We’ve all dealt with toxic people.

The narcissists. The manipulators. The gaslighters. The ones who drain your energy and leave you questioning everything.

So we do what we’ve been taught: Set boundaries. Cut them off. Stay away.

Because toxic people never change, right?

But what if we’ve been thinking about this all wrong?

What if the real issue isn’t about who’s toxic—but rather the dynamic you have with them?

Think about it like this: Every relationship has an expiration date. And when you keep engaging past that expiration date, things start to go sour.

You feel drained. Annoyed. Resentful. Not because they’re toxic—but because you didn’t respect your limit.

In today’s Spiritual Perspective, I’m offering a completely different way to think about so-called toxic people and why protecting your peace isn’t about changing them, but about recognizing when the connection has expired.

If you’ve ever struggled with difficult people in your life, this episode is for you.

Have you ever had someone snap at you for no apparent reason? One moment, you're minding your business, and the next, you're caught in the crossfire of someone else’s frustration. It feels personal, but what if it’s not? In this episode of The Spiritual Perspective, we explore why emotional reactions are rarely about you and more about unresolved wounds, past experiences, and personal worldviews.

From George Bush’s misunderstood peace sign in Australia to a stranger projecting family frustrations during a routine flight, this episode highlights how people filter words and actions through their own lenses. You'll learn why it's crucial not to take things personally and how staying grounded can transform conflict into connection.

By shifting your perspective, you’ll discover the freedom that comes from managing your own awareness instead of reacting defensively. Tune in to explore how understanding this simple truth can make life feel lighter and relationships more harmonious.

Have you ever considered getting back with an ex?

If so, you’ve probably heard it all:

“Move on.”
“Leave the past behind.”
“They don’t deserve another chance.”

Maybe that’s true.

Or maybe, there are very good reasons to revisit a former relationship.

I’ve been there myself—breaking up, getting back together, more times than I can count.

And to be honest? I’ve never regretted it.

It all comes down to why you’re considering it.

There are constructive reasons to go back—and plenty of reasons not to.

And that’s where the spiritual perspective comes in.

It helps us move beyond the black-and-white thinking that often clouds these decisions.

In today’s Spiritual Perspective video, we’re exploring all sides of this scenario.

So, if you’re on the fence about revisiting the past—whether it’s a relationship, an old career, or another chapter of your life—this short, 8-minute episode is for you.

This week on The Spiritual Perspective, we’re diving into a question many of us wrestle with:

Why do certain people trigger us so intensely?

And what can we learn from it?

Whether it’s public figures like Elon Musk or people in our daily lives, our emotional reactions often reveal more about our inner world than the person themselves. In this episode, we explore how triggers can serve as mirrors, reflecting unresolved parts of ourselves.

You’ll gain insights into how to shift from judgment to understanding, how to find compassion even when it feels impossible, and how recognizing someone's positive traits can help you respond thoughtfully, stay grounded, and handle challenging situations with clarity and confidence. 

If you’ve ever felt frustrated or angry with someone, this episode shows you how to reflect on those emotions, understand what they reveal about you, and take steps to grow from the experience.

Join me as we explore how to turn emotional triggers into opportunities for self-awareness and deeper connections.

Some people are convinced they have a deeper calling. Others believe purpose is just a Western concept—something we tell ourselves to make life feel more meaningful.

Here’s the truth: No hard scientific proof exists that everyone has a purpose.

And yet—there are countless examples of people who’ve gone through unimaginable hardship, only to look back and say, That experience gave my life meaning.

So, what’s really going on here?

Most people get stuck on the idea that purpose is something they need to find. They think it’s about landing the right job, making millions, or leaving a legacy.

But that’s not how it works.

They also assume that only the privileged have access to purpose.

Or that if they don’t have some grand mission, they must be missing out.

But what if purpose isn’t about what you do—but how you show up?

That’s what we’re exploring in this week’s episode of The Spiritual Perspective.

Manifesting gets a bad rap—mostly because people slap random stuff on a vision board and expect “the universe” to deliver like Amazon Prime.

Here’s the truth: There’s no hard scientific proof that manifesting works.

But—there is research showing how your attention might be shaping your reality without you even realizing it.

And here’s where most people go off the rails when attempting to manifest:

• They focus too much on making life cushier.
• They put too much faith in affirmations.
• They ignore the one factor that separates daydreaming from actually making sh*t happen.
• Oh, and they completely misinterpret the Law of Attraction.

I don’t want you stuck in a spiritually immature approach to manifesting, wondering why it’s not working.

So this week on The Spiritual Perspective, I’m breaking down what manifesting really is—and how to make it actually work for you.

Life can change in an instant—sometimes in ways we hope for, like meeting the right person or finding new opportunities, and sometimes in ways we dread, like losing a home or facing heartbreak. Change is the only constant, and no amount of financial security can shield us from the emotional and spiritual challenges that come with it.

This week’s Spiritual Perspective explores the concept of “inner insurance”—a form of resilience that money can’t buy but is crucial for navigating life’s twists and turns.

Here’s what we cover:

• Why true security comes from within, not from external stability.
• The hidden value of life’s hardest moments for spiritual growth.
• How simple daily practices, like meditation or gratitude, build the inner strength to handle anything.

Think of it like physical fitness: just as consistent exercise prepares you for physical challenges, inner work prepares you for life’s uncertainties. The beauty is, your “insurance payment” can be as small as a few minutes a day—a walk, a kind act, or a moment of stillness.

So, what’s your inner insurance plan? Are you making those daily investments, or could this perspective inspire a shift?

Have you ever felt like your world was falling apart? From natural disasters to personal loss, it’s easy to view destruction as purely negative. But what if destruction is part of a bigger process?

In this week’s Spiritual Perspective, I explore the idea that nothing “bad” ever really happens—because what seems like destruction is often the beginning of transformation.

Here’s what you’ll learn:

• The three universal cycles: creation, maintenance, and destruction—and why they’re necessary for growth.
• How challenges in your life may be your personal “chrysalis,” breaking you down to build you back up.
• Why transformation requires discomfort—and how it prepares you to become a spiritual warrior.

If you’ve ever faced hardship that later shaped you into a stronger, wiser version of yourself, this perspective might resonate with you.

One of the biggest misconceptions we carry into relationships is the idea that our partner is there to make us happy. When they don’t meet this expectation, it’s easy to assume that there’s someone “better” out there—someone with fewer flaws, more compatibility, and better “customer service.”

But here’s the truth: Everyone has flaws, including you. And no matter who you’re with, you’ll eventually have to face the same lessons—because relationships aren’t about perfection; they’re about growth.

In this week’s Spiritual Perspective, I explore: 

• Why chasing “better” often leads to the same challenges.
• The illusion of perfection, especially in highly attractive people.
• How matching values—not appearances or resources—is the true key to a lasting connection.

If this resonates, take a moment to reflect on the role of flaws in your relationships. Are they frustrating obstacles—or opportunities for deeper growth and understanding?

We’ve all been there…

It’s the heat of the moment. Tempers are flying high. Raw honesty gets expressed. 

Things are said that you’ve been wanting to say for a while. Maybe your feelings get hurt. And then, somebody says it:

This isn’t working. We’ve tried. But I’m done! I think we should break up.

And then, after some time passes, what happens? 

Well, if you’re an aware, thoughtful, spiritually-minded person – which I’m assuming, if you’re subscribed to this newsletter, you at least aspire to be – then you start reflecting. 

You start wondering, did I over-react? Did they over-react? 

Was it just a big misunderstanding? Are you actually meant to be together? Or not?

There are so many questions. So many considerations. But… 

Are you even asking the right questions, so that you can arrive at the right conclusion for you?

Because that will make all the difference in whether you decide that it’s best to give it one more go, versus realizing that it’s beyond time to go your separate ways... 

That’s the subject of this week’s Spiritual Perspective. To hear which considerations you want to make before deciding to get back together, listen to this episode.