new relationship, but it can be healed, rewritten, and transformed. In this episode, Chris and Tam open up about how past relationships, heartbreaks, and experiences shaped who they are today, and how they created space for something healthy and new.

You’ll hear real talk about:

• Healing old emotional wounds before (and during) a new relationship
• Letting go of fear, walls, and old patterns
• How past experiences shape trust and communication
• The POWER of therapy and doing the work
• Taking responsibility in your relationships, even the ones that didn't work out

In this week's He Said / She Said, Chris and Tam discuss: Should you tell your partner everything about your past? Is it disrespectful? Is it complicated? Who sets the boundaries?

This episode is real, vulnerable, honest, and full of the kind of grown love that makes healing possible.

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Navigating love as a blended couple is beautiful…and sometimes it can be a little complicated. In this episode, Chris and Tam get real about what it’s like merging two worlds, adult children, grandkids, families, traditions, expectations, and all the holiday energy that comes with it.

From balancing traditions to setting boundaries with extended family and managing old relationships, they share how they stay connected while honoring the people they love.

You’ll hear honest conversations about:

• The reality of blending adult children and grandchildren
• Creating new traditions without disrespecting old ones
• Setting boundaries with exes and extended family

In this week's He Said / She Said, Chris and Tam dive into a debate most couples avoid:

How do you manage new relationships when your family still has relationships with your ex? Is it disrespectful? Is it complicated? Who sets the boundaries?

As always, this episode is full of truth, laughter, and, of course, LOVE!

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Friendships shift when your relationship gets serious — and nobody talks about it enough. In this episode, Chris and Tam go deep on how to balance friendships, protect your relationship energy, and set respectful boundaries without losing yourself (or your people).

They break down the real dynamics that show up once you’re committed, including changing friend groups, how much access people should have to your relationship, and how to tell when outside energy is starting to disrupt the vibe between you and your partner.

You’ll hear real talk about:

• How friendships evolve once you're truly building with someone
• The difference between control and healthy boundaries
• Opposite-sex friendships and what respect really looks like
• Protecting the peace inside your relationship

In this week's He Said / She Said, Chris and Tam tackle the big question:

What happens when a breakup happens in your friendship group? Are you still hanging out with both people? Which one are you inviting to your party?

This episode is full of truth, laughter and of course, a whole lot of LOVE!

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They live together. They love together. And yes… they work together too!

In this first full episode, Chris and Tam dive into what it really takes to build a healthy relationship and a thriving business as a couple.

From clashing communication styles to early growing pains, they get honest about the challenges, the surprises, and the beautiful lessons they’ve learned along the way. They also open up about their DISC personalities, how those differences show up in their day-to-day life, and the systems they’ve created to stay connected while getting things done.

You’ll laugh, nod your head, and probably see your own relationship somewhere in this conversation. Love and business can coexist, but not without intention, patience, and a whole lot of grace.

Tune in for the real talk, the relatable moments, and their first “He Said / She Said” debate of the season: Do couples have to have the same circle of friends?

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In this Introduction Episode, meet Chris and Tam, soulmates in life, love, and business, who are inviting you into their world. Learn how they met, how a wrong text message sparked the connection, and why they decided to open their conversations to the world.

What does grown, intentional love sound like? Real conversations about love, life, partnership, purpose, and building something meaningful together, with honesty, a little humor, and a lot of love and laughter. This episode sets the tone for everything to come.

Each week they share their story, their chemistry, and the heart behind The Soul’d Out Show.

Watch the "Meet Chris & Tam" video on our IG https://www.instagram.com/reel/DRQLBlICUkU/?igsh=Z3JtYms4dnpha3lz

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