We sit down with J.T. Olson—founder of Both Hands Ministry—to hear how one man turned the deepest pain of losing both parents at age 12 into a nationwide movement that has transformed the lives of thousands of orphans and widows.
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Have you ever felt called to make a difference, but wondered HOW you could truly help those in need? Do you want to know what real, faith-driven purpose looks like for Christian men in this generation? Are you eager to discover a practical, life-changing “adoption hack” that’s rewriting stories and reuniting families? THIS is the episode for you!

We get real about loss, grief, faith, and how a simple idea—fixing a widow’s house—has helped over 1,500 children find their forever homes while serving nearly 2,000 widows. Learn how J.T. Olson’s personal story and God-given passion became Both Hands, a ministry that allows ANYONE to roll up their sleeves and join the solution.

What You’ll Experience in This Episode:
From Tragedy to Transformation: How the worst day of J.T. Olson’s life became fuel for a ministry that’s helped over 1,500 kids find their forever families and served 1,800+ widows!
The “Golf Roast” That Sparked a Movement: Hear the hilarious and humbling story of how one friend’s honest jab about fundraising catalyzed the genius idea of Both Hands.
A Simple, Game-Changing Blueprint: Step-by-step, J.T. Olson walks us through how anyone can join a widow-serving, adoption-funding project—and why it’s THE alternative to bake sales or GoFundMes.
Healing, Hope & The Power of YES: Discover how God heals deep wounds and uses them—not just for your story, but for the rescue of others.
Why Your Group (or You Alone) Can Make a Difference: Whether you’re longing to serve, love building stuff, or just want to see “the Church in ACTion,” you’ll learn how to get involved—one Saturday at a time.
Spiritual Takeaway: The surprising freedom found in serving when there’s “nothing in it for you”—and why true faith is defined by showing up for orphans and widows.

🌟 EPISODE LINKS & RESOURCES:
Start your journey—How can I get involved? 
https://bothhands.org/ 
Ready to volunteer or serve? 
Click “Start a Project” at https://bothhands.org 
Free resources to accelerate your growth: 
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Get J.T. Olson’s book: The Orphan, The Widow, and Me: https://amzn.to/48wD4R8
Looking for matching funds or ways to multiply your impact? Explore Both Hands’ website—raise support for families and help more children & widows! https://bothhands.org

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Was this episode the breakthrough you needed? Drop your story or questions in the comments! 
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Timestamps: 
00:00 "Adoption Hack: Transform Lives"
04:02 "Mom and Dad Are Dead"
07:41 "Grounded Essence for Children"
09:51 Adopting Four Moldovan Siblings
14:04 "Donations for Community Projects"
18:54 Finding Purpose Through Service
22:01 "Community Groups Making a Difference"
24:37 "True Faith Through Loving Action"
26:12 Faith, Growth, and Redemption
29:40 Ambitious Annual Project Goals
33:12 "The Orphan, Widow, and Me"


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Are you a high-performing man who’s crushing it in your career, but silently suffering in your marriage, relationships, or spiritual life? Wondering why success leaves you empty, distracted, or disconnected—even from those you love most? In this raw and transformational episode, hosts Tim Bisagno and Stewart White sit down with special guest Vince Del Monte (elite fitness entrepreneur, men’s coach, and author) for an unfiltered look at what happens when your identity is defined by achievement…and how you can break free.

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Join us as Vince Del Monte courageously shares his own story of hitting rock bottom—a dream home, thriving business, and picture-perfect life shattered by brokenness, emotional rejection, and loss. If you’re searching for peace, meaning, and reconciliation in the midst of pressure, THIS episode will hit home.

What You’ll Discover in This Conversation:

• The dark side of winning at work—real stories of men who sacrifice family for hustle, and the devastating wake-up calls that follow 
• Vince Del Monte’s fight for his marriage: What ultimate rejection taught him about masculine identity, control, and the power of humility 
• How performance-driven living triggers anxiety, emotional instability, and relational breakdown even in men with the “perfect life” 
• Why being a provider isn’t enough—and the dangerous myth that success at any cost means love at home 
• The journey from shame and self-medication to true vulnerability: practical steps to reconnect with God, yourself, and the people who matter most 
• Why men avoid the “mirror”—and how facing the hardest truths unlocks authentic healing, freedom, and real strength 
• Building a business (and life) that SERVES you, not consumes you—Vince’s blueprint for sustainable success and fulfillment 
• What the parable of the talents really means for multiplication, faithfulness, and finding purpose beyond money or status 
• The critical importance of rest, surrender, and rooting your identity in Christ—not your achievements (includes a Gospel invitation for men ready to find hope)

This isn’t just another motivational talk—it’s an honest map for every man ready to break cycles of isolation, reclaim lost relationships, and build a legacy that actually lasts.

🌟 EPISODE LINKS & RESOURCES:

• Ready to start your journey with Jesus? https://standupdude.com/stand
• Free resources for men: https://standupdude.com/be-more
• Connect with Vince Del Monte and discover how his coaching can help you: https://vincedelmonte.com/
• Explore Vince’s powerful men’s programs: https://vincedelmontefitness.com/

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Did Vince’s story challenge you? Drop your comments below, share this episode, and SUBSCRIBE for more conversations that confront what real manhood means.

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Don’t wait until everything crashes. The cost is too high. Get inspired by Vince’s vulnerable journey, and take your first step towards becoming the man you were made to be.

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TIMESTAMPS:
00:00 "Rebuilding Life from Within"
05:30 "Unintended Honesty and Regret"
08:01 "I Don't Need Help"
11:27 "Realizing the Need to Change"
15:00 Men, Insecurity, and Contentment
19:12 Women's Sacrifice and Marital Strain
21:57 "Value of Self and Vulnerability"
25:12 Balanced Life and Vulnerability
29:04 Truth, Sin, Freedom, and Community
30:00 Sin, Separation, and Connection
35:37 "Rebuilding Through Self-Compassion"
39:11 Downsizing: A Challenging Gift
40:16 "What Do You Truly Want?"
44:19 "Surrender and Divine Guidance"
47:45 "Surrendering Fear to Build Again"
51:27 Investing in What Matters
52:22 Sacrifice and Faithful Investment
57:52 "Invitation to Know Jesus"
58:44 "Faith, Redemption, and Renewal"

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In this eye-opening episode of the Stand Up Dude Podcast, we're joined by relationship coach and Emmy-winning animator Joe Barruso (Saving Grace Counseling) for a brutally honest conversation about success, emptiness, and finding ultimate freedom through Jesus.

Have you ever chased success—a career, achievements, the right relationship—and still felt like something was missing? Have you hit “rock bottom” in your marriage, battled with pride, or wondered if true transformation is even possible? Joe Barruso has lived that story, and today, he’s here to walk you through the raw process that took him from Hollywood highs to personal breakdown… and ultimately to healing, hope, and a new identity as a man rooted in Christ.

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What You’ll Discover in This Episode:

• Joe Barruso’s journey from Emmy-winning animator (Where On Earth Is Carmen Sandiego?, Disney’s Mighty Ducks) to marriage counselor with a radical testimony of brokenness, pride, and renewal
• The moment Joe faced the end of his marriage AND the end of his self-sufficiency—learning why worldly success can’t fill the spiritual void • Why “pride as protector” is sabotaging men’s lives, marriages, and walk with God—and how humility is the only path to true change
• The difference between worldly love (transactional, self-serving) and God’s love (giving without expectation)—and how embracing God’s design restores relationships
• Practical wisdom for men who feel stuck, numb, ashamed, or afraid: how to take the first courageous step toward healing, confession, and repentance • Real talk on looking inward, accepting responsibility, and why loving your wife is the truest evidence of loving God
• The gospel’s power to heal wounds, break cycles of shame, and give you new purpose—even if you’ve failed or lost everything
• Why marriage is a spiritual calling—and how laying down your pride is the key to lasting joy and connection
• Actionable steps for husbands, fathers, and single men longing for more in life, faith, and relationships
• A clear invitation to begin (or restart) your relationship with Jesus—plus resources to fuel your growth

This is NOT just another marriage advice episode. It’s a raw, redemptive testimony and a call for men who are tired of pretending, tired of the emptiness, and ready to discover the freedom, courage, and purpose they were made for.

Are you ready to step out of the shadows and into real transformation? Your breakthrough starts now.
EPISODE LINKS & RESOURCES:

• Start your relationship with Jesus: https://standupdude.com/standup
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• Connect with Joe Barruso & Saving Grace Counseling: https://savinggracecounseling.com/
• Marriage in crisis? Explore Marriage Intensives at Saving Grace Counseling

Take Action:
Has Joe’s story stirred something in you? Drop your thoughts in the comments! Like, subscribe, and share this episode with a man (or couple) who needs real hope and healing. Need prayer or resources? Email: [email protected]
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Thank you for being part of Stand Up Dude—a podcast calling men to rise up, reject lies, find real joy, and lead with uncompromising faith in a world that desperately needs it. You are not alone, you are not beyond hope, and now is your time to take your stand.
The Kingdom needs men who LIVE FREE. It starts today.
Stay bold. Stay dangerous—for the glory of God.
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TIMESTAMPS:
00:00 "Facing Divorce and Self-Reflection"
05:24 Faith, Marriage, and Deep Change
07:30 "Guidance During Personal Struggles"
09:53 "Love Your Wife, Love God"
14:29 Loving Without Reciprocity Transforms
19:11 Truth, Grace, Love, and Humility
20:01 "Wrestling with God and Pride"
24:44 "Emmy Win: Beginning of End"
28:31 "Creative Frustrations at Disney"
29:40 Fired, Unraveling, Return to NY
33:50 Practical Wisdom for Relationships
36:26 Fear and Pride in Men
42:44 "Road Trip Memory in Nevada"
44:04 Saving Grace Counseling Services
47:36 "Jesus Brings Life and Healing"

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Struggling after divorce? Feeling stuck in shame, regret, or the pain of lost connection with your kids? Wondering if there’s hope for men to not just survive—but THRIVE—even when life knocks you down? THIS is your episode.

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In this raw and life-changing episode, hosts Tim Bisagno and Stewart White welcome Dr. Brooks Tiller—a coach, outdoorsman, healer, and brother in Christ—who’s dedicated his life to helping men rebuild and reclaim purpose after divorce, setbacks, and heartache.Whether you’re single, married, or divorced, if you’re a man who’s faced dark nights of the soul or walked through seasons of loss, you’ll discover authentic wisdom, practical steps, and real hope. Dr. Brooks shares his journey through the trenches, why every man needs a “band of brothers,” and how to get up—even when life lands its hardest punches.

What You’ll Experience in This Episode:

• The True Battle Men Face After Divorce: Learn why divorce deeply wounds a man’s heart, and discover the spiritual and emotional keys to healing, connection, and moving forward.
• How to Be Tougher Than Life: Dr. Brooks exposes the dangerous myths about “fake toughness” and reveals how perseverance, vulnerability, and real brotherhood unlock the strength men truly need.
• The Power of Band of Brothers: Why every man needs “shovel friends”—men you can call at 2AM when life goes sideways. Discover concrete ways to build genuine, life-giving brotherhood (and how to go FIRST).
• Secrets to Rebuilding with Your Kids: After divorce, most men ache for fresh connection with their children. Hear how Brooks and others have navigated this bittersweet season—and what it means to model courage, presence, and hope.
• Small Steps That Change Your Life: Practical, day-one actions for men stuck in shame, failure, regret, or feeling lost. Learn how to look yourself in the mirror, speak life, and reclaim your self-worth.
• Overcoming the Lie of “Not Enough”: How to recognize—and DEFEAT—the inner critic and the enemy’s lies about your future, purpose, and value.• Living Abundantly—No Matter the Pain: Discover how Jesus’ promise of “life to the full” applies when you’re at rock bottom, and get reminded why your story isn’t over yet. (John 10:10)
• Guided Path Forward: Find out why Dr. Brooks wrote his transformative 30-day journal, FORWARD, specifically for men recovering from divorce, grief, and heartbreak—and how you can use it for the next step on your journey.

🔗 EPISODE LINKS & RESOURCES:

Ready to start your journey forward? https://standupdude.com/standup
Grab Dr. Brooks Tiller’s 30-day journal “Forward”: https://divorceddisciples.com/forward
Local to Middle Tennessee?
Need physical therapy, coaching, or a true “battle buddy” for body and soul?
Connect with Dr. Brooks: https://drbrookstiller.com/
Order the book, join the brotherhood, and find more resources: https://divorceddisciples.com/⚡️ 

Connect & Take Action:

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Drop your thoughts and encouragement in the comments!  

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If you’re ready to rise above pain, reconnect with your kids, your faith, and your sense of purpose, START HERE. Watch now, and share your journey—let’s move forward together.

Timestamps:
00:00 "Thriving Through Life’s Challenges"
04:18 "Writing to Share Faith"
08:00 "Guiding Men Through Divorce"
10:08 "Nature and Challenges Are Equalizers"
14:37 "Value Trusted Support Systems"
17:07 "Pay It Forward Message"
22:23 "Self-Reflection and Personal Growth"
23:50 "Leading by Personal Example"
27:34 Overflowing Abundance Illustration
31:08 "Reassurance of God's Presence"
33:46 Jiu Jitsu: Community and Care
39:15 "Disciple Above Divorce Stigma"
40:01 Church Divorce Support Program

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In this redemptive episode, we welcome Dr. Brooks Gibbs—renowned youth counselor, resilience expert, and creator of Good Gamer—to tackle gaming rage, mental health, resilience in gaming, and the real-life tragedies facing young people (and their parents) in today’s digital world.

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If you or someone you love has struggled with gaming addiction, rage quitting, anxiety, or the heartbreak of suicide—this conversation could literally change a life. Dr. Gibbs unpacks the real stories behind the headlines, the “why” behind the alarming rise in youth suicide, and shares hope-filled insights for healing, resilience, and victory—from the virtual world to real life.
What You’ll Experience in This Episode:

• How a Fortnite tragedy led to a global movement—the true story behind the FREE Good Gamer mental health certification for gamers and parents
• Why suicide rates among 10-14 year olds are soaring—and what you can do to protect your kids (and yourself)
• The truth about gaming rage, perfectionism, rejection, and “catastrophic thinking”—and the simple A-B-C tool that can rewire your mind for resilience
• Powerful mindset shifts for competitive young men—so you can play to win, bounce back from loss, and avoid dangerous emotional spirals
• Why moderation—not outlawing gaming—is the wisest path for parents (and how to talk with your kids, even if you don’t “get” games)
• Real talk about digital dopamine, the trap of instant gratification, and reconnecting with the wild, beautiful world God made
• The soul-deep roots of anger, self-loathing, addiction, and broken identity—and how the gospel answers them all
• • Practical steps dads (and moms) can take today to guide your gamer, build trust, and model Christlike emotional strength
• The one thing every child (and every man) craves—and why Jesus is the only One who truly satisfies
• A clear, hope-filled invitation to start (or re-start) a journey with Christ—if you’ve reached the end of yourself, or just want more from life

This isn’t just a lesson in mental health—it’s a blueprint for fathers, sons, and every man or young person ready to rise above the chaos and find their true identity, strength, and joy. The digital world isn’t going away—so let’s raise a generation equipped to win…and to heal.

🌟 EPISODE LINKS & RESOURCES:
— Get Good Gamer FREE Certification: https://goodgamer.org
— Start your journey with Jesus: https://standupdude.com/standup
— Free resources & growth paths: https://standupdude.com/be-more
— Brooks Gibbs—connect & learn more: https://brooksgibbs.com/
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⚡️ Connect & Take Action:
Did this episode hit home? Drop your thoughts & questions in the comments, and don’t forget to like, subscribe, and share this life-changing message with a gamer, parent, or friend who needs it most.

— Email: [email protected]
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Thank you for being part of the Stand Up Dude brotherhood!
You are not alone. You are not your failures. You are chosen, accepted, and fiercely loved by God. Let’s reclaim what it means to be men of strength, grace, and unwavering purpose, in the digital age, and beyond.

Stay bold. Stay dangerous—for the Kingdom.

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Timestamps:
00:00 "Fortnite Rage Tragedy"
05:59 "Guidance for Gamers and Parents"
06:46 "Managing Emotional Disturbances Yourself"
10:30 Understanding Rage Quit Motivations
16:38 "Rebounding from Losses"
17:20 "Perspective on Gaming Losses"
23:07 Temptation, Struggles, and Fairness
26:25 "Reality vs. Digital Illusion"
28:52 "Lost Wonder and Connection"
32:16 Youth Suicide: Causes and Struggles
34:06 "Identity and Purpose in God"
38:12 "Finding Myself Beyond Numbness"
43:18 "50 Cent Shared My Video"
43:49 God's Work to Reach Humanity
49:03 Free Certification Course Available
50:19 "Certified Good Gamer Program"


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Gen Z’s Quiet Revival: Why Young Men Are Flooding Back to Church | Stand Up Dude Podcast ft. Caden Chambers

Christian Revival | Gen Z Faith | Young Men in Church | Spiritual Awakening | Finding Purpose | Modern Masculinity | Stand Up Dude Podcast

In this inspiring episode of the Stand Up Dude Podcast, hosts Tim Bisagno and Stewart White introduce a guest who’s always been behind the scenes—podcast editor, engineer, and electric guitarist, Caden Chambers. If you care about Gen Z, Christian revival, and what it means for young men to rediscover their faith and purpose, this is the episode you cannot miss.

From the worship stage to the editing desk, Caden's journey captures the urgency and authenticity sweeping through his generation. Are you wondering why so many young men are coming back to church? Want to discover how your own talents and passions can be turned into a purposeful life for God, even in a skeptical world? Caden’s story—raw, honest, and hope-filled—gives you the road map.

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What You’ll Experience in This Episode:

• • Gen Z’s Search for Truth: Why are young adults ditching empty identities and fake fixes for something real—Jesus? Caden explains the hunger behind the “quiet revival” and what it really feels like on the front lines.
• Why Young Men Are Returning to Church in Droves: Discover new data and powerful stories of young men finding brotherhood, belonging, and boldness in Christ like never before.
• Faith in Action: How Caden’s passion for guitar and media editing are being used in the church and beyond—and how YOU can find purpose in your own God-given talents.
• Authenticity over Image: Honest talk about temptations, sin, and the emptiness the world offers—versus the transforming love and hope found in Christ.
• Marriage & Maturity: Caden opens up about his engagement, the journey of Godly dating, and how walking with a woman of faith is sharpening him as a man.
• Mentorship & Community: Why surrounding yourself with wise mentors and strong Christian community is critical for growth—and how to take the first step.
• The Power of “Yes”: Simple, practical keys for trusting God in every season—even when the next step is scary or unclear.
• A Generation Set on Fire: From viral Christian music stats to fraternities hosting altar calls: real numbers, real testimonies, and what’s next for this unprecedented spiritual awakening.
• The Heart of the Gospel: Caden’s heartfelt invitation to say “yes” to Jesus, plus a powerful prayer for anyone longing for a fresh start.

Are you a young man searching for meaning, tired of chasing false promises? Do you want to be part of a movement that’s changing culture and reclaiming true masculinity—one heart at a time? This is YOUR wake-up call.

🌟 EPISODE LINKS & RESOURCES
Start your journey with Jesus: https://standupdude.com/standup
Free resources to become the man God made you to be: https://standupdude.com/be-more
Connect with us:
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Facebook: facebook.com/standupdude

📣 Did this episode inspire you?
Share your story or questions in the comments! Hit LIKE, SUBSCRIBE, and share this episode with the young men (or leaders) in your life who need courage and hope. You were made for more.
Stay bold. Live on purpose. The time is NOW.

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Timestamps:
00:00 "Thoughts on Caden Chambers"
03:20 "Trustworthy Visionary Who Delivers"
06:36 Faith, Growth, and Change
10:16 "Illusion and Redemption"
14:20 "Using Gifts for God's Kingdom"
18:06 "Churches Nurture and Equip Gifts"
20:47 Trusting God's Plan
24:05 Faith, Growth, and Godly Love
27:11 "Future-Focused Relationship Choices"
29:03 Find Trustworthy Role Models
35:08 "Seed, Sacrifice, and Gospel"
37:17 Using Your Gifts for God
40:27 "You Deserve All of Me"
43:34 "Jesus Offers Grace to All"
45:21 "Say Yes to God's Love"
48:30 "Share Jesus With Friends"

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What do video games, gaming addiction, apologetics, and masculinity have in common?

In this groundbreaking episode of the Stand Up Dude Podcast, hosts Tim Bisagno and Stewart White dive deep with special guest Jordan Harris—veteran, former gamer, and passionate apologist—to reveal how the world of online gaming is becoming a modern-day mission field for men seeking purpose, brotherhood, and faith.

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Are you a gamer wondering if there’s more to life than the next level? Have you struggled to find real meaning, brotherhood, or fulfillment as a man in a culture that seems to suffocate true masculinity—and push faith to the margins? Maybe you’ve felt the lure of gaming as an escape, or sensed there’s a hunger for something real beneath all the digital noise…

THIS is the episode for you. We get honest about the hidden struggles facing men today, the explosive growth (and pitfalls) of modern gaming, and why the calling to live with “humble strength” has never been more urgent. This conversation will challenge you, inspire you, and equip you to step into your God-given purpose—online and beyond.

What You’ll Discover in This Game-Changing Episode:
🎮 Why Gaming Is the World’s Biggest Unseen Mission Field
How gaming now outpaces movies, sports, and music combined—and why it’s where millions of men are searching for meaning, challenge, and connection.

🕹 The Real Reasons Men Flock to Gaming
From the innate drive to accomplish something—to the deep need for brotherhood—hear why digital spaces matter for men, and how they can build up (or break down) your sense of purpose.

🚨 When Escape Becomes Addiction: Breaking the Cycle
Jordan’s honest story of stepping out of gaming addiction, why men are vulnerable to digital escapes, and practical steps to reclaim your time, mental health, and hope.

⚡ Masculinity Under Fire: The Battle for Men’s Souls
Tackling the culture’s attack on true manhood—and unpacking the biblical call to “meekness” (humble, controlled strength) versus mere “niceness.”

✝️ Jesus in the Gaming World: Apologetics, Ministry & Real Transformation
Jordan’s unique testimony of leading men to Christ in gaming communities—how kindness, presence, and authenticity are opening doors for the gospel where few churches ever go.
The power of “just being a good man” and letting your actions speak louder than words.

💪 Practical Keys to Real Freedom & Fulfillment
From finding healthy hobbies to surrounding yourself with real-life responsibilities and brotherhood—Jordan shares tangible wisdom for men wanting to rise up, break free, and pursue God’s best.

🔥 A Clear, No-Fluff Presentation of the Gospel
Struggling with faith or curious about Jesus? This episode walks you through the greatest story ever told — and invites you to find your new beginning today.

This isn’t just another conversation about the dangers of gaming—it’s a radical call to use every space (even digital!) for the Kingdom. Whether you’re a gamer, a father desperate to reclaim your sense of purpose, or a young man longing for authentic masculinity and faith… this episode is your invitation to stand up, step out, and be counted.

🚀 EPISODE LINKS & RESOURCES
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It’s time to reclaim your story. Rise up. Live dangerous—for the Kingdom.

#ChristianGamers #Masculinity #ChristianManhood #FaithAndGaming #StandUpDudePodcast #BiblicalManhood #Jesus #Apologetics #Gospel #OnlineMinistry #BreakingAddiction #Purpose #MenOfFaith #GamingAddiction

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TIMESTAMPS:
00:00 "Gaming's Accessibility and Monetization"
05:33 "Video Games and Masculinity"
07:55 Gaming as Escape for Masculinity
11:06 "Family, Support, and Transformation"
15:22 Controlled Power
17:17 "Meekness and Power Analogy"
22:34 Gaming as Escape for Men
25:41 "Gaming Friends to Community"
26:33 "Gaming Community and Faith"
30:35 Grace Overcomes Baser Needs
34:12 Kindness as Christian Witness
36:44 "Finding Jesus and His Voice"
43:04 "Trying Many Paths in Life"
44:33 "Finding Purpose 


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Are you a man struggling to find real purpose, haunted by past trauma, or constantly wrestling with your identity? Have you felt trapped by labels, longed for authentic brotherhood, or wondered if true freedom and transformation are even possible? In this powerful episode of the Stand Up Dude Podcast, we sit down with combat veteran, theology graduate, and North Arrow Coffee founder Robert Mitterando for an unfiltered conversation on overcoming PTSD, breaking free from victimhood, and embracing radical discipleship as a follower of Christ.

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Want to experience radical generosity and incredible coffee?
→ North Arrow Coffee: https://northarrowcoffee.co/

If you’re searching for encouragement, practical tools, and raw truth on how to walk as the man God created you to be—THIS is the episode you can’t afford to miss.

What You’ll Experience in This Episode:

• • PTSD & Trauma—The Untold Truth: Robert exposes the biggest misconceptions surrounding PTSD and trauma, sharing how combat experiences and personal failure led him into self-medication, addiction, and hopelessness—and how Christ’s lordship shattered the chains.
• Masculinity Redefined: Discover why true masculinity isn’t about bravado, military achievements, or worldly success—but about standing in the truth, walking in vulnerability, and living wholly surrendered to Jesus.
• From Label to Liberation: Hear Robert’s brutally honest account of claiming “PTSD” as an identity—and the moment God confronted him with, “Really?” Learn how to break free from false identities and choose who Christ says you are.
• Discipleship That Transforms: Get a first-century insider’s view on biblical discipleship: how real men reflect Jesus in every area—and why being a disciple goes far beyond Sunday attendance or religious labels.
• Radical Generosity & Kingdom Business: Explore how Robert’s faith revolutionizes his approach to business, money, and stewardship—including why North Arrow Coffee gives away 15% of proceeds and operates with Spirit-led generosity. • Community & Brotherhood: Practical advice for finding authentic, Spirit-filled men, building real community, and letting iron sharpen iron—so you don’t walk alone.
• Overcoming Addiction & Anxiety: Tim and Robert get honest about alcoholism, anxiety, and the daily battle for gratitude and freedom—giving hope to men battling darkness.
• A Call to Boldness: Learn why rebellion and apathy destroy more lives than atheism—and how to reject lukewarm Christianity and live a life that actually looks like Jesus.
• Take Your Next Step: Plus, a simple, powerful invitation to know Jesus personally, pray for transformation, and access free resources for your own journey—no matter where you start.

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Was this conversation a breakthrough for you? Share in the comments below!
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We’re a brotherhood calling men to rise up, live boldly, and reject every label the world tries to put on them. Jesus changes everything—will YOU answer the call?

Stay bold. Stay dangerous—for the Kingdom.

#PTSDRecovery #ChristianManhood #CombatVeteran #StandUpDudePodcast #BiblicalMasculinity #IdentityInChrist #RadicalGenerosity #Discipleship #MenOfCourage #FaithOverFear #HealingInJesus #NorthArrowCoffee

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Timestamps:
00:00 "Marine Corps Over College Fears"
05:53 "Trauma, Idols, and Repentance"
09:18 "Transformed Through Faith and Discipleship"
12:39 Faith, Struggles, and Redemption
14:26 "Sharing Without Emotional Overload"
19:14 "Identity in Christ Explained"
22:51 Identity Rooted in Faith
24:29 "Making Jesus Lord of Life"
28:50 "Discovering Faith Through Community"
30:40 God Teaches When We Ask
34:54 "Everything Belongs to God"
37:14 "Faith-Driven Business Transparency"
42:20 Invitation to Know God
43:23 "Connect, Pray, Grow in Faith"

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Toxic masculinity, is it actually true?

Today, we’re joined by leading Christian intellectual and author Nancy Pearcey. 
Nancy is the author of The Toxic War on Masculinity: How Christianity Reconciles the Sexes, as well as Love Thy Body, The Soul of Science, Saving Leonardo, Finding Truth, and Total Truth. She is professor and scholar in residence at Houston Christian University. She has been quoted in The New Yorker and Newsweek, highlighted as one of the five top women apologists by Christianity Today, and hailed in The Economist as "America's pre-eminent evangelical Protestant female intellectual."

Get Nancy's book, The Toxic War on Masculinity: https://www.amazon.com/Toxic-War-Masculinity-Christianity-Reconciles/dp/0801075734
Discover more from Nancy Pearcey: https://nancypearcey.com

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If you’re questioning what real masculinity looks like in a world that’s confused, hostile, or suspicious toward men… if you’ve wrestled with shame, regret, or silence because of false narratives (inside and outside the church)… or if you long to discover God’s design for masculinity and leadership—THIS is the episode you don’t want to miss.

In this honest, hope-filled conversation with Nancy Pearcey, you’ll get:

• Real DATA that smashes cultural myths about Christian men, church attendance, marriage, and abuse (it’s not what you’ve been told)
• How secular and biblical “scripts” for masculinity diverged, and why reclaiming the GOOD “software” of manhood matters for generations to come
• Nancy’s insights on the modern “crisis of men,” the dangers of the “manosphere,” and how young men are turning to false teachers like Andrew Tate
• Proven ways churchgoing men can shatter stereotypes by becoming the most loving, engaged husbands and fathers (the science backs it!)
• Why history, sociology, and Scripture agree: men are biologically, spiritually, and relationally built to provide, protect, and prosper others
• Practical encouragement for dads and sons: How to build deep connection in an age that mocks and sidelines fathers—and how the “dad brain” is real
• How fathers matter more than ever in shaping faith and character—and the surprising lifelong power of a present, loving dad
• A biblical call to root our identity, strength, and tenderness in Christ—becoming the kind of men, husbands, and fathers our culture desperately needs

WATCH NOW if you want to:

• Understand the culture war on men and how to rise above it, rooted in God’s truth
• Get equipped to disciple men on the “fringes” and draw them from nominal faith to authentic transformation
• Find your voice, calling, and mission as a Christian man—without shame, confusion, or compromise
• Pass on a legacy of courage, wholeness, and Christlike leadership—for your marriage, your kids, and your community

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Get Nancy’s book, The Toxic War on Masculinity: Available on Amazon, ChristianBook, and all major retailers

⚡️ YOUR NEXT STEP:
Did this episode bring you hope or clarity? Are you ready to stand up, break stereotypes, and reshape what it means to be a “stand up dude”? Drop a comment below, LIKE, SUBSCRIBE, and SHARE this episode with a man who needs truth and encouragement today. Join the brotherhood rising to lead with faith, integrity, and love.

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TIMESTAMPS:
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00:00 Christianity's Role in Gender Reconciliation
05:17 "Christian Men and Lower Violence"
08:13 Domestic Abuse Among Nominal Evangelicals
12:51 "Backlash Over Book Release"
13:58 Debating Complementarianism and Masculinity
17:48 Absent Fatherhood's Impact on Family
23:36 Fathers Seek Fulfillment in Parenthood
24:24 Dad Brain: New Neurons and Oxytocin
29:27 "The Impact of Absent Fathers"
31:21 Men Embrace Hybrid Work for Family
35:52 "Jesus: Countercultural Revolutionary"
38:24 "Challenging Historical and Religious Norms"
43:08 "Challenging Secular Masculinity Norms"
46:21 "Emboldened by Truth and Redemption"
47:58 Global Study: Defining "A Good Man"
51:20 Visit Nancy Pearcy's Website

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In this powerful, soul-stirring episode, we welcome award-winning singer, songwriter, and author Matt Hammitt—best known as the voice of Sanctus Real, and for his hit songs as a solo artist—for a conversation every man needs to hear.

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Are you a guy who’s tired of hiding behind “busy”? Have you ever wished you could be more present for your family, break through isolation, and actually lead with spiritual courage? If you’ve struggled with vulnerability, marriage tensions, or simply feel stuck trying to “fix” everything while running from your own hurt—this episode is going to set you free.

Matt Hammitt holds nothing back as he unpacks the real story behind his chart-topping anthem “Lead Me,” the heartbreak and miracles in his family’s journey through his son’s life-threatening illness, and how God used brokenness to forge deeper love, faith, and authenticity. Learn how men can finally lay down the mask, connect with God and each other, and become the strong fathers, husbands, and friends our world desperately needs.

What You’ll Experience in This Episode:

• The honest backstory of “Lead Me”—how Matt’s marriage struggles and moment of truth became the catalyst for genuine change, not just in song but at home 
• Why men run to work and busyness but retreat from real emotional and relational battles—and how to break the pattern 
• Lessons from the fire: How Matt and his wife Sarah’s faith endured years of hospital nights, heartbreak, and nearly losing their son, Bowen 
• Why isolation is the enemy—and why men need brotherhood, vulnerability, and practical community more than ever 
• How sharing your weaknesses can be your family’s greatest shield, raising kids empowered to be honest, resilient, and faith-filled 
• Raw dialogue on grief, marriage tension, fatherhood, and finding hope when your life story isn’t the “highlight reel” 
• A gospel invitation: what it really means to invite Jesus from the “outside” into every part of your life, marriage, and purpose 
• Practical steps for men to step up, get real, and lead by example—plus free resources to help you grow

This is so much more than an interview—it’s a call for every man to lay down fake strength for real courage, and to discover that vulnerability is not weakness, but God’s pathway to strength and legacy. You’re not alone. Your story can be redeemed, and YOU are called to be a Stand Up Dude.

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Ready for a breakthrough as a man of faith? https://standupdude.com/standup
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Discover Matt Hammitt’s music, books, and new single “Days God Gave”: https://matthammitt.com/
"Days God Gave": https://youtu.be/40LntS-7MIQ?si=VfV3qHAlApH3hH1n
Watch the “Bowen’s Heart” documentary (limited availability): Search your favorite streaming platform
Get Matt’s book “Lead Me”: Find it online or visit his site

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Was this episode a challenge for you? Drop your story or questions in the comments! Like, subscribe, and share this episode with a man who needs hope and strength for the road ahead.
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Thank you for being part of the Stand Up Dude brotherhood—a movement that’s raising up men to be real, resilient, and uncompromising in Christ. Remember: There is purpose in your pain. Vulnerability is victory. And you were made to lead, love, and leave a God-sized legacy.

Stay bold. Stay honest. Stay dangerous—for the Kingdom.

#MattHammitt #SanctusReal #LeadMe #ChristianManhood #StandUpDudePodcast #Vulnerability #BiblicalManhood #MenOfFaith #GospelTruth

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Timestamps:
00:00 Support During Hard Times
04:21 Men's Isolation Versus Women's Community
06:28 Men's Excuses for Not Showing Up
10:08 Stage Connection and Personal Vulnerability
15:11 Fighting For Bowen's Heart
17:16 Miracle of Faith and Family
19:34 Struggling to Support as a Team
25:56 Overcoming Barriers to Honest Parenting
27:26 Breaking Generational Vulnerability Cycle
32:56 Balancing Family and Career Dreams
35:49 "Reality Check: Intentions Versus Actions"
39:13 "I Lead Me: A New Ministry"
43:13 Seeking Divine Wisdom Over Self
46:20 Thankful for the Holy Spirit
48:28 "Lead Me: Book and Music Insight"

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